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csrpj
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is it in my interests to stop porn?
#11268807 - 10/17/09 11:23 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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what do ya say?
also, is it in my interests to decrease masturbation frequency?
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Flop Johnson
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: csrpj]
#11268831 - 10/17/09 11:28 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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I thought about this myself. Then I realized that I really like whacking it to porn, so I carried on with my life.
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Mufungo
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: csrpj]
#11268881 - 10/17/09 11:40 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Is there a time of the day when you don't look at porn or masturbate?
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Flop Johnson
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: Mufungo]
#11268895 - 10/17/09 11:43 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Really, how else are you supposed to cope with down time?
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PDU
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: csrpj]
#11269189 - 10/18/09 12:48 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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csrpj said: what do ya say?
also, is it in my interests to decrease masturbation frequency?
I think the answer to both questions is a resounding yes.
It is my opinion, that:
Pornography desensitizes and alters ones sexuality in a negative way, especially when partaken in habitually.
There are people on this forum who believe that masturbation releases ones "prana" or "life energy" and i think if one learns to control his desire, he will have increased energy and creativity.
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: PDU]
#11271933 - 10/18/09 03:19 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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I personally realized that pornography, while not inherently bad in itself, does have a lot of bad to offer the world. Entertainment is entertainment, as some my say though
I started living on my own in 06, and realized that I couldn't wait to get home to masturbate...
After a pretty intense period where I thought about what I could be doing with all that energy I spent masturbating, wouldn't you know it... I learned to play the guitar
I also started designing T-shirts, drawing more and generally just using my energy for better purposes...
ALSO when I stopped masturbating I would start having nocturnal emissions, which are kinda messy... SO I decided that a few times a week, was not only going to help me not come in my sheets, but is normal, since my body was going to do it for me anyways. I did however, decide not to use pornography anymore, and that my imagination was much powerful.
Also, if I'm imagining a girl that I have strong feelings for, then it's almost like intensifying a bond that you have with someone, while they're aren't there
Now, to be honest, I can't achieve orgasm unless I'm with someone I have genuine feelings for, or if I'm imagining a girl that I love.
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Todcasil
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: dr_gonz]
#11273359 - 10/18/09 07:59 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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dr_gonz said:
Being honest is the new black.
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csrpj
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: Todcasil]
#11275275 - 10/19/09 12:46 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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OK, anybody know a good firefox website blocker addon thing?
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Velvet Waltz
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: csrpj]
#11275502 - 10/19/09 02:17 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Someone posted about this in the Pub and it is quite timely for the situation, although not genuinely useful.
Porn and Firefox
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ChiefGreenLeaf
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: csrpj]
#11279196 - 10/19/09 06:20 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
csrpj said: what do ya say?
also, is it in my interests to decrease masturbation frequency?
yes. i have beat it once in the past 1.5 months
i notice a lot more attention from girls i defiantly lock eyes with them more its hot. all u guys need to get in on tantric sex NEVER CUM. and in 3 months after regular sex (bi/tri weekly) u will orgasm without coming multiple, whole body orgasm after 6 months
have fun
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PowerTrip
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: ChiefGreenLeaf]
#11281059 - 10/19/09 10:27 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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ChiefGreenLeaf said: its hot. all u guys need to get in on tantric sex
You have a good book or website on it?
I just started doing the kegels a while ago. It definitely lets you keep some of your libido after you cum. I think there's something to it and I want to read up more on tantra.
As for porn.. I found out the hard way that it will destroy your libido and sexual imagination. I was going to doctors checking my hormones and everything else. My testosterone was high and I had no drive. I think it partly had to do with stress and dating the wrong girl, but watching porn nearly every day played a huge part.
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Society
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: csrpj]
#11288944 - 10/20/09 11:10 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think it's all about moderation- once or twice a week for me does no harm. Porn is generally just a tool to get my imagination flowing.
If you don't want to give up porn, why don't you try something else, like erotic art.
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: Society]
#11290259 - 10/21/09 04:28 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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try literary erotica!
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Society
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#11291163 - 10/21/09 10:47 AM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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hahaha, true.
My girlfriend goes to literotica.com, I think it is. That ought to get your imagination going.
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eligal
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: Todcasil]
#11301644 - 10/22/09 06:31 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Todcasil said: After a pretty intense period where I thought about what I could be doing with all that energy I spent masturbating, wouldn't you know it... I learned to play the guitar
I also started designing T-shirts, drawing more and generally just using my energy for better purposes...
Maybe you just need to eat healthier so that you have more energy. Maybe try hitting the gym once in a while.
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Todcasil said: ALSO when I stopped masturbating I would start having nocturnal emissions, which are kinda messy...
Did they cum with those awesome sex dreams? I love those...
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Todcasil said: Now, to be honest, I can't achieve orgasm unless I'm with someone I have genuine feelings for, or if I'm imagining a girl that I love.
Lame! Wheres the promiscuity?! Wheres the adventure?!
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Todcasil
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: eligal]
#11302868 - 10/22/09 09:24 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
eligal said:
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Todcasil said: After a pretty intense period where I thought about what I could be doing with all that energy I spent masturbating, wouldn't you know it... I learned to play the guitar
I also started designing T-shirts, drawing more and generally just using my energy for better purposes...
Maybe you just need to eat healthier so that you have more energy. Maybe try hitting the gym once in a while.
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Todcasil said: ALSO when I stopped masturbating I would start having nocturnal emissions, which are kinda messy...
Did they cum with those awesome sex dreams? I love those...
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Todcasil said: Now, to be honest, I can't achieve orgasm unless I'm with someone I have genuine feelings for, or if I'm imagining a girl that I love.
Lame! Wheres the promiscuity?! Wheres the adventure?!
Sorry buddy, I wasn't looking for advice. just trying to give some to the original poster who asked
I have a pretty lovely non-routine that the universe applies to me pretty regularly, so don't worry about my gym/promiscuity habits
-------------------- Men look at themselves and they see flawed humans, we look at women and we see perfect GODDESSES Women look at themselves and they seem utterly human, when looking at men they see proud GODS. ~Casil
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Asante
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Re: is it in my interests to stop porn? [Re: csrpj]
#11308308 - 10/23/09 07:35 PM (14 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quit the porn and masturbate on imagination. Turn yourself on with your mind. Explore where your own fantasies will lead you.
Its much better than whacking it to porn and its true Masturbation because the arousing material too comes from within.
Porn often is boringly cliche and turns you into a passive voyeur. With fantasy, you immerse yourself into a world you created while leading yourself through an experience.
I believe fantasy masturbation is much more wholesome than watching porn. You are getting in tune with yourself rather than consuming a product of the commercial sex industry.
its meditative.
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