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Offlinephylum sinter
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Registered: 01/03/03
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Re: something is wrong... i need some advice.. [Re: okayjose]
    #1189060 - 01/03/03 11:14 PM (21 years, 28 days ago)

jose,

I wouldn't worry too much about you not knowing which direction you should take - sometimes people don't find their true calling well into their twenties if not later. Parents always want the best for their kids, and they often forget how little they knew about life when they were younger. They mimic their own parents usually. My advice is to test everything, see which one you feel pulled towards, keep trying until you find a shoe that fits right, etc.

If you have a hero, try to find a biography or something about their life - chances are you'll find they were just as without direction in the beginning as well (unless you idolize royalty or classical musicians, born into their careers).

Universities do tend to draw people into established jobs and such, but i think your remark about they only offering people jobs that suck might be a little off. It's up to you to decide. My sister changed degrees 3 times before deciding which path to take, it's not that uncommon.

Travel will be good for you, this is always true in these situations. I don't blame you for being scared, but be strong, know that you are more than the sum of your parts, and your uncertainty is only a termporary weakness.

The girl dilemma sounds like the toughest thing to me, and if she's sure to find someone else or something [how that could be, i do not know] it would be better if you just broke up now - if only temporarily. You can always find a way back to each other. There are no coincidences, everything is destiny.

I hope these words have an impact on you, that you take them to heart. Just relax for the moment man, give yourself some space and breathing room. Everything will fall into place.

And if not now, very soon.

take it easy.


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