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My bestfriend is in jail
#11764291 - 01/04/10 11:31 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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Do you have a friend whom you consider to be your best friend?
I do. I have a few actually. But my closest friend goes by the name Neal (Ronald being his actual first name). We've been through thick and thin. Hundreds of parties, girls, blunts, drugs, life. I've known him for 7 years now, and I've basically lived my life along side his. We've been in a lot of crazy situations that made us the friends we are today
both his parents died. His mom passed 2 years ago. I remember hearing a knock on my window one morning and it was Neal, with news that his mother had passed away 2 days earlier due to cancer.
Ever since then, he's been living his life alone in the house he used to share with his parents (and a family dog named Lady, who also passed away). He started going down a road that I couldn't follow. Drugs, crime, he had no guidance despite my efforts to help him get back on track with his life. He's been in and out of jail for petty shit the past 2 years. Got his license suspended not too long ago. We'd have parties at his house a few times a week so wecould be in the company of all our loving friends. From time to time, especially when we'd dose together, we'd talk about how our fun is just beginning, and we'd talk about all the parties and girls we get to look forward to in the future
well fast forward to new years eve. We were at a party getting drunk and having a good time Neal tells me he's about to ride on over to another friend of ours keg party. It's 11:30 pm at this time so I tell him to chill at least til 12. He agreed.
Next thing I know the ball dropped and I'm pulling off my new years kiss with my girl. I look for Neal and he's gone so I call him. He answered and said he was on his way to the other party.
Didn't hear from him the rest of the night.
Or the next day
or the next
so I do an inmate search on the Internet and there he is. He was pulled over for DUI and driving on a suspended license. Processed around 1am January 1 2010
It's not fun watching someone who is practically your brother go down like this. With his family situation and his lifestyle, it seems like life doesn't matter to him anymore.
I'm going to try and visit him tonight or next Monday, I'm sure he's in for awhile considering his new long rap sheet.
Sorry for the long rant, just thought I'd dedicate a few minutes of my time to a lost soul, my bestfriend
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: visions]
#11764338 - 01/04/10 11:39 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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It could be worse, he could have hit and killed some innocent bystander.
"DUI and driving on a suspended license" =
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the best thing you can do is write him, trust me. and if you have the money set your phone up so he can call you. its like $25 to set up though
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visions
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Yeah he's not the smartest guy. He practically sent himself to jail I can't imagine being 21 with both of my parents out of the picture. No relatives. No license. It's fucked up
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: visions]
#11764380 - 01/04/10 11:45 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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bro i feel for you, definitly hit him up via letters, and go see the dude
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: visions]
#11764408 - 01/04/10 11:49 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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I feel ya man. My buddy lost both his parents as a child and got adopted. i say lost, because his father is a junkie in and out of prison, and his biological mom died. He's been my best friend for like 5-6 years now. And he's gone down the same path I have with drugs, he's resorted to stealing from peoples homes and he's about to do some time for it. I think some of it may have been my fault because when we put our heads together we always came up with a way to get high. he's looking at 11 years, just for this county alone.
He has a family who loves him though, and I think he can be pretty blind about it sometimes.
I'm sorry to hear about your friend, I hope everything works out in the end. maybe an extended time in jail will give him time to think about what he's doing and change his ways. Keep in contact with him. A letter in jail, means a LOT.
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: visions]
#11764410 - 01/04/10 11:50 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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He's not dead or anything.
He just went to jail, they will probably have him out in about 10 day time served...<<<happened to me a few years back.
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: Devin43]
#11764421 - 01/04/10 11:51 AM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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well, shit..drunk drivers are no fun
i saw this guy around where i live swerve lane to lane and almost veered towards us
he stopped at the intersection, the traffic had to turn and when a SUV did, he punched it thru the red light. About 2 blocks down, he crashed thru a fence and ended up in the middle of it, his car's body wrecked.
Drunk people are funny, once we got there he was like "*SLURS* you don't know what it's like to be..a...FUCKING MARINE, a fucking marine, you pigs, A FUCKING MARINE"
i bet he woke up in his cell and was like
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for DUI? ive never had one so idk. really depends on the state, and considering he has a record already of small things, those REALLY can add up. and honestly, i dont condone drinking and driving, but combat arms in the military has to be the most stressful situations there is. i myself was in the army infantry, and was deployed several times. it sucks. doesnt give him the right to act like a fag (as most marines ive seen are haha) but still lol
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: Moronicus]
#11764475 - 01/04/10 12:00 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Moronicus said:
Drunk people are funny, once we got there he was like "*SLURS* you don't know what it's like to be..a...FUCKING MARINE, a fucking marine, you pigs, A FUCKING MARINE"
i bet he woke up in his cell and was like
oh geez, i hope that's not my brother in the future. he was just recently sworn in. and he's a boozehound.
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: visions]
#11764509 - 01/04/10 12:05 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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Drinking and driving is no joke. Maybe he wont be a retard next time.
Also, how long could he really be in for? Really?
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visions
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Couldn't tell you. Another friend of mine has been locked up for 3 months now, with 5 more months to go for DUI
Neal has been pulled over for driving on a suspended license at least 5 times in the past year. He did 45 days last time he was pulled over. About 2 years ago he got involved in some bigger bullshit, I'm thinking that might affect him negatively in the pen
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: visions]
#11764544 - 01/04/10 12:11 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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depends on state and record. the more the less merrier
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: visions]
#11764553 - 01/04/10 12:13 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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He deserves to be thrown in prison and have the key thrown away. Sorry dude. I feel for him and all but hes a degenerate criminal who chose to drive under te influence. I have a zero tolerance for people who drive while under the influence of ANY drug, they are scum of the earth and deserve to be imprisoned with absolutely NO second chances.
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: hpi]
#11764562 - 01/04/10 12:14 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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idk about all that. its in human nature to make mistakes. i am strongly against it but to live a life without second chances would be not living at all.
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ahh, well, i went to the crash in the day time
saw part of his front bumper, headlights, and car skirt.
dude bent like..5 fence poles in a like a 35 degree angle.
i think thats why his car ended up in the middle of that fence
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: hpi]
#11764575 - 01/04/10 12:16 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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hpi said: He deserves to be thrown in prison and have the key thrown away. Sorry dude. I feel for him and all but hes a degenerate criminal who chose to drive under te influence. I have a zero tolerance for people who drive while under the influence of ANY drug, they are scum of the earth and deserve to be imprisoned with absolutely NO second chances.
so..you're saying that if you were drunk and your friend was stoned, you would want him to be in prison for being under a drug that is far less harmful than alcohol?
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: Devin43]
#11764580 - 01/04/10 12:17 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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I understand where you are coming from 100% and I'm the same way you are towards anyone else who drives under the influence he's got a good heart though. He's just not the brightest he's got an account here. Daily lurker: rnginn
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: hpi]
#11764587 - 01/04/10 12:18 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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Your moralism goes too far.
ANY drug(Coffee?-And how much coffee would be to much)
One TINY line of coke?
Do you not realize how different being drunk is from being high? Not that I'm advocating or defending so called drugged driving. But your rethoric on the subject goes way to far.
Scum of the earth? Ya, drunk driving maybe. But I'm not going to just simplistically lump everything together.
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Re: My bestfriend is in jail [Re: Moronicus]
#11764592 - 01/04/10 12:19 PM (14 years, 2 months ago) |
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hpi said: He deserves to be thrown in prison and have the key thrown away. Sorry dude. I feel for him and all but hes a degenerate criminal who chose to drive under te influence. I have a zero tolerance for people who drive while under the influence of ANY drug, they are scum of the earth and deserve to be imprisoned with absolutely NO second chances.
so..you're saying that if you were drunk and your friend was stoned, you would want him to be in prison for being under a drug that is far less harmful than alcohol?
What?
First of all Id NEVER be drunk cause I'm 110% against Alcohol and despise the people who drink it with a burning passion.
What are you asking me? Your question makes no sense.
Id want him to be imprisoned for driving while stoned, YES!
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