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Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female?
#10482656 - 06/10/09 01:46 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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My parents were high school sweethearts and married shortly after they graduated. I'm pretty sure my mother has only kissed my father and visa versa. I've been with a few girls before and they were all so great and different I don't know how I would feel if I married my first. I think I would want to try different things, you know test out different women, or does none of that matter when your married?
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DieCommie

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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: Quaternion]
#10482673 - 06/10/09 01:51 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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If I was in love with her, hell yea I would be content. Most people dream and long for such a blessing.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: Quaternion]
#10482695 - 06/10/09 01:55 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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I was with my first GF for 5 years I just recently got dumped on. I was completly ready to spend the rest of my life with her. I never once wanted stray away.
Everyone always says there is always better but how do you know when to stop searching and to keep your heart set on one individual?
I think some people just get lucky their first go around.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: pmb]
#10482703 - 06/10/09 01:56 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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If you don't mind me asking why did she dump you?
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: Quaternion]
#10482720 - 06/10/09 02:00 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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She couldn't keep up with the stress i've been going through. Mother committed suicide lost my job bunch of other shit all within a couple months. I snapped one night and yelled at her calling her some shitty names. She decided she didn't want to help me and itd be easier to leave me and find another guy she wants to marry and have kids with 2 weeks later.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: pmb]
#10482728 - 06/10/09 02:01 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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So she just threw away 5 years over some stupid name calling, she didn't seem right. Your real future wife would have stayed with you through your ordeal don't you think.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: Quaternion]
#10482742 - 06/10/09 02:04 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quaternion said: So she just threw away 5 years over some stupid name calling, she didn't seem right. Your real future wife would have stayed with you through your ordeal don't you think.
Ya it was pretty stupid and it hurts, but I'm hoping to find a nice chick that wants to trip with me. Instead of being an anti-drug crusader like she was.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: pmb]
#10482753 - 06/10/09 02:07 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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Oh an anti drug crusader, wow I'm surprised you even thought about marrying her.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: Quaternion]
#10482770 - 06/10/09 02:10 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quaternion said: Oh an anti drug crusader, wow I'm surprised you even thought about marrying her.
LOL, TBH it was the only thing that I didn't enjoy about her. For future girlfriends its going to be a requirement because it just causes too many problems otherwise.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: Quaternion]
#10482774 - 06/10/09 02:11 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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I would be content........ I don't feel like I need to try out tons of girls. one like minded girl is all I need
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: pmb]
#10482781 - 06/10/09 02:12 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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i'm pretty lucky to be with my girl, she's my first girlfriend been goin with her a year now. she smokes herb and wants to trip with me (jackpot!), is dynamite in bed, and generally just a very sweet girl who'd do anything for me at this point and i'd probably do just damn near anything for her. she's my first, I'm like her 5th or something so the only issue we have is really just the same old one with space n boundaries n such. I love my solitude, she's never learned to really enjoy hers.
To the OP - I think it's completely possible to be content with only 1 girl - my first girlfriend is the only girl I've had sex with but holy shit it's such good sex (we go from 1-5+ hours) I don't think that would be the reason why I'd ever, ever walk away from the relationship. If it defies your biological urges though, maybe 1 chick isn't the way to go.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: pmb]
#10482859 - 06/10/09 02:27 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quaternion said: Oh an anti drug crusader, wow I'm surprised you even thought about marrying her.
LOL, TBH it was the only thing that I didn't enjoy about her. For future girlfriends its going to be a requirement because it just causes too many problems otherwise.
Funny you say that, I won't date a guy unless he likes to trip/have a good time/likes to smoke.
We just won't see eye to eye and I know that. I'm me, take it or leave it
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: magikgrl]
#10482889 - 06/10/09 02:33 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm me, take it or leave it
So there is no room for compromise or meeting halfway in a relationship? I think this kind of take it or leave it attitude is a cause for alot of strife. Sure some things are deal breakers, I certainly couldnt be with an anti-drug person. But expecting the other person to accept you as-is in your entirety is unrealistic, and gets more unrealistic as we get older and accumulate more baggage. A better attitude to have is to expect to change who you are and look for someone who inspires positive change and growth.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: DieCommie]
#10482908 - 06/10/09 02:40 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm me, take it or leave it
So there is no room for compromise or meeting halfway in a relationship?
people chage but to make that change and be happy about it is has to come from the self, it cant be pushed by a partner
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: DieCommie]
#10482910 - 06/10/09 02:40 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well I'm a girl, but I'm not sure that I could be with one guy forever. Maybe it's just my cynical outlook, but I just don't quite believe that it's possible for two people to be truly happy with each other forever.
But then again, there are some people I couldn't picture apart. My best friend and her boyfriend for example. He was her first everything and I'm positive that they'll be married one day. They're meant to be together. They just are. They complete each other in a way that I don't think another person ever could.
For myself though, I don't know. It would be wonderful to be happy and in love with the same person for the rest of your life, but for most people that's just not realistic.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#10482934 - 06/10/09 02:44 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said: people chage but to make that change and be happy about it is has to come from the self, it cant be pushed by a partner
Right. What Im advocating is being open to change, change from the self. The 'take it or leave it' attitude is the very opposite of that and in my experience doesn't lead to a healthy relationship.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: DieCommie]
#10482944 - 06/10/09 02:46 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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Qubit said: If I was in love with her, hell yea I would be content. Most people dream and long for such a blessing.
This.
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: Rocker232]
#10482961 - 06/10/09 02:50 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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I definitely couldn't have stuck it out with my first
But I could be happy with one person if we'd both be smart about it all!
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Re: Would you be content with only ever being intimate with one female? [Re: KetamineKatalyst]
#10483053 - 06/10/09 03:07 PM (14 years, 8 months ago) |
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KetamineKatalyst said: I definitely couldn't have stuck it out with my first
But I could be happy with one person if we'd both be smart about it all!
what happened with your first?
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