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just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls
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so well there you go, ive been with this girl for 3 years and some months but we always were counting in years ..

to make a long story short, or even very short, i have seperated from this girl before,
then found eachother again (mainly based on sex) fell in love again and basically we grew used to having someone around you like and imho
this is what murdered the relationship in the end.

sorry if i typ funky, ive had about 9 beers. so, to sum it up, i still love that girl and
afaik se has got the same feelings for me but man shit is boiling ! we lived together
for the first time last month as we were working in the same area and my mom allowed us
the use her place exclusively for us (thx mom even though u are no shroomerite lol)
so well, shit boiled, fighting everyday and even some physical action beyond the friendly.

so sum it up, 3 years, lots of shit but bonding despite for every reason, now we finally came to our minds,
called it a quits and each of us feels like shit.

i know its right but i search for every possible reason to keep it going any second and it SUCKS.

i love her, that is the problem, but i am a man of reason and i know that it will eventually vanish,
but i know aswell that the time till said event occurs can really last long so yeah ..

i had the urge to type this and so i did, thank you for reading, ima crack another can !


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:penis: MONOTUB tek :sun: HEATBOMB tek :penis:

RIP #cultivation! ....can't associate? well FUCK U !

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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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I jus broke up with my fiance on our 3.5 year anniversary i no wutchur going thru
y did u guys start fighting
living 2gether is a big thing it creates a lot of problems but usually
with strong communication u kan work things out
that was the prob with my x she sucked at conversing
if u want 2 fix things with her all u need 2 do is voice ur problems
if its something deeper than that then im sorry


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: Coaster]
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dude without wanting to sound like an ass, your the last person ive been expecting to hit my thread for the first reply.

thank you for the text, but the problems are indeed of a deeper level, especially as i think
she has got quite some sort of bipolar disorder but strongly fights off any approach of
therapy or even talking to a psy analyst of any kind.

well, we both know its for the best of us to quit it but hell, 3 years, were talking beyond 1000 days man,
its not like a glimpse of an eye.


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RIP #cultivation! ....can't associate? well FUCK U !

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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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ohmatic said:
dude without wanting to sound like an ass, your the last person ive been expecting to hit my thread for the first reply.

thank you for the text, but the problems are indeed of a deeper level, especially as i think
she has got quite some sort of bipolar disorder but strongly fights off any approach of
therapy or even talking to a psy analyst of any kind.

well, we both know its for the best of us to quit it but hell, 3 years, were talking beyond 1000 days man,
its not like a glimpse of an eye.


Would you say it was a good investment?


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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so what would you say instigated the majority of the fights between you?  general friction?  clashing personalities?  differing P.O.Vs on specific subjects?  i don't exactly understand why all the conflict.

edit:  sorry if that sounds like prying.  i'm only asking because i've been there, in that exact same situation.  and i'm sure if you were to go through my posts from 2-3 years ago, you'd see a very similar thread to this one.


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: PartyMarty4000]
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ya my x had bipolar too i thnk
but w.e i guess u dun wana hear about my analogous relationship :shrug:


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: Coaster]
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it was definitly for the righ thats what i know, that girl got N_U_T_S over every day stuff.

ill provide an example:

i work construction in the summer and i never know when i get home as i get payd on a hour basis
and i actually am happy for evry additional hour i can work as i get a really nice salary.

so anyways as i wrote above my mum let us use her apartemet during one month i was working
and she even had a job in the same uuuuh lets say province as i had.

i never came home on regular hours due to the work and that caused probs (idk why) and when i went for a beer with the dudes
i had been lifting 150lb stage parts all day long it was a problem aswell and god know what else.

then she complained i wasnt fuckin her enuf aswell, god damnit, i am DRENCHED - LITERALLY DRENCHED -
of energy every day that job aint no pet tickling its fucking lift and carry ALL DAY LONG ....

muuuuuuuuuuuah .. oh man :facepalm:


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:penis: MONOTUB tek :sun: HEATBOMB tek :penis:

RIP #cultivation! ....can't associate? well FUCK U !

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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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uve got to satisfy ur woman that should be #1 priority 


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: Coaster]
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Coaster said:
uve got to satisfy ur woman that should be #1 priority 


bro again without meaning to agitate, i see you post pix of stimulants in the candy thread nonstop,
i dont do anything beside alcohol, i can see where u get the energy from but hey bro,
spend a day with me in 40C 140F sun and built a stage for 15+ hours and then show me
how u gonna plow the shit out of ur woman (without said powdas  - ur gonna earn my highest respect :wink:


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:penis: MONOTUB tek :sun: HEATBOMB tek :penis:

RIP #cultivation! ....can't associate? well FUCK U !

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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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do u at least fuk her right be4 bed
right when u let off a load ull pass right out
and u can fuck on ur side so it doesnt take much energy


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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so yeah, it sounds to me like your diagnosis of "it just won't work" seems pretty accurate.  if she's starting fights about every little thing, and you're too busy to truly invest yourself the way she feels she deserves, it simply can't work.

it sucks though.  3 years is a long fucking time.

but considering it's already been on and off once before, i think you need to really make sure you stay strong on this.  relationships where there's constant fighting are a mental and emotional strain on both parties.  it's simply not healthy.  if you're really sure this is what you need to do to find some peace, then stay strong with the decision, no matter how tempting it's looking to go back to her 2 months down the road after everything has seemed to cool down.


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
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yeah 3 yrs are long and it came to the point where i wasnt sure anymore if it was just the feeling of wanting
to "have someone there" or really "loving her" ..

apparently that was the same for her even though that girl was a fire starter of previously unknown dimensions for me lol :wink:

so well, here we are about a week into seperation and hell i think every minute about her
which is normal into a recent seperation i know but meh, idk man, i am so bad at stuff like this ..


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RIP #cultivation! ....can't associate? well FUCK U !

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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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My last relationship was the same length.  It ended about a year ago, and I can tell you, this year has been one of the best years of my life.  You don't realize how much time of your life that person takes up, which at the time you think is completely obligatory because you "haaaaavee to see them" and if your not with them for at least 3-8 hours a day, you don't love them apparently.  I can tell you from my own experience, it's for the better.  Until you find someone who is right for you, who you get a long with and who is on the same level as you in terms of what you want in a relationship and how much time you spend together, it's not worth the fucking headache.  Plus, think of all the money you won't have to spend now that there's not someone who you feel obligated to take care of.

So congrats on making a break to freedom!  Don't let it get you down too much, it's only uphill from here.  :smile:

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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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All I had to see in this thread was...


ohmatic said:
she has got quite some sort of bipolar disorder




I've seen it at work.
Shes the problem, you aren't.
People that are bipolar, truly, are the problem.


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: libertaire]
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I didn't read your post, but usually the solution to these sorts of problems is to kill her.


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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Check your :pm:.

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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: ohmatic]
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ohmatic said:
dude without wanting to sound like an ass, your the last person ive been expecting to hit my thread for the first reply.

thank you for the text, but the problems are indeed of a deeper level, especially as i think
she has got quite some sort of bipolar disorder but strongly fights off any approach of
therapy or even talking to a psy analyst of any kind.



Sounds like the girl I was with for 3 years.

You're better off with out her. The break up sucks, and it may hurt for a while, but in long run being done with it is the right decision. It may take cutting off all communication with her for a long time, but it's the best way (for me at least) to get over things.

Be strong man.

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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: Gumby]
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of course you both feel like shit, that's normal. don't get back together just to try to feel better or make her feel better. in the end it will just make it so much worse and the final goodbye even harder. my advice is to make a clean break. since you both probably still love eachother it's best to just get away so you can move on. trust me, i've done the total opposite of what i'm saying and it BLOWS. look forward and find yourself again.


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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: Gumby]
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maybe eat mushroms with her? i think shroomz r the smart drug n u can probly bond like a motherfucker cuz of seratoenin!! LONG LIVE KING SHROM!!! :obama:

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Re: just quit relationship of 3 yrs and need little assistance pls [Re: YonnyChimmpo]
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YonnyChimmpo said:
maybe eat mushroms with her? i think shroomz r the smart drug n u can probly bond like a motherfucker cuz of seratoenin!! LONG LIVE KING SHROM!!! :obama:


:facepalm:

You have no idea how hard it is not to flame you for that.

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