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MisterKite
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Tantric Sex
#2921971 - 07/23/04 07:55 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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Is anyone a tantrik? Has anyone attempted to be a tantrik? I'm most interested in the prolonged ejaculation, I was wondering if anyone has found this to be part of the meditation through sex, or just a strengthening of the PC muscles to pinch off the urethra for large increments of time?
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nicechrisman
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If you really want to understand tantra, your motivation must be other than mere sexual pleasure. Start with breathing excercises and meditation. The goal of buddhism is to overcome our desires, since they ultimately cause us grief. Only a very accomplished tantric practitioner can practice true tantric sex, without becoming caught up in the desire for pleasure.
This is a pop culture myth. It is true that through proper breathing and concentration, you can have better sex, but this is not the goal of tantra.
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Pinching off your urethra sounds like a good way to damage your body. If you want to have sex just go for it. You don't need to pretend there's anything religious or spiritual about it. It's just sex.
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Re: Tantric Sex [Re: zorbman]
#2922234 - 07/23/04 09:38 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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mmm sex.
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Huehuecoyotl
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"Is anyone a tantrik? Has anyone attempted to be a tantrik? I'm most interested in the prolonged ejaculation, I was wondering if anyone has found this to be part of the meditation through sex, or just a strengthening of the PC muscles to pinch off the urethra for large increments of time?"
Come on dude...go get a room and keep that shit to yourself. Better yet get a girlfriend so you will quit worrying about this.
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ladychemist84
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I'm interested, but have no idea where to begin. sounds like good times. I think sex can be very spiritual, not all the time of course. Religious, maybe.
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Re: Tantric Sex [Re: zorbman]
#2923162 - 07/24/04 08:21 AM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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No no, it's totally safe. Cock rings work this way, by applying pressure to the urethra just below the testicles. You can do it by hand too, at the moment of climax. There will be no ejaculate but the sensation is actually somewhat enhanced. The semen will be ejected when you pee
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Luminous Numinous
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Tantric Sex, ideally has more to do with being present than it does with acquiring pornographic parlor tricks. http://www.luminousnuminous.com/blog/?p=866
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deff
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sexual tantra, as far as i have learned, does not involve frictional penetration and thus no orgasm... what people commonly call tantra these days seems to be mostly a new-agey way of making sex sound cooler and more exotic
there should be no desire present during the act... that's the point! one partner (male) symbolizes compassion while the other (female) embodies wisdom and they merge to symbolize the inseparable union of wisdom and compassion in the enlightened mind
the love or energy cultivated for the other partner can be used as a means of generating bliss prior to cutting away and meditating on emptiness - to help one's mind reach the enlightened union of bliss & emptiness
i have heard it's very ill advised to practice this kind of tantra without a guru... there's a lot of potential pit-falls
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MushroomTrip
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Quote:
nicechrisman said: If you really want to understand tantra, your motivation must be other than mere sexual pleasure. Start with breathing excercises and meditation. The goal of buddhism is to overcome our desires, since they ultimately cause us grief. Only a very accomplished tantric practitioner can practice true tantric sex, without becoming caught up in the desire for pleasure.
This is a pop culture myth. It is true that through proper breathing and concentration, you can have better sex, but this is not the goal of tantra.
Not all desire is negative, and not all desire leads to clinging, so you must only be talking from a personal perspective.
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MushroomTrip
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Re: Tantric Sex [Re: zorbman]
#11864147 - 01/20/10 06:19 AM (14 years, 11 days ago) |
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zorbman said: Pinching off your urethra sounds like a good way to damage your body. If you want to have sex just go for it. You don't need to pretend there's anything religious or spiritual about it. It's just sex.
So, all the different sexual techniques and all the sexual positions, along with all the psychosexual states are all the same, and there's not even one of them that has the potential to feel more pleasant then the other? Who said anything about spirits or religion? Tantric sex is just a accumulation of sexual techniques, body movements, and muscle training that does make people feel more pleasure, have longer orgasms, and feel more emotionally fulfilled.
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MushroomTrip
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Re: Tantric Sex [Re: deff]
#11864150 - 01/20/10 06:21 AM (14 years, 11 days ago) |
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deff said: i have heard it's very ill advised to practice this kind of tantra without a guru... there's a lot of potential pit-falls
De guru must be zere.
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