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Anonymous #1

Hating how you look?
    #12006013 - 02/11/10 12:41 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

Does anybody else here hate absolutely everything about how they look?

I'm a female and I want to punch a mirror every time I see myself in it. I fucking hate every single thing about how I look. Sometimes I feel like I would rather die than live another day with this hideous body/face. I'm this fucking tall (5'11) awkward mess, I have no tits or ass and a busted ass face. I would do anything just to be pretty. It eats me up inside every day. I try putting on make up and wearing cute clothes but nothing works. I'm 20 and I've never even had a boyfriend. Guys aren't attracted to me, the best they want from me is a quick lay. I just don't know how live like this. I want to get plastic surgery and change everything about how I look, but I couldn't deal with that level of fake-ness, I don't even feel comfortable wearing a lot of makeup. I feel like I'm going to end up alone my whole life, because no guy could ever get past my ugly looks and maybe find that I'm a little prettier on the inside.

Sorry, I'm just on a bunch of drugs and I'm depressed as fuck. Does anybody else feel this way?


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Anonymous #2

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12006022 - 02/11/10 12:42 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

yea sometimes but just look up mang at least your not black


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Anonymous #3

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #12006164 - 02/11/10 01:02 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

i'm male and i feel that way.  sometimes people are still attracted to me.  even halfway decent looking people.  not often but it happens.

i'll let you in on a secret.  attraction is like 70% easily alterable things.  cute clothes and maybe a tiny bit of make up goes REALLY FAR.  the rest is all posture, tone of voice.

believe me with proper body language and vocal stuff you can land someone pretty decent...

i dunno.  i don't try and attract people.  i dress like a mess and i let myself be ugly.  and girls don't like me and i sit at home and cry about it, but i'm not gonna change.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #12006201 - 02/11/10 01:07 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

oh, also just don't be fat.  you said you had no tits and ass and were pretty tall.  that doesn't matter at all, just don't be fat.

in fact i've been wanting to get with a really tall girl.  i was thinking like 6 somethin though.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #12006257 - 02/11/10 01:17 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #2 said:
yea sometimes but just look up mang at least your not black




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Anonymous #5

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #12006338 - 02/11/10 01:34 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

maybe your cute, but have been too sexually/mentally abused to see that:shrug:

i dunno if i was ugly id fuck a shit ton of ugly girls too

j/kj/k


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Anonymous #6

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12006491 - 02/11/10 02:09 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

I could easily get past your appearance.  Believe it or not, there are men out there who aren't entirely hung up on image.  However, I might have a hard time getting past your insecurity.

If you are ugly, fine.  That's something you have no control over.  You do however, have control of your attitude.  Nobody wants to be around a bitter and insecure person regardless of appearance.

Learn to be happy with what you have.  Maybe it's not the best, but it works and that's enough to be thankful for.

Work on developing other aspects of yourself.  Try to see the benefits of being ugly.  Nothing is "good" or "bad".  Being ugly can grant you perspective and depth (among other things).


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Anonymous #7

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12006837 - 02/11/10 03:31 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

post pics so we can judge how ugly you are or are not.  only by becoming confident in your physical appearance will you be able to improve it.


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Anonymous #8

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12006839 - 02/11/10 03:32 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

If/when you finally do get a man, you'll at least know he likes you for your personality.


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Anonymous #8

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12006857 - 02/11/10 03:35 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

Until then, live for yourself.  It is much easier to show your love and attract a mate when you first love yourself, truly.


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Anonymous #9

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12006870 - 02/11/10 03:37 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #6 said:
You do however, have control of your attitude.  Nobody wants to be around a bitter and insecure person regardless of appearance.




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Anonymous #10

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #12007243 - 02/11/10 07:10 AM (11 years, 25 days ago)

Sort yourself out properly.

First, goto a proper expensive hairstylist. Let them do whatever the fuck they want with your hair.

Second, Ring a decent department store and arrange to use their personal shopper. Its free and they will help you shop for shit that suits your body type.

Third arrenge for a makeup consultation with a professional make up artist. Again, if you are gonna buy their products the consultation is normally free. You could arrnage it for after your personal shopping at the same store. What you need is a set of products that are teh right shades and tones to suit yoru complexion. Simply put, if you feel you are wearing makeup you're doing it wrong.

You only have what you were born with but Posture and Confidence make up for an awfull lot of what you may naturally lack.


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Anonymous #11

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #12007423 - 02/11/10 09:13 AM (11 years, 24 days ago)

How ugly are you? Are you butch or just Fugly?

Quit bitching, lots of people have it worse than you, sister.
Looks aren't everything anyway. I suggest you go to a physchiatrist and get your fucked up mental problems solved first, miss psycho bitch. No man's gonna want an emotionally fucked up girl, 'specially one as Fugly as you are.


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Anonymous #12

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #11]
    #12007465 - 02/11/10 09:32 AM (11 years, 24 days ago)

if looks aren't you thing, there's always guys who personality

although most guys prefer looks, there are those who prefer personality, im one of those rare ones

anyways, you should look at yourself in the mirror and call yourself beautiful

there's guys who will disagree but there will be a quiet guy who wont say anything because he's scared of what you might say or how you react and hell..i dont blame em


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Anonymous #13

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12007988 - 02/11/10 11:54 AM (11 years, 24 days ago)

There are certain fixable things about the way you look.

I have discovered from past girlfriends that taking birth control seems to enlarge your bust size.  Get on the pill and see if your boobies get bigger.

No ass?  Start hitting the gym and tone that ass up.  Would also benefit you to have overall tone and a healthier body.  Exercise will also make you feel generally good and less depressed.

Face you can throw some makeup on to help a bit.

You really should post a picture if you want to get a proper assessment / advice.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #12008048 - 02/11/10 12:06 PM (11 years, 24 days ago)

Thanks for all the advice guys, I feel a bit better. I think I'm going to set aside a day this weekend and go out and buy some good makeup and some flattering clothes that might make me feel better. I suppose I should just learn to accept myself, it's just hard sometimes when you see gorgeous girls everywhere and you can't help but just wish you looked like them.

I don't feel comfortable posting my picture. I would PM it to anyone who wanted to see but I really don't want to reveal who I am :frown:


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Anonymous #14

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12008264 - 02/11/10 12:44 PM (11 years, 24 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
Thanks for all the advice guys, I feel a bit better. I think I'm going to set aside a day this weekend and go out and buy some good makeup and some flattering clothes that might make me feel better. I suppose I should just learn to accept myself, it's just hard sometimes when you see gorgeous girls everywhere and you can't help but just wish you looked like them.

I don't feel comfortable posting my picture. I would PM it to anyone who wanted to see but I really don't want to reveal who I am :frown:



Itll get better! Fucking media is the problem.
My advice, quit watching TV and reading mags. Be yourself.


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Anonymous #15

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #14]
    #12008291 - 02/11/10 12:49 PM (11 years, 24 days ago)

All you have to do is meet someone that doesn't have standards for women based on their looks.

I really don't see that it matters unless you're fat. Fat people just piss me off, because there is always something they can do about it. If you're ugly that is no fault of your own and I think there are more out there like me that really don't care that much.


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Anonymous #6

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #12008595 - 02/11/10 01:48 PM (11 years, 24 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
Thanks for all the advice guys, I feel a bit better. I think I'm going to set aside a day this weekend and go out and buy some good makeup and some flattering clothes that might make me feel better. I suppose I should just learn to accept myself, it's just hard sometimes when you see gorgeous girls everywhere and you can't help but just wish you looked like them.

I don't feel comfortable posting my picture. I would PM it to anyone who wanted to see but I really don't want to reveal who I am :frown:




PM it to two_rivers if you feel comfortable doing so.  My girlfriend and I will take a look and provide honest feedback.

I wouldn't focus too much on clothes and make-up like someone else suggested.  That's sort of like putting a band-aid on a broken leg.  Sure, you want to maintain an image of some sort to garner some basic level of respect from your peers, but I wouldn't focus on that too much or think of it as a solution.


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Anonymous #16

Re: Hating how you look? [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #12008607 - 02/11/10 01:52 PM (11 years, 24 days ago)

People are so greedy now days. I want I want I want. At least you ain't a 50 pound skeleton in africa who'd kill just to have a decent meal and some water that isn't contaminated with raw sewage.

At least you weren't born with a crippling disease and your body can't grow and you break at least 10 bones every year.

Think about all the people even in the U.S. who don't have arms or legs, some don't have a bottom jaw and are probably looked and pointed at every time they go to walmart.

Stop being emo.


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