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Offlinealternatereality
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God, life is shitty.
    #11363643 - 11/01/09 06:04 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

Nothing ever works out for me. Ever. And I just can't even take it anymore. I am so fucking depressed. I know I shouldn't be, because I don't even have real problems. I know I'm ridiculous for complaining when there are so many people who are so much worse off. But I just can't help but feel sorry for myself right now.
I'm hungover and I can't stop throwing up and I've been crying all day long and I can't stop.

I am so hopelessly in love with this friend of mine and I know he doesn't like me back and I spent the whole entire night last night listening to him talk about how fucking hot and awesome this girl is and watching them sit on my roof talking and holding hands and I just had the sit there and tell him that I was really happy for him even though I just wanted to die.
And I can't stop being in love with him.
But god this is such torture. I can't even take it. I feel like someone has just ripped my heart out of my chest and stomped all over it.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11363651 - 11/01/09 06:05 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

That sucks man.  Smoke some weed and move on with your life.  Being in love with friends sucks.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11363656 - 11/01/09 06:07 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

Sounds like a wack night.

I'm too hungover to offer any advice though.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: smack]
    #11363665 - 11/01/09 06:09 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

You're life is shitty because you can't hookup with the guy you want to? I know how that feels, and probably everyone else, but just smoke some weed do some drugs and move on.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11363667 - 11/01/09 06:09 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

that's a shitty situation
in times like this the only thing that helps me is time

you might feel bad for a little bit but it will pass
you'll get over it and move on

same exact thing happened to me before..i'm still friends with them both, and i couldn't even imagine dating the person now
you just gotta wait it out


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: smack]
    #11363671 - 11/01/09 06:10 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

Quote:

smack said:
Sounds like a wack night.

I'm too hungover to offer any advice though.




Damn just about everyone is hungover today..

I'm finally feeling a bit better but I still feel like death :facepalm:

I need to just stop drinking completely...fuck


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: memes]
    #11363681 - 11/01/09 06:12 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

Life throws us challenges, hang in there, be strong.  If it comes to it, let him know how you feel, otherwise just try to let it go.  As far as being depressed goes, it helps to find purpose in your life, think about the big picture, and what you want to do with your life.  I'm not saying you are selfish, but sometimes when we start to think outside of ourselves our problems appear quite small, and we feel better.  Try to focus on the positive stuff, there is gonna be pain, but it will pass.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11363688 - 11/01/09 06:13 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

God, life is good. :smile:

:rainbowcloud:


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: i hate liz]
    #11363689 - 11/01/09 06:13 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

umm, if you like him, and he doesn't feel the same, don't be around him. Its unhealthy.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: Solemente]
    #11363695 - 11/01/09 06:15 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

"life is shitty," is the first rule in Buddhism.
Ima Buddhist and Im trying my best to meditate out of it.

      Thanks,
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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11363698 - 11/01/09 06:15 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

i just had an ex girlfriend that i had recently got over live with me for a week because she was being trained for a job right near my apartment.
this girl is absolutely amazing and i know im not good enough to be with her..even though i would love to still date.
one of the nights she asked me if it would be weird if we had sex..and i said no of course and then we did it. everything was great except now after she is gone again i am all fucked up about it again..and i want to be with her but i cant tell her because it would be weird. we are supposed to just be friends ya know..
so i guess having sex kinda fucked with me.
im feeling quite depressed at this point. i know i just need to forget about her and go back to not thinking about her that way anymore.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: i hate liz]
    #11363700 - 11/01/09 06:15 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

umm, if you like him, and he doesn't feel the same, don't be around him. Its unhealthy.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11363703 - 11/01/09 06:16 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

Just ignore them let them do what they want, and move on. It will hurt to let go, but have hope that time is a great healer.

If you look at this objectively by stepping out of yourself (without using drugs :smile: ) you will see it's not worth worrying about.

There's billions more fish in the sea, I'm sure you'll find the right one.

Take care. xx


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: Smitington]
    #11363707 - 11/01/09 06:17 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

Quote:

Smitington said:
Life throws us challenges, hang in there, be strong.  If it comes to it, let him know how you feel, otherwise just try to let it go.  As far as being depressed goes, it helps to find purpose in your life, think about the big picture, and what you want to do with your life.  I'm not saying you are selfish, but sometimes when we start to think outside of ourselves our problems appear quite small, and we feel better.  Try to focus on the positive stuff, there is gonna be pain, but it will pass.




well said.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: prismism]
    #11363747 - 11/01/09 06:26 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

Times are hard but you will get over it.:hug:

Love hurts, be strong.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: Vibes]
    #11363842 - 11/01/09 06:41 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

Oh my do I know where you're coming from. Best way to look at is if they don't like you then FUCK THEM. Fuck them in the motherfucking ass!! They're not the right person if they can't see you as an amazing person. I've found the best way to try and stop liking someone is to develop a hate for them, or find everything wrong with them and why you'd hate to be with them and how you can't see yourself being with them. It's hard, but it works, and then you can just be normal friends again. It's hard for guys and girls to be friends if there's one sided sexual tension and depression though.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: alternatereality]
    #11363891 - 11/01/09 06:47 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

The hangover is probably making the depression feel a lot worse. Maybe it would be good to distance yourself from this guy as much as possible to get him out of your head. Also keep your mind open for other possibilities, you seem like a really cool and nice girl you just need to find a guy who suits you and theres plenty of other fish in the sea besides this friend.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: Glenners]
    #11363907 - 11/01/09 06:49 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

Glenners, I believe you are genuinely trying to help, but that method sounds more like repression than anything, might work, but I think it would cause problems down the road.  It's a very difficult thing to get over, I can understand it, but there has to be a healthier way.  Maybe tell yourself that the person just doesn't like you, and they don't have to.  Also, you don't need to pretend that you don't like them, but tell yourself that you will find somebody else to fall madly in love with and you will be happy.  There are plenty of fish in the sea, one may seem like THE one, but keep fishing, you'll be suprised at what you catch.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: Smitington]
    #11363959 - 11/01/09 06:59 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

I tried that method, but what happened turned into a really weird situation where I hated her guts but was so in love with her at the same time. 

Eventually I stopped thinking about her, so I guess Time is the only solution that everyone has in common.


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Re: God, life is shitty. [Re: pnuma]
    #11363978 - 11/01/09 07:02 PM (8 years, 18 days ago)

What is love


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