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Fort Mushroom
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Girlfriends dad is a dick
#11308741 - 10/23/09 09:00 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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This guy only comes home once a month to his own house and while he was away my girlfriend put two old tvs in his bedroom and forgot to move them down to her basement before he came home.
We are in her room watching tv and he comes in and cals her out of the room and about two minutes later starts screaming at me to get off my fucking ass and help my girlfriend because she almost just fell down the stairs moving tvs even though i have no way of knowing this since he called her out of the room to tell her to move them.
I have only seen this guy like 6 times since he only comes home once a month and when i do see him and say hi or anything he just comletely ignores me and all i try to do is be nice to him, he wouldnt even let me buy him pizza on his birthday
What would you do in a situation like this or when forced to interact with people like this?
One more thing like that and i might lose my temper which never happens
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Rumblefishtwist
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never experienced a girlfriends dad being that much of a dick, but I would most likely ignore his attitude and realize he is acting that way because there is something wrong with him. Im sure your girlfriend doesn't care for him too much either.
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badchad
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I would spend minimal time at the girlfriend's place, and only have her come over to mine.
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feifen
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Don't go over when he's there
When he's there she goes to your place
Problem solved
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Re: Girlfriends dad is a dick [Re: feifen]
#11308808 - 10/23/09 09:17 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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find out what he's interested in and try to talk to him, strike up a conversation
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simple its his house even if he is never there gets to do and act how ever he wants pays the cost to be the boss
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hes probably got some issues in his life that are making him angry, or it is his general disposition. either way, depending on how your girlfriend feels, it would be best to just remain civil and have the understanding that he probably needs help. remain civil for your girlfriends sake.
if she feels he is shitty person too, then just minimize as much as you can the time you would spend around the guy
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Fort Mushroom
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Re: Girlfriends dad is a dick [Re: nachohippie]
#11308959 - 10/23/09 09:57 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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I know its his house and his rules and I respect that but that gives no reason for yelling, vulgarity, or being ignored especially when Im always friendly and respectful and he was yelling at me for something I had no way of possibly knowing.
Just because he has issues doesent mean he should be a dick we all have issues but we dont all go around being assholes to everyone
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niteowl
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What does he do that keeps him away for a month at a time
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Fort Mushroom said: I know its his house and his rules and I respect that but that gives no reason for yelling, vulgarity, or being ignored especially when Im always friendly and respectful and he was yelling at me for something I had no way of possibly knowing.
Just because he has issues doesent mean he should be a dick we all have issues but we dont all go around being assholes to everyone
Some people are just huge mega raging douche bags. You're lucky (as well as your gf) he's only home once a month. It seems pretty nice that you only have to put up with his shit 12 times a year.
I'd just learn to deal with it cause there isn't shit you can do about it. Unless you want to murder him and hide the body. I mean the dude is only home once a month, it'll be a while before anyone at home realizes he's gone.
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Re: Girlfriends dad is a dick [Re: WakeboardrB]
#11309198 - 10/23/09 10:52 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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He's there once a month, just leave whenever he comes home. He seems like he has problems so it's kind of pointless to get on his good side.
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Fort Mushroom
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Re: Girlfriends dad is a dick [Re: niteowl]
#11309317 - 10/23/09 11:28 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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He does construction about 3 hours away from home four days a week and cant be bothered with the drive or taking any interest in his daughters life for the last three years now and only comes home to give her shit about "smoking dope"(pot) and being an alcoholic(she has drank 3 times in the last two years) and possubly having the house dirty.
Last month when he came home he got upset there was nothing wrong with the house and yelled at her saying her grandparents mst have tipped her off because he was hoping to catch us breaking his rules
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So does you gf live there alone? Is there no mother around
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She should move the fuck out.
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Re: Girlfriends dad is a dick [Re: niteowl]
#11309347 - 10/23/09 11:38 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Parents are divorced mother basically kicked her out becuase her step dad hates her(he is not completely to blame in this situation she lets her temper get the best of her to often but in my opinion the step dad is a piece of shit)
She stays at her dads while shes going through college and he stays in a hotel except for the one weekend a month he comes home
He could come home more but simply doesnt want to drive and shows no interest in her life and it makes her feel rejected or something along those lines
I just feel when he comes home he has to be as a big a dick as possible because he thinks it makes up for his lack of parenting
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Fort Mushroom said: This guy only comes home once a month to his own house and while he was away my girlfriend put two old tvs in his bedroom and forgot to move them down to her basement before he came home.
We are in her room watching tv and he comes in and cals her out of the room and about two minutes later starts screaming at me to get off my fucking ass and help my girlfriend because she almost just fell down the stairs moving tvs even though i have no way of knowing this since he called her out of the room to tell her to move them.
I have only seen this guy like 6 times since he only comes home once a month and when i do see him and say hi or anything he just comletely ignores me and all i try to do is be nice to him, he wouldnt even let me buy him pizza on his birthday
What would you do in a situation like this or when forced to interact with people like this?
One more thing like that and i might lose my temper which never happens
Ignore. You cannot penetrate a person who acts as a wall. My girlfriend's Dad is similar, he doesn't yell at me, but he says nothing to me. I've been dating his daughter for a bout a year. I walk past him in his house all the time and I no longer even say hi. I used to say it every time I saw him and never got a reply, so, I thought fuck it.
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Re: Girlfriends dad is a dick [Re: Rocker232]
#11309536 - 10/24/09 12:35 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Everyones opinions of fathers will change when you have a daughter of your own
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Re: Girlfriends dad is a dick [Re: niteowl]
#11309540 - 10/24/09 12:36 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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niteowl said: Everyones opinions of fathers will change when you have a daughter of your own
Agreed completely. Some people are in fact just assholes though. I mean you take run of the mill asshole guy in high school, he most likely will be asshole father as well.
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Re: Girlfriends dad is a dick [Re: Rocker232]
#11309561 - 10/24/09 12:45 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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niteowl said: Everyones opinions of fathers will change when you have a daughter of your own
Agreed completely. Some people are in fact just assholes though. I mean you take run of the mill asshole guy in high school, he most likely will be asshole father as well.
True, true once an ass always an ass IME
but a father is naturally gonna give his daughters bf a hard fucking time because the father KNOWS what the bf wants to do with his little girl
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Re: Girlfriends dad is a dick [Re: niteowl]
#11309750 - 10/24/09 01:45 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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niteowl said:
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Rocker232 said:
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niteowl said: Everyones opinions of fathers will change when you have a daughter of your own
Agreed completely. Some people are in fact just assholes though. I mean you take run of the mill asshole guy in high school, he most likely will be asshole father as well.
True, true once an ass always an ass IME
but a father is naturally gonna give his daughters bf a hard fucking time because the father KNOWS what the bf wants to do with his little girl
It's pretty much that simple.
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