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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11383283 - 11/04/09 11:57 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

I had a few friends I felt that way about when I was younger. (back when I used to have best friends of the opposite sex, I mean I still have female friends but now I only see them maybe once every couple of weeks rather than everyday.)

The WORST part is finding out 5 years later after the fact when they are all married with children, when you never confessed your love that they were just as into you and had no idea about your feelings.

I dont want to make you think about this too much...but perhaps he went for your friend to see if you were interested? Maybe he wanted you to have a reaction, to get jealous, something.  Unless he made it painfully clear he wasn't interested AT ALL.

I dunno, unrequited love is the worst. I wish I were better at expressing those feelings when I am around the people I have them about.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11383445 - 11/04/09 12:17 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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We are also very bad at reading signals. Its possible that he feels that you have no interest in him.




This is what kills me the most about it. I think he really did like me at one point.
But stupid me is way too afraid of rejection and decided to just wait it out.

I can't just separate myself from him. I see him every single day. And I'm not going to be like "I just can't hang out with you anymore."
I still want to be his friend. I would rather just be his friend and be secretly in love with him while I give him advice about how to get other girls. He's the most amazing person to be around. I think I'd feel empty without him, even though being with him is torture.
It's an awful situation.




Um , maybe try and dress in sexy outfits when you're with him.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: BiG_StroOnZ]
    #11383465 - 11/04/09 12:19 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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Frost said:
What is love




sorry but i had to... maybe the comedy will cheer u up OP




I like this one better.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
    #11383472 - 11/04/09 12:20 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

I was going to make an avatar out of Duster girl but you beat me to it.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: MisterMuscaria]
    #11383955 - 11/04/09 01:24 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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I was going to make an avatar out of Duster girl but you beat me to it.




You can have it if you want , ill change.  Wait you'd have to have a supporter account for this one.  But you can make one then ill change this.


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    #11384090 - 11/04/09 01:42 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11384282 - 11/04/09 02:05 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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Nothing ever works out for me. Ever. And I just can't even take it anymore. I am so fucking depressed. I know I shouldn't be, because I don't even have real problems. I know I'm ridiculous for complaining when there are so many people who are so much worse off. But I just can't help but feel sorry for myself right now.
I'm hungover and I can't stop throwing up and I've been crying all day long and I can't stop.

I am so hopelessly in love with this friend of mine and I know he doesn't like me back and I spent the whole entire night last night listening to him talk about how fucking hot and awesome this girl is and watching them sit on my roof talking and holding hands and I just had the sit there and tell him that I was really happy for him even though I just wanted to die.
And I can't stop being in love with him.
But god this is such torture. I can't even take it. I feel like someone has just ripped my heart out of my chest and stomped all over it.




Been there.  Its shit.  But at least its living.  In time, as has been said, you won't hurt nearly as much.  You will grow from this and learn from it and believe it or not, someone even better will come along in the future.

I agree with those who say that avoiding the person is a good idea.  Being around him is only going to drive you crazy so its best to let him go and do whatever he is going to do, as hard as that is.

Otherwise, the alcohol is not going to help with your depression.  Feeling physically shitty and emotionally shitty at the same time sucks.  No drug accompanies self-pity better than alcohol and self-pity is death.

I mean that metophorically.  Sitting around thinking about how shitty life is and how unfair it is is not only illusory thinking and therefore blinding, it is also completely unproductive.

I drank a lot when it happened to me.  I kept drinking for quite a while and only very recently stopped because I realized how stupid and unhealthy drinking is.  I am an alcoholic.  I view drinking as dangerous.  But that's me.  Either way, alcohol is a distraction and not a tool.  Nothing heals while drunk.

Um, otherwise, throw yourself into your passions, whatever they are.  (That does not mean take a bunch of drugs)  Paint, draw, write, whatever you like to do.  And get out and meet new people.  Join clubs.  Be active.  And eat right too.  :p


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
    #11384292 - 11/04/09 02:06 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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I still want to be his friend. I would rather just be his friend and be secretly in love with him while I give him advice about how to get other girls.




You're doing it wrong.

He DEFINITELY doesn't think you have any feelings anymore for him if you're giving him this kind of info.

In his mind, he has been "friendzoned."




supernovaskey may be on to something.


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    #11384335 - 11/04/09 02:10 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
    #11384359 - 11/04/09 02:12 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

The girl I loved is now preggo and in a serious relationship.

I'm over it.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: AnonymousRabbit]
    #11384400 - 11/04/09 02:17 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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and trust me... when a guy is friendzoned, he knows it and avoids it like the plague.





Ahahahah like that movie "Just Friends" was fuckin hilarious.


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    #11384428 - 11/04/09 02:21 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: dr_gonz]
    #11384887 - 11/04/09 03:12 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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same girl? u brainwashed her well.




that i typically post in relation to? Yes sir, and thanks :cool:


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: dopestone]
    #11384964 - 11/04/09 03:20 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

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Solemente said:
In my experience, most PEOPLE don't really care about the wonders of pshychedelics and all they have to offer. All my ex-gf think I'm crazy too, but what can you do?




fixed.

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i don't know...love is weird, i'm over it now but not really. is anyone ever really over it?




To someone you honestly and truly loved, you'll NEVER get over it completely... you can hammer it into the back of your mind but those times you spent together were real and that love is like no other

... you just suck it up and keep going


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