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 Hakim0777
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 Moral question! 
#11041419 - 09/11/09 03:56 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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Is it wrong that I love my girlfriend more than Ive loved anyone but dont want to be in a relationship at the same time simply cause I want other pussy and enjoy the trill of the hunt?
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Re: Moral question! [Re: Hakim0777]
#11041431 - 09/11/09 04:01 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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Buddy welcome to mine and every other guy in a long term relationships situation.
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Hakim0777
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Re: Moral question! [Re: P-O]
#11041440 - 09/11/09 04:02 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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yea but im actually contemplating it.
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AereolaBorialis
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Re: Moral question! [Re: P-O]
#11041446 - 09/11/09 04:04 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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Totally understandable. I know a girl who dumped her boyfriend of three years to go chase other dicks.
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AereolaBorialis
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Needless to say it's a difficult call. But just use the logic she did.
In the near future it's a possibility that you could end up cheating on them, therefore you're saving both of you some unnecessary heart-ache.
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Big_Whoop
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you cant ask another whats moral, its only for you to figure out.
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Re: Moral question! [Re: Hakim0777]
#11041489 - 09/11/09 04:13 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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I know everyone likes to hate me for saying this, but....
We're not supposed to be monogamous anyway. If you think about getting new pussy this much after a couple years, imagine how much you'll want it in 5.
Most people in long-term relationships stay in them b/c they like the social status that comes with it, and they're too comfortable to leave. It becomes an issue of toleration more than love.
Of course, this is only what I've observed. I've never been in a LTR, they seem awful.
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Hakim0777
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Re: Moral question! [Re: uber_aj]
#11041500 - 09/11/09 04:15 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yea Im starting to feel like love is just an illusion anyways. at least amorous love. I love the point of getting with someone...that feeling of sucess. that feeling goes away after awhile.
I dont want to break her heart either. This is definitely difficult.
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Quote:
AereolaBorialis said:
Totally understandable. I know a girl who dumped her boyfriend of three years to go chase other dicks.
I don't think girls chase dicks, they just kind of stand there and dicks surround them. All she has to do is choose one.
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uber_aj
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Re: Moral question! [Re: Hakim0777]
#11041582 - 09/11/09 04:31 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah I don't believe in love either.
I think the people who say they are in love really just happened to find somebody they honestly enjoy being with. That's a beautiful thing no doubt, but not very realistic or common.
I think the rarest part is when both people feel the same way about each other. I've known a lot of guys and girls who were totally infatuated (they said in love) with their partner, but their partner really couldn't stand them and cheated on them regularly.
I used to hesitate to give people recommendations on their love lives, but since you asked, I suggest you ditch the bitch and go get all the new pussy you can handle. You can always settle down later if you care to.
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tyrannicalrex
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Re: Moral question! [Re: uber_aj]
#11041584 - 09/11/09 04:32 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
uber_aj said:
I know everyone likes to hate me for saying this, but....
We're not supposed to be monogamous anyway. If you think about getting new pussy this much after a couple years, imagine how much you'll want it in 5.
Most people in long-term relationships stay in them b/c they like the social status that comes with it, and they're too comfortable to leave. It becomes an issue of toleration more than love.
Of course, this is only what I've observed. I've never been in a LTR, they seem awful.
QFTMFT! Again with the exact way I feel about this.I have been in a LTR,and about once or twice a year I find someone that I have an "affair" with.When I do get out of this relationship,I will be sure to get someone who feels the same way I do about this.The person I am with now does not,but they have messed around with someone else,with and without me.I am not married.
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Re: Moral question! [Re: uber_aj]
#11041597 - 09/11/09 04:34 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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I read somewhere that "love is just a trick of nature/the mind to get us to procreate." 
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uber_aj
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Quote:
tyrannicalrex said:
I read somewhere that "love is just a trick of nature/the mind to get us to procreate."
Yep, it's a dopamine release that is built purely upon attraction. The only positive relationships are the ones where attraction is maintained, but that's easier said than done, as people have different attraction quotas and expectations.
I lose my attraction to girls within 6 months, much quicker if the sex isn't hot. The average is apparently 2 years, or so say the people on Science Channel HD.
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Hakim0777
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Re: Moral question! [Re: uber_aj]
#11042180 - 09/11/09 06:28 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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I just dont want to break her heart. shes madly in love with me.
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uber_aj
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Re: Moral question! [Re: Hakim0777]
#11042233 - 09/11/09 06:38 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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What a fucking stupid rationalization. So what, you're gonna just wait for her to not be so sprung one day and then end it? Or you're just gonna marry her so she doesn't have to go through a break up? She's only getting more attached as she thinks you are "the one."
I used to know a guy who married his g/f after he tried to break up with her and she threatened to commit suicide. What an awful way to live your life, it's like staying in prison b/c you're friends with the Warden and don't want to hurt their feelings by leaving.
I have to wonder whether you believe that she would be heart broken, or if really you think you might be? Sometimes when you've been out of the game for a while it seems like a daunting task to get back in...
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tyrannicalrex
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Re: Moral question! [Re: Hakim0777]
#11042237 - 09/11/09 06:39 PM (14 years, 7 months ago) |
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The longer you wait;the more will begin to resent her,and the relationship.The pain of the breakup will go away in due time.You can't be 50yo and have been in this relationship for 20 years now can you? Then it would be a little different.If you are in your 20's,the pain will subside,and both of you will recover quicker than you think.(44yo here,speaking from experience)
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