That is old fashioned yes, and that's kind of selfish type of thinking. I understand family values and whatnot. But that's like saying spend time with ME ignore your friends, I want your time. I want to control what you do. It's like the other day when I was talking to one of my really good old friends on AIM, whom I hadn't spoken to in over 4 years. We are catching up on all kinds of shit, sharing the intimate details of our sordid lives. And my roommate comes in the room and immediately wants me to drop everything I'm doing and help him with something as if it's the most important thing in the world. And he says who gives a shit about who your talking to, and starts mocking me typing because I just ignored him and kept typing, as we were having a deep discussion at the time. I found that extremely selfish and rude.. I basically said something along the lines of "Fuck you Asshole". And it wasn't because he asked me to do something. It was because of the way he did it. Trying to control me, as if what he wanted to do was more important than what I was doing, which he had no idea of. Even when I told him I was talking to an old friend he didn't care.
Now I understand christmas dinners are a time for family bullshit, but really. Nothing wrong with talking to friends. To some people, friends are more important than family. Friends ARE family.(ME) Or maybe I'm just jaded. Whether she was texting something pointless to some stupid 8 year old or talking about her next deal with Sony, is beside the point. But this is just a dumb anecdotal situation, but it's a decent illustration I guess.
We aren't going to live forever in 1999-2001. Technological advances are increasing at an exponential rate. New technologies is a wondrous thing. Yes, we have been very irresponsible with some of our technologies, that has lead to the degradation of our planet and it's natural resources, but we are only in the beginning stages of being a technological civilization. We can build mobile devices that collect solar energy and produce clean water in the same device, that can be used in 3rd world countries to provide electricity and clean water to people. We could produce technologies that clean the oceans and rivers. We can produce technologies to help, HEAL and unite the planet instead of the destructive technologies that have proliferated the 20th century.
Civilization cannot last forever. Not this model of civilization we have. It is only a matter of time before it collapses. The difference between a collapse of civilization now, and 5,000 years ago, is that we will access to certain technologies, so we don't have to start back over from the stone age. That's a good thing.
There is different types of technologies. There are purely destructive technologies (nuclear bombs.. ), there are technologies that make our life easier but harm the environment (internal combustion engine.. ), and there are purely beneficial "organic" technologies - technologies that enhance our lives, and also work in harmony with the earth and help enhance the environment, a win-win situation. This is a fairly new concept. But it will become the standard, mark my words. No technology can last forever that does not fit this latter model. It is simply not sustainable. However, computers are here to stay. There methods may change, and they will get more advanced as time goes on, but they are here.
We have to re-define what we consider technology. Technology should serve the needs of man, without destroying or causing harm to others or its environment. This is entirely possible. It just requires a different approach than what we have taken in the past. A little more critical thinking.
The internet was the beginning of this. It connects people in a way that was completely impossible before, except by group telepathy. As human evolution continues, so will technology, and so will the beneficial technologies, as we start creating more and more of them out of a NEED. A NEED to become more sustainable. It IS possible to live in harmony with the planet, with technology. And this is the future. But it is likely to get a lot worse before it gets better. The old harmful technologies, need to go, and be replaced by newer, cleaner ones. Technologies that HELP people and HELP the planet, instead of destroying it.
Now where does kids using cell phones fit into all of this? That's just the way it is. 40 years from now kids will be piloting spaceships or something and people will be like WTF . 40 years ago no one would envision that virtually every kid today would grow up with a computer. That's just the way it is. But are we so much worse off because of it? I say no. In general, people are much more informed these days because of it. Sure, it can be used for mindless bullshit. But that's someones choice to use it that way.
Technology is a TOOL. Tools can be used, and they can be abused. A BOW AND ARROW IS TECHNOLOGY. With technology, we could destroy the human race. With technology, we could solve all the biggest problems facing our race, bring world peace, and explore space together. The past model was: Technology to CONTROL and DOMINATE your environment. This stupid "Man Vs Nature" mentality. Well if it's a fight, nature is gonna win, everytime. The new model will be: Technology to LIVE in harmony. "Man WITH Nature"
I think what we will eventually see, is a return to a more natural state of living, WITH technology. Our technology will adapt to our needs and our needs are to become more sustainable with the planet. Bring on the technological advancements, in harmony with nature.
And that's my 2 cents. Of course I could be completely wrong.
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