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"why women can't be trusted"
#11189624 - 10/05/09 07:50 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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So, i got this in an email...what do you think? :
men say that, women are hard to understand right? women say, men never understand them right?
but when we ask them whats wrong, instead of saying whats wrong, they say nothing, then get mad when you accept nothing for the answer...
which means, they want you to figure them out.. yet they are being difficult, making it harder for you to figure them out...
then when you give up, they claim you werent worth the time.... huh?
why would you trust something that
1)doesnt know what it wants (emotionally unbalenced by defualt) 2)doesnt want to be understood?
exactly you dont...
women like to be difficult.. so, they are not to be trusted
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: blah]
#11189685 - 10/05/09 07:59 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Difficult therefore untrustworthy?
I don't see the link.
Also that is quite the generalization.
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: blah]
#11189689 - 10/05/09 08:00 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: blah]
#11189818 - 10/05/09 08:20 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well if you change women to people I'd say that sounds about right.
Edited by Tropism (10/05/09 08:27 PM)
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: blah]
#11189885 - 10/05/09 08:28 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Do you think a woman could understand what you just wrote ? I think she could..
They want to be figured out. If you can figure 'her' out.. she finds comfort and safety in you or she freaks out because she is exposed and closes down.
Women tend to build there walls much stronger.. and these walls are what makes guys have an opinion like in your OP. The trick is.. not to try and bring the walls down.. but to point out the cracks.. and let her do it on her own.
btw.. i think it goes both ways , even though there are some differences.
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I also hate when you ask women what's wrong...they say nothing. Then it turns out there actually was something wrong but they said nothing just to see if on some level you understood them and made the connection that they were actually lying when they said "nothing" and there actually was something wrong. Then they get mad that you couldn't figure all that out.
I hate head games. If there's something wrong and we, men, ask if there is something wrong (which we obviously picked up on in the first place or we wouldn't have asked)... don't say no and then expect us to know you were lying and something is actually wrong. A lot of women tell their men not to lie and be honest, yet they lie eveytime they get asked "whats wrong". A lot of women will also say that females are better for communication, yet when it comes to their man asking women what's wrong, all communication goes out the window and you make the sorry bastard guess what he's done.
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: blah]
#11191472 - 10/06/09 01:37 AM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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In your experience this occurs. Have you wondered if you attract these sorts of women, or subconsciously seek them out? Mate type pattern forming is fairly common.
I have said this so many times. This is not a gender issue. It is an issue of "other."
Anyone could convey a vast collection of examples...within hetero relationships, AND gay relationships. I have been in both.
If you are a hetero male, your "other" is women. So women are the target of your "other" frustration.
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I agree with this. I have never been with a woman that does this.
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: blah]
#11192149 - 10/06/09 07:50 AM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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blah said: So, i got this in an email...what do you think? :
men say that, women are hard to understand right? women say, men never understand them right?
but when we ask them whats wrong, instead of saying whats wrong, they say nothing, then get mad when you accept nothing for the answer...
which means, they want you to figure them out.. yet they are being difficult, making it harder for you to figure them out...
then when you give up, they claim you werent worth the time.... huh?
why would you trust something that
1)doesnt know what it wants (emotionally unbalenced by defualt) 2)doesnt want to be understood?
exactly you dont...
women like to be difficult.. so, they are not to be trusted
Hitler and General Custer were women
God I can't believe you would even consider this kind of shit. Talk about Denial. It would be so fucking easy to make an equally negative and biased post about men. You especially. Grow up. If you can.
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Edited by Icelander (10/06/09 07:51 AM)
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: Icelander]
#11192212 - 10/06/09 08:13 AM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah men have their own dishonesties, and it is actually part of being polite in many cases.
this thread is totally misguided
what it should be titled is 'a phenomenon of women's behavior that I find interesting'
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: Noteworthy]
#11192256 - 10/06/09 08:29 AM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah men have their own dishonesties,
UNDERSTATEMENT ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: Icelander]
#11192262 - 10/06/09 08:31 AM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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I don't think men are more dishonest than women
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: Noteworthy]
#11192285 - 10/06/09 08:37 AM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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No I don't either, I think they are as dishonest as women.
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: jivJaN]
#11192697 - 10/06/09 10:21 AM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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jivJaN said: Do you think a woman could understand what you just wrote ? I think she could..
They want to be figured out. If you can figure 'her' out.. she finds comfort and safety in you or she freaks out because she is exposed and closes down.
Women tend to build there walls much stronger.. and these walls are what makes guys have an opinion like in your OP. The trick is.. not to try and bring the walls down.. but to point out the cracks.. and let her do it on her own.
btw.. i think it goes both ways , even though there are some differences.
i have always been good at seeing the fakeness and the acting, and that always irritated me because i wanted something real
then i realized the fakeness and the acting is just an individual's attempts at compensating for their own insecurities
i always used to point out the fakeness and the 'bullshit' aggressively and in a completely un-accepting, non-understanding manner
i'd alienate and embarrass girls and have them think i was a jackass, when really i was just pissed at their fakeness and i thought they were the jackasses
now that i have grown up i realize we were both jackasses, but i should've been much more understanding and not hostile
you will never connect and make a girl feel comfortable with you if you are attacking what you see as her weaknesses...walls do not fall down voluntarily, you need to make someone feel secure enough so that they just kind of let them dissolve
if you attack and try to bring down the walls then you are just going to increase the girl's insecurities, and she will be building bigger, less conscious walls, behind the original one
yeah chicks are tricks and full of games, but games are just a result of a feeling of incompleteness, like ya need to be something more...the trick is making a girl feel like she is already more than good enough
Edited by NastyDHL (10/06/09 10:29 AM)
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Re: "why women can't be trusted" [Re: NastyDHL]
#11192727 - 10/06/09 10:27 AM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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You'll do well grasshopper.
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