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 pwnasaurus
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 Why must all women have issues? 
#11202955 - 10/07/09 07:34 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm dating this girl, and she's awesome. Really chill, almost never have any problems at all - except when I bring up sex. If I'm ever like "we need to have more sex", she freaks out on me. She says it's degrading.
We've been dating for just over a month now, maybe a month and a half, and haven't fucked in probably 3 weeks now. It's not degrading for me to bring it up, and I'm not even mad - I just want her to know how I feel. I want this to work, and I really like her, and the only way that I can see myself being in a relationship is if I'm perfectly honest about everything.
Why do women make such a big deal out of fucking everything?
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#11202985 - 10/07/09 07:38 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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She's being perfectly honest about how she feels about it as well. You sort of act like your opinion on sex is the right one and hers is the wrong one. Who are you to tell her she's making a big deal if she just doesn't wanna fuck like an animal?
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#11202995 - 10/07/09 07:39 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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She doesn't want to be with you. It's obvious to everyone but you.
Together for six weeks, no sex for three. Do you need a billboard?
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: showme]
#11203003 - 10/07/09 07:40 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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I assume when dating, sex is on the schedule multiple times a week.
If you're seeing someone daily or several times a week and you're not having sex weekly... but that's complete fail.
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: showme]
#11203017 - 10/07/09 07:43 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Let's be honest - 3 weeks is way too long. I'm not talking about being an animal, but I would like to fuck at least once a week. That is not unreasonable, and it's not like she doesn't like it. And I'm not trying to be a huge dick. The problem also isn't necessarily that we don't have sex. The biggest problem is she seems to think just TALKING about it to be degrading to her somehow.
If I have an issue, I'm going to bring it up - I've been through a couple of super shitty relationships with terrible communication, and I'm not gonna let that happen again.
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Hanky]
#11203036 - 10/07/09 07:46 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Hanky said:
She doesn't want to be with you. It's obvious to everyone but you.
Together for six weeks, no sex for three. Do you need a billboard?
This isn't the case though. She's really stressing about school, and is on academic probation. That's definitely part of it, and I understand that. But we still hang out for at least a bit pretty much every day. And she's definitely very into me, there's no doubt, believe me.
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#11203056 - 10/07/09 07:48 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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She's not making a big deal out of fucking everything.
Just fucking you.
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#11203068 - 10/07/09 07:50 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Shes a lesbian
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: DeathCompany]
#11203113 - 10/07/09 07:57 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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ask her why she isn't having sex with you?
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This tedious path I've chosen here,I certainly would've walked away by now.
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This tedious path I've chosen hereI certainly would've walked away by now.
And I still may ... (sigh) ... I still may.Be patient.
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: DeathCompany]
#11203128 - 10/07/09 07:59 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Use your  Then your always be right...
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Brainiac]
#11203144 - 10/07/09 08:02 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Just stick it in her. Surprise!
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Hanky]
#11203160 - 10/07/09 08:05 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said:
Quote:
Hanky said:
She doesn't want to be with you. It's obvious to everyone but you.
Together for six weeks, no sex for three. Do you need a billboard?
This isn't the case though. She's really stressing about school, and is on academic probation. That's definitely part of it, and I understand that. But we still hang out for at least a bit pretty much every day. And she's definitely very into me, there's no doubt, believe me.
Denial, LOL.
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Hanky said:
It's obvious to everyone but you.
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: gzuf]
#11203167 - 10/07/09 08:06 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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This is my first thread ever to get more than like 5 responses. You can always count on a thread about women + sex = lots of responses hahaha
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But believe me, I know how bad it gets when you have to ask for sex. I used to do that a long time ago, when I was stuck in sexless relationships. I mean you gotta lay down the law man. Do things to turn her on, blatantly, and if she still doesn't respond, ditch her. It's not worth being stuck in a mutually exclusive relationship without sex, honestly.
If things don't change soon, then I definitely will. It would suck though, because other than that, so far she's everything I'm looking for. Oh well - if there's one thing I've learned from staying in shitty relationships, it's when to cut it off.
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: dr_gonz]
#11203196 - 10/07/09 08:11 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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suck her toes and eat her asshole. PM Gumby for instructions.
Hahaha do it, surprise rimjob, that will get a reaction.
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: Chubba]
#11203227 - 10/07/09 08:15 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
supernovasky said:
Gotta turn her on man.
Either you're failing, or someone else is succeeding, or both.
That's not even it though. She gets turned on, and stops me before we fuck - sometimes I even get her pants off and finger her and shit too. And she is wet as FUCK at this point, 150% ready to go. At first she was giving me "not during the school week, makes me too tired for class, blah blah blah". Wasn't a huge fan of that, but whatever, I can deal with it. But after 3 sexless weekends, I'm starting to wonder....
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Re: Why must all women have issues? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#11203256 - 10/07/09 08:19 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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i don't understand why she'd feel degraded by you wanting to talk about sex  that screams deep-seeded issues right there. either try to get her to talk about them, or move it along. i'm guessing this is going to be a huge fuckin can of worms, i hope you're ready. girls usually want to bang as bad as us dudes do, and the ones that don't have often had some seriously bad shit happen to them.
seriously, 3 dry weeks during the first month? wtf?
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