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*UPDATE* new girl, need advice on sex
    #11163109 - 10/01/09 12:51 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

ok, so I have been seeing this girl for over a month and finally she declared that she is all mine. I am so happy and she is the cutest thing ive come to touch.

my problem:

We tried to have sex and I went flacid. Here is the thing. I had a boner until I tried to put the condom on, then it went limp. fuck that. I need advise. Its the 3rd time it happened to us. Well one time, I got my cock to work, but she was drunk and was not really wet.

I am 23 and this never happened to me, all but once or twice before. Usually I am hard as a rock.

I eat healthy and workout.

lately my sex drive has been DEAD. how can I boost it?

*UPDATE*

Arg, so can you believe it? I am back to where I was. We had sex and it was amazing, but now I cant do it again?

I read that ED is a warning sign for cardiovascular disease. I have played sports all my life. Currently I am very active, lifting weights and running. I eat damn healthy. Pasta, cut meat, vegetables, potatoes, cheese, etc...

I am worried that I am just flat out impotent?? What are the chances that a 24 year old male goes broke?

Also I was wondering.. Is it possible that I am able to exhaust all my testosterone levels in the weight room, leaving me with too little to be sexualy active? I am strength training lifting the heaviest weights I ever have before. Any ideas?


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: XUL]
    #11163131 - 10/01/09 12:54 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

cock pushups.


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: elementswrath]
    #11163157 - 10/01/09 12:58 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

or workout you're groin muscles.
they have alot to do with you're penis keeping hard.


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: elementswrath]
    #11163171 - 10/01/09 01:00 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Don't drink, make sure your blood sugar is up (eat).  Other than that, I have no idea.  Last night I had to take a piss and was scared that I wouldn't be able to get it up.  But I did anyway.:wink:


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: XUL]
    #11163401 - 10/01/09 01:45 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)


do sum cardio & some kegels, don't masturbate

also, stop watching porn 'milf hunter'

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Re: new girl, need advice on #### [Re: XUL]
    #11166368 - 10/01/09 11:22 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Masturbate regularly.

Watch more porn.

Watch 'Milf Hunter'.

Do Kegel exercises.

Eat healthy organic food and drink plenty of water.

Dont drink so much.

Dont smoke.

Do a little more foreplay again once the condom is on.

Maybe your dick isnt the problem,
maybe you arent attracted to your girlfriend,
because youre attracted to men.
:shrug:


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Re: new girl, need advice on #### [Re: eligal]
    #11166628 - 10/01/09 11:57 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Tell her she's going to have to lick your asshole and fondle your balls so you can get a boner.  If she loves you, she'll do it with a smile.

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Re: new girl, need advice on #### [Re: memes]
    #11168146 - 10/02/09 05:44 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

jesus what the hell lol...

id recommend you two consider some other birth control options. i hate using the condom myself, so we opt to use the ring, which is very effective. if youre both clean from stds, and arent in an open relationship, there are plenty of options other than the condom to try out. i would recommend the ring... also gotta be some trust there. i wouldnt do that with a girl i didnt trust.

as far as sex drive, stay away from the porn, smoking, pot, drinking, you know the fun stuff.. why? because theres funner stuff, like banging that cute girl you just found. also try and lay off the fast food, work on a healthier diet, and exercise more. anything youd think would be helpful to your body will probably help your sex drive, lets put it that way.

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Re: new girl, need advice on #### [Re: mick]
    #11168623 - 10/02/09 10:03 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Get some steel cut oatmeal.  Eat 2 servings in the morning with a banana.  If you're anything like me, you'll have a hard time keeping it down after such a breakfast.

If that doesn't do it, its probably a psychological problem.  Ask your conscience.  Are you being completely honest with your intentions?  Are you clear on hers?  Are they in line?  Maybe some deeper issue.

But the oatmeal oughta do it.  Its what they feed horses.


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Re: new girl, need advice on #### [Re: Senor_Doobie]
    #11168630 - 10/02/09 10:07 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Viagra. :penis:


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Re: new girl, need advice on #### [Re: the_drummer]
    #11169454 - 10/02/09 01:55 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)



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Re: new girl, need advice on #### [Re: eligal]
    #11170432 - 10/02/09 05:04 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

eligal said:

Maybe your dick isnt the problem,
maybe you arent attracted to your girlfriend,
because youre attracted to men.
:shrug:




:lol: so simple, so funny

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Re: new girl, need advice on #### [Re: Chronic7]
    #11172943 - 10/03/09 02:52 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Fucking condoms man...

I'm 18 and what you described happened for the first time to be because of those fucking things.

No one on here has given this advice yet so I'll say it, take ginkgo biloba supplements and L-arginine supplements.


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Re: new girl, need advice on #### [Re: Nymphaea]
    #11173685 - 10/03/09 08:18 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I've also heard that saw palmetto suppliments will cure your junk of the funk. And when I was taking St. John's wort a few years ago for depression, that shit had me walking around with the perma-wood. I didn't think it was possible for sex to be on my mind any more than it already was but damn that stuff had me spending hours in the shower. 

I don't know if either of these will fix your problem but I know that they both stimulate the sex drive, particularly in males.


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: XUL]
    #11175332 - 10/03/09 04:17 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I went through the same thing with my last girl.  We tried unsuccessfully a couple times with condoms and ended up not using one eventually.

I never used to have a problem with condoms though so I don't know what to think.  I'm healthy as fuck, I workout almost every day and don't drink much.  I summed it up to mental hangups with the girl her past experience and my lack thereof.  Plus her being the hottest girl I'd ever fucked I had too much pressure on myself to perform.

-Stop watching porn.. it kills your sexual imagination in my experience and that is the most important factor in staying aroused.

-Go down on her until you're hard.  She will be more comfortable going down on you if you go down on her first.  (she won't feel like a slut)

-Try to not use the condom if you trust her past and birth control use.


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: XUL]
    #11175377 - 10/03/09 04:23 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

When you finger bang her, see if you can feel her cervix.

If it's low and hard, she's not fertile. 

If it's high and soft, she's fertile.

So!  Use a rubber when it's just about out of reach of your fingers and feels soft.  Do the pull-out when it's low and firm.

Also, the high and soft usually happens from 1-2 weeks after the menstruation.  This is when she's ovulating, and her insides want sperm to travel up. 

Good luck man. 

Learn about phemale physiology some more.  It's good for you both :wink:


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: Tri High]
    #11176918 - 10/03/09 09:31 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

The hard-on problem will probably go away by itself as you start to relax around her and feel more comfortable.

I'm a girl, hence don't have a cock,  but when I first got together with my guy 3 years ago that kind of thing happened a few times.  Alcohol had a lot to do with it but also... nerves?

Because as time went by, um, the hard on got bigger and bigger, and the sex too has gotten better and better.  So... maybe you just need time to get to know her better and relax around her.  That'll help with her wetness too.

And yeah, she's fertile 14 days after her period starts. For 3 days.  Your sperms can live for up to 5 days.  So add a day before and a day after for safety, and you only have to use condomns for 10 days/month.  If she's healthy and has regular periods.  If she doesn't have regular periods, she has health problems.

And the pill, other artificial hormones for contraception, that will possibly turn your cute girl into a crazy mean psycho.  Don't encourage her to go on the pill / depo shot , whatever, those things change women into crazy people...

For my mental health I had to go off the pill.  But condomns 10 days a month is not the end of the world.

Maybe she'll suck you off before you put the condomn on.  That might help.


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: HereNowBreathing]
    #11177737 - 10/03/09 11:56 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

You guys could have handled this in a PM.


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: Senor_Doobie]
    #11178003 - 10/04/09 12:56 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

What have you added to the thread?

Horse feed, so he'll have a horse cock?


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Re: new girl, need advice on sex [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #11178476 - 10/04/09 03:00 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

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What have you added to the thread?

Horse feed, so he'll have a horse cock?



:highfive: I just read this entire thread and that was all I got out of it. :lol:


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