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OneMoreRobot3021
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Women are crazy!
#11085202 - 09/18/09 06:30 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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After a summer full of drama, my ex-girlfriend texts me after a couple months of radio silence...
"Marry me. forget everything else"
I mean, I know we men can be jerks...but you women...are nuts!!
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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Taco Chef
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ah not fun dude.
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Prisoner#1
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"women, Fuck 'em" -Prisonernumberone
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claraclairvoyant
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ai yi yi
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andrewss
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Wow, just outta the blue like that?
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Re: Women are crazy! [Re: andrewss]
#11085340 - 09/18/09 06:49 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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Woman are crazy!
Your late. Gay men don't have this problem. Well I mean most of them.
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igwna
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good god man.
how do you plan on dealing with that situation?
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OneMoreRobot3021
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Re: Women are crazy! [Re: igwna]
#11085385 - 09/18/09 06:56 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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To p[ut the situation into greater context..
We were together for five years, and have been broken up for a little over two...she's one of my best friends in the world and throughout most of the breakup we have been able to remain such good friends, but there's always that tension, you know? And for most of these 2+ years of being apart, I have acted with the idea (and she has too) that in the end, at some point, we'd get together and spend our whole lives together.
But it's been a fucked up summer, and this year in general, she's done me wrong. She's led me to believe we were getting back together only to do things (I don't want to go into detail) that have really hurt me, culminating in a really shitty June that left me questioning whether I could trust her with my heart again. After two months of not speaking to her at all, I find that that sureness I once had - that we "belonged" together, and that we WOULD one day be together, be married, is nowhere to be found...and that right now, compared to June, I don't necessarily want to get back together with her at all, because her recent actions have put her in a new light.
We exchanged a couple of letters in the last couple of weeks, and I explained I needed more space and couldn't hang out, even as friends. She said she understood...
Then Wednesday night, I'm having a DMT session with a couple of my close friends, and after we each have a go and are regrouping for our next go, I get this text...and man. What the fuck?! IT was 1:15 in the morning when she sent it, so I'm almost positive she was drunk.
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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Prisoner#1
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OMR... you think maybe it's her mentally disturbed way of saying she's all fucked up and realizes you're the only man for her and that you need to have the restraining order dropped so she can get within 500 feet of you again and that she'll love you until you die which could be 20 minutes after she walks through the door
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Re: Women are crazy! [Re: igwna]
#11085394 - 09/18/09 06:57 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: After a summer full of drama, my ex-girlfriend texts me after a couple months of radio silence...
"Marry me. forget everything else"
I mean, I know we men can be jerks...but you women...are nuts!!
Did your ex gf go off the deep end recently or something? It's just a little bit insano to demand that someone "forget everything else", not to mention the whole shackle-yourself-to-me-we-know-it-won't-work-out bit.
edit: just read the "in greater detail" post. keep your distance is my advice.
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Edited by lukeboots (09/18/09 06:59 PM)
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Hendostan
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Women are crazy!
understatement of the century....
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MisterMuscaria
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OneMoreRobot3021 said:
Then Wednesday night, I'm having a DMT session with a couple of my close friends, and after we each have a go and are regrouping for our next go, I get this text...and man. What the fuck?! IT was 1:15 in the morning when she sent it, so I'm almost positive she was drunk.
I could foresee someone getting married if they took a breakthrough dose before receiving a text like that.
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OneMoreRobot3021
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I've said it before many times here on the Shroomery that I am not sure how much I believe in the idea of a "breakthrough dose" - and how I feel that people chasing the idea of a "breakthrough" often discredit or don't appreciate the fullness and the mystery of the DMT trips they take in their pursuit of this vacuous idea of a "breakthrough"...however....I will say...this is the deepest I have ever gotten....and that there was an object (I'm reminded of Mckenna's transcendental object at the end of time) I was desirous of penetrating at the end of the tunnel...the tunnel was full of gymnatic imps..
Anyway...that's for another thread..
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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MisterMuscaria
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Ive never had a "breakthrough dose"
Has anyone ever had a breakthrough dose or are we just chasing a mythical creature?
All of my DMT trips are relatively the same...an intense euphoria (more euphoric than mdma or opium).
I saw the Sri Yantra at the end of a tunnel.
I think you know what I was getting at though. In the right state of mind things that would be otherwise mundane often seem fated.
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Knobby Tops
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Avoid at all costs... she is ready to brainwash wash you.... avoid at all costs!
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CherryBom
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She loves you. She's probably making a decent effort to get over you, but love doesn't work like that. She's fighting natural forces.
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OneMoreRobot3021
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Re: Women are crazy! [Re: CherryBom]
#11085568 - 09/18/09 07:28 PM (14 years, 6 months ago) |
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I know she loves me.
But someone said to me recently, "love is not enough." There's love, and then there are the actions and the expressions of love that build the bridge between two souls, two bodies, that each love one another. And it's been a rough year between us. I don't know what to do. She put me on standby for a long time, and I feel like now she's put herself on standby. part of me wants to tell her to take herself off of it, to stop waiting for me like she made me wait for her. But a part of me thinks I may one day regret that decision. Thanks for posting Bom, I think I posted this when I did cause you were online and I wanted your input.
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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CherryBom
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Love is NOT enough when your all mixed up in it... But it can be, if your just far enough away. You don't need to be involved with someone to love them. You just do it. You don't need to see them, talk to them, touch them and say I LOVE YOU. You just love them. In your own life. Away from theirs.
Sometimes it's just too much to have certain people in our lives. Even though we do love them...
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Talk to her in person?
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Prisoner#1
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OneMoreRobot3021 said: But someone said to me recently, "love is not enough." There's love, and then there are the actions and the expressions of love that build the bridge between two souls
a very wise friend indeed, I'm sure you've looked back to see if those actions were the ones of the sacrifices that people make for the ones the love or if they were those the self motivated person that likes to mouth the words without following through... the reason I divorced was a selfishness that I cant forgive
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