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I'm also quite a bit more attractive than him, I have more personality, I have a much better body, and I'm a talented guitarist (she hasn't seen me perform yet, but I have a feeling shes going to like me even more when she does).

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SummerDaisies said:

bros before hoes dude.

you dont wanna lose a best friend over a crazy bitch that breaks up with you down the road.


and if she is going to leave a guy for his best friend, then what is stopping her from leaving you for someone else?

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  good advice

BoneMan said:

And does it really make me a prick if this girl realized I'm the better match for her and came to me rather than staying with a guy she realized isn't good for her? just to keep from hurting his feelings.

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BoneMan said:

Ok hear me out before you dismiss me as a complete asshole.  I've known my friend for about ten years, hanging out on and off every few years. We've been hanging out a lot for the last few months.  Anyway, I just met his girlfriend about a month ago and we all went camping together with some other friends, during which I got to know her really well and we developed quite a connection. 

This girl and I are so similar, we get along so well that its almost like she's a female version of me.  The bond between her and I is already stronger than the one between myself and all my other friends who I've known for years.  Her and I have been hanging out alone a lot lately, I took her to the movies, we sat out under the stars watching a meteor shower and chatting, we went out to a bar and shot pool and ate pizza.

We really enjoy eachother's company and its becoming clear that her and I make a much better couple than her and my friend.  I'm also quite a bit more attractive than him, I have more personality, I have a much better body, and I'm a talented guitarist (she hasn't seen me perform yet, but I have a feeling shes going to like me even more when she does). 

She goes around saying things like "I've decided that *Boneman's real name* is my favorite person ever!"  and she texts me all the time talking about how I'm her favorite, and everyone loves me, stuff like "I cant believe we've gotten so close so fast".  And other times she'll text me shit like "I'm being so lazyy todayy" or  "I'm soo boredd", stuff that suggests she wants to hang out, and stuff that I figure she should be saying to her boyfriend, not her boyfriend's friend.

We have so much fun together, and theres a significant amount of sexual tension..that I can feel anyway, but I can't imagine that she doesn't feel it too.  Theres no way she hasn't noticed that we're perfect for eachother.  I just don't know the protocol for these situations.  I don't want to make a move while she's still technically in a relationship with my friend.  But then again, I don't know if shes just going to break up with him without knowing how I feel first.. then again again today she texted me "I knoww you <33 me hehe.."  I just don't know if shes being super friendly though. 

I don't want to lose my friend over this, but if I believed in soul mates, I'd say this girl is my soul mate.  Theres no way I can just let this one go because I don't want my friend to get mad at me.  I could see myself with this girl for a very long time, and since I've become close with her I've lost all interest in all the other girls I was dating.  I'm falling in love with her and I can't control it at all. In the beginning I promised myself I wouldn't get a crush on her, but I couldn't help it.  We clicked instantly, and we had instant chemistry. Shes adorably cute, so pretty, and sexy as hell. Which is rare, most girls are just one of those things. Shes all three.  I want her so bad, and I think she might want me too, but I don't know what the fuck to do about it.

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BoneMan said:

I'm willing to risk hurting a friendship over it.

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Just know that, you risk not only hurting the friendship, but completely killing the friendship.