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OfflineOmegachrist
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I think its impossible...
    #11270035 - 10/18/09 10:19 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

that I'll never get a girlfriend. Even though I try like a fiend I just can't seem to find a nice girl to love. All the girls I've tried to get with have coined me either too nice that anything more would hurt the relationship, meaning all I am to them is a friend. I don't know how to do it, really. I mean, i'm not in college yet, still workin for my money...even through work i can't find anyone. Its ridiculous!

So anyone got any like ideas, advice, or your own love stories with details such as where you met, how did you get the girl?

Also, this may seem corny...any girls wanna get ta know me..mah fb is www.facebook.com/squilla

I'm sorry, I just don't know what to do. Being nearly 20 years old and never having a girlfriend makes me somewhat bitter XD and leaves me optionless and the only option left was the friggin shroomery. I just don't know what to do. Maybe I'm being childish wanting a girl so bad but shit, 2012 is just around the corner.


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Invisibledr_gonz

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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: Omegachrist]
    #11270177 - 10/18/09 11:10 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

you don't want a gf. you probably just want sex.

pay for it. you will one way or another anyway.


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Invisiblestereolab
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: dr_gonz]
    #11271422 - 10/18/09 03:41 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

You should consider online dating, if you haven't already.  I've never done it, but after college I'll likely look into it.


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OfflineSolemente
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: dr_gonz]
    #11271742 - 10/18/09 04:46 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

dr_gonz said:
you don't want a gf. you probably just want sex.

pay for it. you will one way or another anyway.



Ding ding ding, we have a winner!


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Offlinelines
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: Solemente]
    #11273615 - 10/18/09 10:41 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

A lot of women have confused expectations of what men should be based on the princess movies they saw while growing up. A lot of women also have confused expectations of what they should look like based on the glamour magazines. White women tend to be the most confused when it comes to expectations because most of the characters in princess movies and most of the glamour models are white and so they are most negatoively effected by the media. Not all white women are brainwashed though.


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InvisibleMufungo
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: Omegachrist]
    #11273841 - 10/18/09 11:08 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Desperation is quite a turn off for both men and women. So stop trying. Give up entirely on trying to get a girl. But still put yourself in situations where you're around women as often as you can. Sooner than later, without you trying, you'll begin to notice women are paying you more attention than before.

But also keep in perspective that you're only 20. Give yourself a break and don't compare yourself with guys your own age who seem to be getting all the girls. It gets easier and easier to hook up, start relationships, etc, the older you get. By 30 you will be singing a different tune for sure.


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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: Mufungo]
    #11274973 - 10/19/09 01:47 AM (8 years, 1 month ago)

Im in same boat basically, cant offer advice but im here with you bud.


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OfflineGinseng1
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: weshroom]
    #11275237 - 10/19/09 02:36 AM (8 years, 1 month ago)

Like someone else said, stop 'trying' to get a girl.

I suggest you just work on doing what makes you feel good about yourself.  For me its training and looking good, the right 'style' that works for me in terms of clothing and shit like that.

And once you stop 'trying', then just put in the effort to spend time with females more often.

I suggest online dating because that way you can easily work on developing your own trademark rapport with women.  I don't do the online thing, but I have friends that do and they swear by it.  They go on as many dates a week as they want.  And that way they end up spending time with women, and in that process determining what kind of women they want and what kind of person they want to be around them.


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Offline2Cents
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: Ginseng1]
    #11277139 - 10/19/09 02:43 PM (8 years, 1 month ago)

I am 110% serious when I tell you: tell the bitch to fuck off and you will be two knuckles deep.


seriously....works for me every time.


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OfflineAlphaFalfa
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: 2Cents]
    #11281671 - 10/20/09 02:33 AM (8 years, 1 month ago)

Dis-respect them more...sexuality is inherently frugally disrespectful...pushing them on, is not a bad thing when the time is right.

With girls, you really just set up a time with them, through suttle hints and suggestive smooth talking, playing with their minds and hearts, then if your lucky you will find yourself in a private space with them and bang, no words for what goes on there, just a man of action is all that is needed....

Honestly though, consider yourself lucky. I know many guys, though the dont admit it, are really fucked up individuals, never able to hold a stable and lasting relationship, because they were hurt so badly in the teen years, in past relationships...they loose trust for women and the capacity to gain it, cheat, abuse, explode all because they thought that a relationship was worth it....personally i am happy i found a relationship in college, the first one...because now i have little problems....though I was dumped once before and it actually hurt alot...i think...oh wait no i didnt like that girl much at all anyways...anorexic bitch...fuck her.

peace nigga


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OfflinePDU
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: AlphaFalfa]
    #11282184 - 10/20/09 05:44 AM (8 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

AlphaFalfa said:
consider yourself lucky.  ....  because they were hurt so badly in the teen years, in past relationships...they loose trust for women and the capacity to gain it,




Yeah, ill second that. I got toyed with as a young teenager and it's been detrimental to me. I enter relationships with females when they spontaneously happen, but i do not look, never have.


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Offlinedesiretoheal
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: 2Cents]
    #11283534 - 10/20/09 01:27 PM (8 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

2Cents said:
I am 110% serious when I tell you: tell the bitch to fuck off and you will be two knuckles deep.


seriously....works for me every time.





this certainly holds truth in many situations I witnessed/participated in.

stupid girls.


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If there were no rewards to reap,No loving embrace to see me through
This tedious path I've chosen here,I certainly would've walked away by now.
Gonna wait it out.
If there were no desire to heal The damaged and broken met along
This tedious path I've chosen hereI certainly would've walked away by now.
And I still may ... (sigh) ... I still may.Be patient.
I must keep reminding myself of this.


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InvisibleMufungo
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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: desiretoheal]
    #11286082 - 10/20/09 07:57 PM (8 years, 1 month ago)

It can hold true for guys too..

If I had a dollar for every thread here from a guy who was getting rejected and wanted the girl much more for it... :lol:

Stupid guys.


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Re: I think its impossible... [Re: Mufungo]
    #11286545 - 10/20/09 08:54 PM (8 years, 1 month ago)

just try meeting girls don't try to zero in on making 1 fall for you-go around at a bar or club and takl to different girls get numbers go out


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