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feifen
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: hoodbran]
#11935117 - 01/31/10 11:25 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm not claiming anything
I just like my girls to be respectable and not go out and be sluts
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hoodbran
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: feifen]
#11935136 - 01/31/10 11:29 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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allrighty, sounds like a fair request of a partner, I just dont believe however that girls go and do these things for no reason
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: hoodbran]
#11935218 - 01/31/10 11:41 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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hoodbran said: allrighty, sounds like a fair request of a partner, I just dont believe however that girls go and do these things for no reason
I highly disagree. It's called being a slut, and there are plenty of two faced people out there who are willing to cheat on their partner for sexual satisfaction, and it is quite disgusting.
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: hoodbran]
#11935313 - 01/31/10 11:58 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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Going out and doing these sorts of things is a little more drastic than starting a conversation about what's causing ill feelings.
I agree, "once a flirt, always a flirt." Some people fear confrontation and making changes to relationships, so they ignore the problems and start a new fantasy relationship. Sex as an escape.
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hoodbran
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: feifen]
#11935343 - 01/31/10 12:02 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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feifen said:
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hoodbran said: allrighty, sounds like a fair request of a partner, I just dont believe however that girls go and do these things for no reason
I highly disagree. It's called being a slut, and there are plenty of two faced people out there who are willing to cheat on their partner for sexual satisfaction, and it is quite disgusting.
Maybe I never made my point clear enough?
With an attitude like that, if I were a girl, Id cheat on you likkety split... My point here is it takes two to tango and so common sense has failed you Sir. Its like applying the saying of once a cheat to fit the circumstances... If too many cooks spoil the broth, then why many hands make light work?
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: tugwax]
#11935494 - 01/31/10 12:29 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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wow thats tough, buddy. hope all turns out swell
taking out the papers and the trash,.
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: hoodbran]
#11935548 - 01/31/10 12:40 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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hoodbran said:
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feifen said:
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hoodbran said: allrighty, sounds like a fair request of a partner, I just dont believe however that girls go and do these things for no reason
I highly disagree. It's called being a slut, and there are plenty of two faced people out there who are willing to cheat on their partner for sexual satisfaction, and it is quite disgusting.
Maybe I never made my point clear enough?
With an attitude like that, if I were a girl, Id cheat on you likkety split... My point here is it takes two to tango and so common sense has failed you Sir. Its like applying the saying of once a cheat to fit the circumstances... If too many cooks spoil the broth, then why many hands make light work?
Your post made no sense. I find cheating appalling and you would be MORE implicated to go cheat on me? Fuckin logic
Cheating is wrong, and if I was cheated on I would just drop the girl.
Theres plenty of girls out there who have a good heart and who would be more than happy to appreciate me, so why would I want to date a girl I can't trust?
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hoodbran
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: hoodbran]
#11935568 - 01/31/10 12:44 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sorry dude, I still aint making myself clear... Lets try again; You guys are supporting the OP's point of view by saying Bin Her only by what he has said with no other previous background other than what has been shared...
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: hoodbran]
#11935603 - 01/31/10 12:50 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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That's true. We have no idea what has happened in those 10 years of marriage. Still, if she decides not to talk about her issues and instead throws herself at other men, then I will call that bad form, no matter the circumstances.
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: koraks]
#11936267 - 01/31/10 02:58 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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is your wife a scorpio?
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: aghorrorag]
#11936391 - 01/31/10 03:25 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear that... it'll all work itself out!
I know you're angry, but I would say "Talk to her." I think you both should sit down and have a long chat. Lay all your cards out on the table and then decide if you should call it quits... 10 years is a long time, there might be a lot under the table to discuss.
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: MagicHombre]
#11936503 - 01/31/10 03:51 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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You did the right thing. You should have thrown the good clothes in the trash. Too bad she didn't have anything expensive and breakable that you could have smashed. Never accept that cheating cunt back.
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: aghorrorag]
#11936546 - 01/31/10 03:57 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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aghorrorag said: is your wife a scorpio?
Should he forgive her if she were?
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Only if he's a feces.
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: Icelander]
#11937251 - 01/31/10 06:19 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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Thank you for you comments. I have softened particularly after a PM from hoodbran.
I don't think I should just abandon her. She is a vulnerable individual and has always seemed open to bad influences. I brought her into a new culture, she had high and unrealistic expectations of western life even though I told her I was not rich. She's always worked but never seemed to manage more than burger flipping wages either because of her imperfect language or poor education.
Bumming drinks for affection was exactly how I met her and I doubt she would recognise the guy again considering how drunk she was.
The few times I have taken magic mushrooms made me realise that ape-like reactions are not the best way but it's been so long that I forgot. I made my feelings clear in a big way and if it didn't hit home then there is always tomorrow to "ditch the bitch"
I'm going to try my best to rescue it. Sorry to you sceptics but if you saw her, you'd be buying her a drink and trying it on too.
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: tugwax]
#11937407 - 01/31/10 06:52 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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tugwax said: Thank you for you comments. I have softened particularly after a PM from hoodbran.
I don't think I should just abandon her. She is a vulnerable individual and has always seemed open to bad influences. I brought her into a new culture, she had high and unrealistic expectations of western life even though I told her I was not rich. She's always worked but never seemed to manage more than burger flipping wages either because of her imperfect language or poor education.
Bumming drinks for affection was exactly how I met her and I doubt she would recognise the guy again considering how drunk she was.
The few times I have taken magic mushrooms made me realise that ape-like reactions are not the best way but it's been so long that I forgot. I made my feelings clear in a big way and if it didn't hit home then there is always tomorrow to "ditch the bitch"
I'm going to try my best to rescue it. Sorry to you sceptics but if you saw her, you'd be buying her a drink and trying it on too.
Abandon her, don't try to rescue it. Don't do it! Drop that cheating cunt!
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: tugwax]
#11937410 - 01/31/10 06:52 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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Not me, you deserve each other.
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: tugwax]
#11937780 - 01/31/10 08:03 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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tugwax said: Thank you for you comments. I have softened particularly after a PM from hoodbran.
I don't think I should just abandon her. She is a vulnerable individual and has always seemed open to bad influences. I brought her into a new culture, she had high and unrealistic expectations of western life even though I told her I was not rich. She's always worked but never seemed to manage more than burger flipping wages either because of her imperfect language or poor education.
Bumming drinks for affection was exactly how I met her and I doubt she would recognise the guy again considering how drunk she was.
The few times I have taken magic mushrooms made me realise that ape-like reactions are not the best way but it's been so long that I forgot. I made my feelings clear in a big way and if it didn't hit home then there is always tomorrow to "ditch the bitch"
I'm going to try my best to rescue it. Sorry to you sceptics but if you saw her, you'd be buying her a drink and trying it on too.
Glad to hear it! 10 years is a LONG time to just "ditch the bitch" I'm assuming that she makes you happy otherwise I wouldn't understand why you were with her for so long... To throw her out after flirting with another guy is a little extreme.
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Re: Threw the wife out today. [Re: tugwax]
#11937789 - 01/31/10 08:04 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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She was just using you dude, find a good one if you must.
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RoosterCogburn said:
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I still love my wife and if she apologised I might eventually let her back but at the moment I am so angry I can't even talk to her.
WRONG.
Move on and make the future much easier. Once a flirt, always a flirt... this will happen again and again.
You've been warned.
Do what you want.
but it sucks to look back at the truth a while later and think that shit. should have moved on back then
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