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OfflinevinceTM
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how to explain to someone...
    #11276613 - 10/19/09 01:16 PM (8 years, 5 days ago)

how do you explain to your friend of 4 years that the girl he's been talking to for 6 months doesn't like him, but instead likes you. and that you and her have already sorta started a relationship.

i don't want to fuck up my friendship. so that's outta the question.

anyone?


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Re: how to explain to someone... [Re: vinceTM]
    #11276649 - 10/19/09 01:26 PM (8 years, 5 days ago)

You post sir describes a liar and a phoney. Tell the truth up front. Now that you haven't done that do it now.:thumbdown:


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The more knowledge, the more grief.
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Re: how to explain to someone... [Re: Icelander]
    #11276657 - 10/19/09 01:28 PM (8 years, 5 days ago)

yeah, i figured i'd get a similar response.

imma fix it today


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Re: how to explain to someone... [Re: vinceTM]
    #11276883 - 10/19/09 02:04 PM (8 years, 5 days ago)

If she likes you, she likes you. You can't make her love him. Girls are people too, they have feelings and stuff.


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Re: how to explain to someone... [Re: Diaboleros]
    #11277909 - 10/19/09 04:50 PM (8 years, 4 days ago)

Had this happen to me before,

if he is really your friend, he'll understand, and move on


chicks are chicks
bonds/love/friendship/loyalty are real


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Re: how to explain to someone... [Re: traviedigital]
    #11278564 - 10/19/09 06:41 PM (8 years, 4 days ago)

Quote:

Girls are people too, they have feelings and stuff.




Dude seriously, they got STUFF!

Heh heh, you know what I'm talking about. :wink:


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Re: how to explain to someone... [Re: vinceTM]
    #11278594 - 10/19/09 06:47 PM (8 years, 4 days ago)

ask her if she would do the same towards you if she met a third while you're at it?


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Re: how to explain to someone... [Re: rebus_minus]
    #11279124 - 10/19/09 08:11 PM (8 years, 4 days ago)

Ive been through the same thing before, and its happening again with this same guy's new girlfriend. What I did was let them figure out that the relationship isn't working or let them break it of on their own. And at the same time I told the girl that im all for it but nothing would really happen until they broke things off.

I think that's the best you can do about a situation like that.

Edit: Now that ive read what you actually said i'd say go for it. Life's a bitch and if he cant get over it then too bad for him. But if he brings it up dont act like a dick, just let him know the situation, gently.


Edited by Spiralout112 (10/19/09 08:19 PM)


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Re: how to explain to someone... [Re: Diaboleros]
    #11279847 - 10/19/09 09:51 PM (8 years, 4 days ago)

Quote:

Diaboleros said:
If she likes you, she likes you. You can't make her love him. Girls are people too, they have feelings and stuff.





i'm calling bullshit here


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