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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11665388 - 12/16/09 09:37 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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It depends on how close friends u are wit ur room mate but all in the same think about how u felt when ur friend did it to u but if the bitch just to sexy to resist go for it man
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11665390 - 12/16/09 09:38 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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I prefer the term masochist
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NoHum
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: Todcasil]
#11666144 - 12/17/09 12:31 AM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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dont matter, she can do what she wants to do, let her choose who is better for her, who can please her, who will respect her, who will make her happy.
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igwna
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: andrewss]
#11666162 - 12/17/09 12:39 AM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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jewunit said: Drink more.
only adivce there really is.
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dr_gonz said: everything comes full circle. everything
some times thats kinda frightening.
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11666280 - 12/17/09 01:21 AM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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>>Is this a good idea?<<
Yes. Attraction between people is weird and fragile, especially in triangle or any polygon connections. I'm not you, but if you were me, unless I was absolutely sure that this woman could be the person to travel through the rest of life with happily, I'd wait out whatever's going on. If you pounce on it, you are 100% guarenteed to cause even weirder vibes to float around in that house. Are you all three living there? I didn't read very carefully. If you're all roomates, I'd invest in some patience. It's a low risk investment and you're more likely to gain in the long term. I had a girl who was really special to me, as I was to her, and we had to break up because we were young and circumstances weren't really suitable to continue, and she was crazy about my best friend, and nothing went down. He told me, "honestly, I could've gotten with her, but I didn't because I thought it might bother you."
And I could've said, "naw man, you shoulda gone for it!" and half-way meant it, but in reality that instinctive territorial pinch in the brain would've probably ended up being something that would come to the foreground whenever I hang out with him. We're best buds and I'm glad he didn't, even though in a perfect world every ex-couple would be happy for eachother in pursuing happiness, regardless of what or who that involves.
I think what it boils down to in situations of a person being given up on by their significant other finding out their friend was more appealing to be with than themselves, is almost a form of jealousy. Like, "if I was more like you, better in some way that I cannot help, she'd find me suitable, but I'm not. So... good for you for being better than me." It's a natural, almost unavoidable feeling of self-loathing that could be irreparably synonymous with thoughts of you or even your presence. Best wait it out I say.
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11666783 - 12/17/09 06:47 AM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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Don't do anything with the chick man, wait it out, put yourself back in your shoes a couple of months ago and tell me you'd want to go through that again. A similar thing happened to me, my chick of 3 years broke up with me, fucked off for a bit, then came back and started shagging my friends. Ruined me for ages and I'm still "dealing" with it today.
I didn't want to start a new thread for this, but this is my problem:
For me, my problem is, I always seem to get what I want. I mean I have a beautiful girlfriend whom I adore, but there are several other sexy as fuck women in my life who are literally throwing themselves at me. All of them know I have a girlfriend, most of them have met her and one of them is her best friend (whom is also an ex of a good friend). Despite the temptation, my moral judgement ranks in higher, I need to get these chicks to back off whilst not making it disgustingly awkward in social situations (like it already is). How the fuck do I do this? Man I always manage to dig myself into some nasty holes, and I feel like I'm on the brink of another one =/.
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11666894 - 12/17/09 07:36 AM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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break the pattern, find a cheap studio to live in on your own....
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RationalEgo
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: CosmicJoke]
#11666940 - 12/17/09 07:59 AM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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CosmicJoke said: break the pattern, find a cheap studio to live in on your own....
This is good advice. Its the only way you can really have your cake and eat it.
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11668347 - 12/17/09 01:10 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well Supernovasky if you are as incredibly intelligent as you stated in your OP and you and her have such "DEEP" conversations then why don't you and her have an intelligent deep conversation about what to do?
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11687353 - 12/20/09 04:34 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11687418 - 12/20/09 04:50 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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Won't it feel great when the whore leaves you for one of your friends. One thing that took me a while to figure out was females that I stole from guys ended up doing the same shit over again with someone else. Females that are constantly looking for someone better will eventually find it, even ugly girls can find some good looking guy who's afraid of pussy. Then your ass will be in the same situation as your friend. Plenty of guys can fuck their friends girlfriends, only scumbags do it, and only real pieces of shit turn them into their girlfriends. It already happened to you once, it's gonna happen again and you will deserve it. Be good family, you gotta be fucking kidding me.
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NoHum
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11688200 - 12/20/09 06:51 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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i told you dude. if it feels right dont question it, act on it. good vibes man
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fapjack
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
#11688665 - 12/20/09 08:09 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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There is this guy and girl room mate of mine. The guy is a great friend, and I am attracted to the girl. However, I am VERY good at controlling my attraction. I just maintained a level of great friendship with her.
You're so full of shit it isn't even funny. Also, people can't have deep feelings for someone and not give a shit if they leave them.
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Karma has gotten me in the ass, or will.
I agree with you 100%, you are blinded by your heart. Just because a bunch of faggots in the pub don't see anything wrong with it doesn't change anything. As you said though, karma will get you. I don't care how well you fuck her either, someone out there can and will fuck her better. Then you will have to pick up your heart again, all because of a whore, and god only knows how many bridges you will burn by stealing your friends girlfriend. I'm just thankful most of my friends have more self control than you.
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: fapjack]
#11688843 - 12/20/09 08:40 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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as long as you had 100% nothing to do with the break up then your good bro. you have to look at it like the universe gave you the opportunity to get something great, he waited it out and now look hes with the girl that he connects to on a deeper level. he didnt fuck her while she was with his friend, he simply has better values that she diggs. Its not about going aginst your friend and getting with his girl. if two people dont connect then its not gonna work out period.
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fapjack
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Re: Shroomery! Drunk and in desperate need of advice [Re: NoHum]
#11690969 - 12/21/09 08:39 AM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'd agree with you if it wasn't for the fact that it was his friend. Fucking your friends exgirlfriend immediately after they break up is being a piece of shit. I don't really know the situation, but based on his original post it looks to me like he stole his friends gf.
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