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So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter.
#10320528 - 05/11/09 01:51 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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here it is.
I know you guys are probably angry, hurt and disappointed in me right now but please try to understand what I am trying to say and where I am coming from. First of all I’m so sick of trying to have to lie about the way I choose to live. I understand how you guys feel about me using marijuana. To you no good can come out of using a drug.
You have been told by politicians, religious leaders, and just the general population to stay away from marijuana and then they list the side effects of marijuana from shaky sources and assumptions about cannabis with a one sided way of understanding marijuana and its affects. I know you think you are looking at unbiased information when it comes to weed. But you are only understanding it from one side. And I know you guys feel the same way about me. You think that I am only listening to one side of the argument too. What you don’t understand is that I have done a lot of researching and thinking about using an illegal substance. I have balanced out the pros and cons many times in my head when I am either sober or high. And every time I come to the same result.
My concentration improves dramatically when I use weed. When I am just living my normal adhd life I have nonstop thoughts that have no correlation between one another. My thoughts are disconnected with what is going on around me and the thoughts in my head do not match with my immediate suroundings. I feel like I am just going through the motions of life because I have the silly idea that I have already experienced enough of life that I can’t enjoy it anymore. But when I am high I realize that I have just experienced a very small portion of life and that there are a million ways to approach and think about a situation. And a million ways to change my situation.
When I am sober the same thought processes go through my head everyday and I am stuck in a depressive mind state. But when I smoke I am instantly removed from that mind state and point of view. I am better able to concentrate and observe my situation through an unbiased opinion of life. I notice so many new things and I take a completely different approach to my everyday situations and am able to view my situation with many different perspectives. For example when I was working at subway I was having a very hard time catching on to how I was supposed to work. I was frustrated because I would just stand around and try to act busy because I didn’t know how I was supposed to be doing. I wanted to do a good job but I wasn’t sure how to.
One day I decided smoke a little before going into work which I know sounds very irresponsible but keep in mind I put a lot of thought into it and decided that I should try something new. I suddenly understood what I should be doing and how I should be doing it. (Nobody really trained my on how to do my job they just said I need to watch and observe)
So as I was working my coworkers and my manager noticed my improved performance and gave me compliments about how I was catching on quick. And I was able to focus completely with the task at hand throughout the day. And the next day I went into work without smoking and I was able to retain that information and remember how to do my job almost as well as when I was working high. I’m not saying everything about marijuana is positive I know there are some minor health concerns about choosing to live this lifestyle. However most of the stuff the general media and research says about weed is blown out of proportion and purposefully so. Or they say the truth without really saying the truth and all sides of it.
You need to understand that I didn’t just jump into the decision to use pot. I remember when I was young I was scared to death of drugs and was given horror stories about them. The dare officers most likely had good intentions as they were just doing what they thought was best but I believe they shouldn’t be using scare tactics and bending the truth. They clump weed in with dangerous drugs like meth, speed, cocaine, and heroin. And they tell you that if you use weed you will end up on the streets injecting heroin. If I was to have an honest description of myself I would say I was a thinker. Perhaps it is my adhd mind but I always catch my mind wandering off to think about everything like the universe and all the mystery and wonder of it all. So about 3 months before I left for Utah I was casually browsing a forum for philosophy, spirituality and religion. And I noticed a lot of people mentioned using entheogens to get into a philosophical and spiritual state of mind. So I wondered what an entheogen was and I looked it up and was terrified they were talking about using drugs like weed and mushrooms! I didn’t understand I thought drugs made people completely brain dead and stupid and that weed acid and mushrooms would literally melt your brain because that’s what my dare officer told me. Yet these philosophical people were using drugs. So I decided to do lots of research from lots of different sources and points of view. And I decided that one day I would like to just experiment with weed.
And so after I moved out I met my roommate who let me know that he was using weed and I asked him if I could try it. So one day we went out and smoked in a hidden area where we wouldn’t be disturbed. I had no idea what was going to happen and was waiting to see how it would affect me.
Suddenly I saw textures enlarging and contracting. Everything looked so beautiful I could examine every little detail on an object. Colors were brighter and contrasted better and the shading was more defined and the combination of it all made me go into a trance like state where I felt like my consciousness was expanding and I noticed I could actually feel the trees and hills and everything in my surroundings. “It’s hard to explain unless you have felt it before” I noticed if I closed my eyes I could remember what everything looked like perfectly. And then I started to reflect on my life and every little decision I have made and how it has affected me. I also put myself in everyone else’s shoes. And gained a different perspective on how my actions affect everyone. This made me sad as I realize how selfish I am most of the time absorbed in my own thoughts.
I noticed what made me different from others and I understood my personality better. I then reflected on my whole life as far back as I can remember to the present. I got up and we walked back inside our apartments and I looked at the clock and realized only 20 minutes had gone by and I just did about a month’s worth of thinking. I noticed it came on in waves. My thoughts would drift off into a completely different way of thinking that was very abstract and alien to my brain and then I would come back down to what everyone calls “reality” just long enough to explain to my friends in astonishment what I just experienced. But I found I couldn’t explain it or do it justice. My thoughts were beyond explaining with words. I felt like me and my roommates were on the same wavelength anyways and our thoughts were somehow connected and there was no need for explanation.
My roommate then recommended that I try to draw what I experienced and so started to draw and ever since then I have had a new found appreciation of art. I felt like art was a pure expression of the soul. I then realized how incredibly worthless words were in this state of consciousness. After I finished drawing I decided to listen to some music. It was mind-blowing. The music sounded four dimensional. I heard every little detail and each sound brought out a different emotion and it all connected together so beautifully. I noticed I could feel the vibrations of the music and I felt like the music became a part of my body. It was an incredible experience. I felt like I understood what the artist was trying to convey and I found a new appreciation for music.
I then started thinking about the universe and all the possibilities, theories and different ideas associated with it. I then came to the realization that matter was just condensed energy moving at a slow vibration. I then realized I could feel the energy vibrating in my body. I had complete body consciousness and I could feel everything around me. I felt like I was literally connected with everything. It is impossible to describe that feeling or understand it without experiencing it. People practice meditation and yoga their whole life to just to get this feeling and realization. It was probably the most interesting inspiring moments of my life.
As I was coming down and having more normal thoughts I was shocked. I felt like I had been lied to all my life about drugs. And so I did more research and found some of the side effects of smoking weed to be quite funny. • Trouble remembering things • Sleepiness • Anxiety • Paranoia • Altered time perception After experiencing what It was like to smoke marijuana I found this to be quite funny. First of all I want you to read this article. http://www.paradigm-sys.com/ctt_articles2.cfm?id=53 I know it is long but I just want you to understand where I am coming from. So please read up to at least The Nature of Knowledge.
Anyways after coming down from a high I noticed I couldn’t really remember what if felt like to be high and all that I had learned from it. This is due to state specific memory. A lot of times when I’m high I think in ways that would just completely overload my sober mind and so I can’t understand it when I am coming down. My sober state of mind didn’t have enough imagination to sense what I it is missing. This can be overcome by reflection upon coming down. Next is sleepiness I don’t know if you are aware of this or not but there are two main types of marijuana. One is sativa and the other is indica. They provide a different high and the indica type of weed is what makes you feel tired and has a very calming mind clearing effect that makes it easy to sleep. Sativa is used for people who have to be active from day to day and is used more for the way it alters consciousness then the way it makes the body feel. The stereotypical stoner the media portrays is the sativa type of weed smoker.
The anxiety and paranoia are obvious. Who wouldn’t be paranoid and anxious when participating in an illegal activity that has been a huge taboo in society for a long time. The truth is marijuana has been used for a long period of the earth’s history back into pre civilization for thousands of different purposes. The reason why we are not being told the full truth of marijuana from both perspectives is because it makes people uninterested towards the values of industrial capitalism. It makes people not want to work every day of their life to save up money to buy bigger and better things. It makes people realize they would rather live a simple life in which they can observe reality and all of its wonders. But there is a balance and I didn’t work that out very well when I was in Utah.
Altered time perception being listed as a negative for weed is laughable. When someone is high we perceive time differently because our brains are thinking differently and we usually don’t think in words it’s a much more complex and intuitive way of thinking. Sometimes it feels like I get trapped in moments of eternity. This is not a bad thing.
Wow I have already typed up four pages and I could talk on and on about this subject. I feel very strongly about this and I know it is hard for you to understand why I would want to participate in an illegal activity associated with criminals by the media. I know it is very heart breaking to know that your son uses drugs and will continue to use them. But I need you to try to try and understand why I do. I don’t just smoke to feel good for a while and escape what we call “reality”. (To me it’s embracing a new reality) I do it for inspiration, intuition and a philosophical spiritual experience. I feel so strongly about this and it saddens me that nobody will ever understand why I choose to live this way. As far as addiction goes I’m not going to lie it is hard for me to go a long time without smoking because I feel like I am missing out on a huge experience. I love thinking in a philosophical, spiritual, and creative state of mind and it fascinates me every time.
After observing myself and the way I feel I have noticed that when I choose not to smoke weed for long periods of time (2-5 weeks) I forget what the whole experience felt like and was about and it draws me back in. I’m a very curious person and it makes me sad that I have to lie and try and hide the way I choose to live. I just wish you guys can understand where I am coming from. Anyways I love you and it’s really late right now so I’m going to go to bed. I hope we don’t have to fight or argue with each other too much.
Edited by Poptart (05/11/09 01:54 AM)
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10320552 - 05/11/09 01:56 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I can't believe you were dumb enough to get caught again
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: niteowl] 1
#10320566 - 05/11/09 02:00 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I can't believe you're dumb enough to be underage and posting...;) Go take a big rip and walk out and chase your 'rents around the house blowing smoke at them. Be like "ACCEPT IT "
Seriously, when it happened to me I was 19 when they found out and I just kind of shrugged and said "hey you know, I'm not out drinking and driving, getting wasted, and I'm being safe, but I'm not going to quit." Mom was kind of crying but now years later all she does is go "god that stuff smells bad." They'll get over it. Or you could move out and do it anyway.
*edit* Oooh the stereotypical would be the indica, unless you're thinking of kumar and harold...
Edited by DRTMaverick (05/11/09 02:04 AM)
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Maverick]
#10320575 - 05/11/09 02:04 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yea, i got busted and they didnt care. Then i got busted again, and again with coke, boxes of coricidin, and a meth pipe... she cried like fuck and i got counseled. So my mom now just says as long as its just weed, then what ever... that and im over 18, and pay my bills and part of rent so she can suck it if she doesnt like it...
Your letter was to long. i got threw the first paragraph... But seriously, sit and talk. Instant feedback is great...
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Sparkey_STi]
#10320578 - 05/11/09 02:05 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah, and don't get stoned before you talk to them.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Maverick]
#10320588 - 05/11/09 02:09 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have a hard time communicating all my thoughts verbally. And just get too irritated with my parents ignorence. I can't explain myself fully and so thats why I decided to write that letter. And yes I wrote it while I was high.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: niteowl]
#10320590 - 05/11/09 02:10 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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niteowl said: I can't believe you were dumb enough to get caught again
I cant believe he was dumb enough to write that long ass letter.. Cut and paste. hit print, my man!!1!.. /,
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10320594 - 05/11/09 02:12 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Surely you didn't get caught smoking in the house again.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: niteowl]
#10320599 - 05/11/09 02:14 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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are you implying typing the fucking thing? Just talk to them damnit.
Smoking in the house is gonna get you caught though. No matter how you look at it.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Maverick] 1
#10320602 - 05/11/09 02:15 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have a hard time communicating all my thoughts verbally. And just get too irritated with my parents ignorence. I can't explain myself fully and so thats why I decided to write that letter. And yes I wrote it while I was high.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: orison]
#10320606 - 05/11/09 02:16 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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orison319 said:
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niteowl said: I can't believe you were dumb enough to get caught again
I cant believe he was dumb enough to write that long ass letter.. Cut and paste. hit print, my man!!1!.. /,
I typed it out on the computer...
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Maverick]
#10320610 - 05/11/09 02:19 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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DRTMaverick said: are you implying typing the fucking thing? Just talk to them damnit.
Smoking in the house is gonna get you caught though. No matter how you look at it.
I smoke in the middle of the night when everyone is already asleep. There are two seperate rooms in my basement and one is a room nobody ever goes in. So I sneak in their at night and blow the hits outside the door. So it's not like I was just blazing up in the living room in the middle of the day.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10320625 - 05/11/09 02:23 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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How did you get caught...I smoked in high school for years and only got caught when my friends did dumbass shit.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10320633 - 05/11/09 02:26 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Poptart said: I smoke in the middle of the night when everyone is already asleep. There are two seperate rooms in my basement and one is a room nobody ever goes in. So I sneak in their at night and blow the hits outside the door. So it's not like I was just blazing up in the living room in the middle of the day.
You got caught the same way you did last time.
Can't manage to walk your dumb ass outside
Yea, you deserve the sermon you are gonna get.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: g00ru]
#10320644 - 05/11/09 02:28 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have no fucking clue I"m like a ninja when I smoke. I didn't make a fucking noise. And it was like 1 in the morning. So I snuck off in the room and opened the door to my backyard and blew my hits out. Then I retreat to my room and hide the weed and the apple I was using. Then ten minutes later my mom runs downstairs and goes in the workroom. she then goes up to my door and bangs on it angrily and says that that wasn't a very good mothers day present.
She fucking gave me a heart attack when she pounded on the door to my room.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10320650 - 05/11/09 02:31 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Poptart said: So I snuck off in the room and opened the door to my backyard and blew my hits out.
Why didn't you just go out side and close the door.
Problem solved
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: niteowl]
#10320659 - 05/11/09 02:34 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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niteowl said:
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Poptart said: So I snuck off in the room and opened the door to my backyard and blew my hits out.
Why didn't you just go out side and close the door.
Problem solved
Because then I coulden't hear if my parents are coming. Besides it smells like shit in the workroom because thats where our dogs sleep. And I let the room air out to so I don't think it smells that strongly.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10320665 - 05/11/09 02:38 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I have no idea how she knew I was smoking. She obviously didn't see me smoking unless she had cameras set up or some shit lol. (paranoid stoned thought)
So the only other way is that she ran downstairs hoping to catch me in the act or she was going downstairs to feed the dogs and noticed the room smelled like weed.
Lol should I just deny it? she has no proof. But then again she woulden't believe me.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10320686 - 05/11/09 02:47 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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smelt it?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10320712 - 05/11/09 03:00 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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You're a fucking idiot, period
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: tpihkal]
#10320742 - 05/11/09 03:17 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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fuck the letters, give them a good old talking to
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: tpihkal]
#10320793 - 05/11/09 03:49 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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tpihkal said: You're a fucking idiot, period
I Have to agree with tpihkal.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: tpihkal]
#10320832 - 05/11/09 04:14 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Dude, you really need to stop doing this dumb shit. Stop smoking at your parents house or GTFO. God, at least I was smart enough to walk outside and do it after I got caught..
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: tpihkal]
#10320879 - 05/11/09 04:38 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Wow, that was a pretty damn good letter. Don't listen to these know it alls. Not everyone is lucky enough to have cool parents. I read it in its entirety and let me just say. If they don't accept your herbal use after typing up that great letter then well. I hate to say it they are fucking dicks if so. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Just don't start eating ecstasy every weekend and your all good.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Seeker_22]
#10321093 - 05/11/09 06:15 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I wouldn't call having respect for other peoples homes being a know it all. My parents were against drug use. So when I still lived with them I refrained from using them while at home and had no problems. It's not that hard to leave the house when you want to get high.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Othyem]
#10321212 - 05/11/09 06:52 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I respected my parents home and didn't smoke weed or drink in it. I walked down the street smoking a joint like it was a cigarette, then walked back. Then i would change my shirt and brush my teeth. My parents apologize now for being giant asshats about it 12 years ago. Since then i found out they are both alcoholics and were always drunk when they were home. My mom is a pill popper, and my dad smokes weed sometimes. Fucking hypocrites.
Anyways, i asked them a few months ago if they thought i was doing good in life, if i was a good father, and if i made them proud. They said most defiantly yes! I then told them i smoke pot still and it makes me a better healthier person. All they could do was ask me questions about how it helped me, and why i thought it was healthy for me. I told them how my spine was fucked up when i was a kid, and when they refused to take me to a doctor how pot helped me survive the pain. I showed them paper work on how badly i have arthritis, and then explained to them how great weed is helping to alleviate the pain now.
They freaked out that i had medical proof that my back was that messed up. They thought i was just complaining about growing pains all the time, and just wanted to get high because i was addicted. I told them about the only addiction i have ever had, and that was on prescription pain killers than almost killed me that doctors gave me. I told them i toke up rather than take even aspirin because it was safer, then i showed them proof supporting both of my claims.
Well now that I'm a adult and still saying this and living in the times we live in today of information at your fingertips, they totally apologized to me and asked me if i would smoke with them some day lol. I told them i wanted them to live longer, so when they think they need pills for pain, or want to go on another drinking binge to please call me and get their rocks off in a safe way and eat some edibles or smoke some weed with me lol.
I can't believe my dad apologized to me and actually listened to reason. He couldn't argue with me once i showed him countless documentation on the helpfulness and safety of cannabis.
My suggestion OP is to stop doing drugs in your parents house. Then, when you grow up and move out you can try to talk to them on a equal level. They are not going to listen to you right now. Their job is to tell you what to do the best way they know how. They might not have the right idea about pot atm, but from what i can tell parents don't respect their kids. They are the leaders, so why would they take your advice now? Show them you can stand on your own and be a productive member of society on your own before trying to turn their worlds upside down. Their whole lives they were told by the government that pot is horrible. There is no way they are going to listen to their kid when the system they were programmed by deems a substance extremely dangerous. It's sad i know, but you are really in no position to disobey them outright right now.
Hide that shit good. You still have to earn their respect as an adult, and spinning their little worlds upside down isn't going to work while you depend on them to pay the water bill to flush the toilet.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321297 - 05/11/09 07:23 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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DId it go something like this poptart...
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Poptart said: Then I retreat to my room and hide the weed and the apple I was using. Then ten minutes later my mom runs downstairs and goes in the workroom. she then goes up to my door and bangs on it angrily and says that that wasn't a very good mothers day present.
She fucking gave me a heart attack when she pounded on the door to my room.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Kada]
#10321340 - 05/11/09 07:37 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Kada said: they totally apologized to me and asked me if i would smoke with them some day lol. I told them please call me and get their rocks off in a safe way and eat some edibles or smoke some weed with me lol.
That's weird dude....
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321486 - 05/11/09 08:27 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Dude. Give up on pot. I don't mean to insult your intelligence, but lets just say I don't think you're ready to be smoking it yet.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321601 - 05/11/09 09:07 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321606 - 05/11/09 09:11 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Poptart said: I have no idea how she knew I was smoking.
She's your mom. She know all about everything you do.
Everything.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Knifey Mcstab]
#10321645 - 05/11/09 09:24 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Mandrake said: Dude, you really need to stop doing this dumb shit. Stop smoking at your parents house or GTFO. God, at least I was smart enough to walk outside and do it after I got caught..
JESUS!
Ya my parents don't care if its in their house or not. They don't want me to be doing it period. And going for a walk and smoking a bowl in the middle of the street in the middle of the night doesen't sound like a good idea to me.
I have a much higher chance of getting caught if I do leave the house. Of course they are going to know I am smoking when I just get up and sneak off in the middle of the night. Anyways it's hard to explain and you don't fully understand the situation I am in. Or the depression and adhd I suffer with and how weed relieves me of that.
If I didn't have a bowl to come to at the end of every shitty repetetive day at work I probably would have killed myself by now.
Ya I know I know what your thinking the weed is making me depressed well guess what. I went for a month without weed and I was just as depressed if not more so then when I did smoke.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321655 - 05/11/09 09:27 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anyways it seems the majority of the comments here are directed at how much of a dumbass I am. I have heard this plenty of times and don't need to hear it anymore. It's starting to ring in my ears and it's making my already low self esteem even worse. "ya ya I know I just need to suck it up"
are you guys even reading the letter? what do you guys think of it? I need feedback. Not more comments on how much of a dumbass I am. I already get enough of that.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321665 - 05/11/09 09:32 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I added this to the end of my letter after my dad came in this morning for the talk. He ended up telling my how satan is trying to get my soul and that I am living in a delusion. He then screamed at the top of my lungs how he does not want me using drugs.
Here it is.
Well after talking to you this morning It has come to my attention that this letter will be taken the wrong way and that it is impossible for me to explain or for you to understand. I don’t know what to do anymore I feel like everyone is so against me because of the way I choose to live and it is the most isolating feeling in the world. I guess it is impossible for communication to be established and that misunderstandings will always be present. All I want is to be able to explore my own mind but it has become clear to me that everyone is strongly against this idea or thinks there are other ways.
I think if you guys were in the scenario where your parents were very against what you believe in and were constantly giving you anti Mormon speeches that are completely absurd and flat out untrue you too would find yourself continuing your practice and wanting to leave so you can practice freely. Think about erics situation and how his mom was so against Mormons based on just what she just heard and told him she didn’t want anything to do with Mormonism going on in her house. Telling him she does not want the Book of Mormon in her house. I find I am in the same situation here with you guys. I know to you it is completely different but it is the same to me. Here is an article about the spiritual use of drugs http://druglibrary.org/SCHAFFER/lsd/stolarof.htm . Please read it as it means a lot to me.
I typed this out because I can express my feelings better on paper then trying to say it out loud. I know that I am not very good at communicating with people about the way I feel and a lot of times I choose to not even bother. So please give this a good read and put some thought into it.
I am not asking you to be proud of my drug use or to allow me to do it in your house because I know you are very strongly opposed to it and I put dad in the really awkward situation of being the stake president and having a son that uses drugs in his house. But I just want you to try to understand and have compassion. Anyways sorry or being so difficult I’m sure you guys weren’t expecting me to turn out the way I did and you look down on the way I choose to live and feel hurt and betrayed.
I just wish you guys can understand where I am coming from. Anyways I love you and I hope we don’t have to fight or argue with each other too much.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321670 - 05/11/09 09:34 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Don't blame weed for making you not kill yourself because of every repetitive day, you make it sound addicting. :P Marijuana after awhile (a few years of tokage every day) definitely affects your motivation, and I'm speaking from experience.
If you're always depressed, even when you smoke, smoking probably isn't what you need, you don't need to numb your problems out of smoke them into oblivion, you need a life change and to do something that will make you happy.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321693 - 05/11/09 09:42 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Direct them to some sources where they can do their own reading, like erowid.
Why do you think your parents don't want you smoking? You need to find out what they worry about and quash their fears. Its not just because its illegal and "unhealthy", they are worried you will become a pothead and such. Parents always assume the worst will happen, you have to show them its all good.
There are plenty of resources for "talking to your kids about drugs", but none for talking to the parents!
American Psycho, that early 90s propaganda is hilarious!
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321702 - 05/11/09 09:44 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I read everything you wrote. It's more of the same shit nearly every pothead has spewed at one time. That letter will only create problems for you.
You should just accept that they don't want you doing that shit. Just quit while you're at home, save your $$ so you can move out and do what you want. Then hide it until you feel like you've earned their respect as an adult.
At that point, if you choose to tell them, you will get much further.
(The medical reasons you listed are suspect and too convenient.)
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321703 - 05/11/09 09:44 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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there's a door in the basement that you can walk out of?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321704 - 05/11/09 09:46 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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And what state do you live in ? is medicinal marijuana legal there?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
#10321715 - 05/11/09 09:48 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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My parents are old heads themselves, so even when I was a teen, if I was having a bad trip or whatnot, moms knew how to bring me out. I was at their house yesterday while mushin it, and they just kept making jokes about how I "Wasnt at my desk but is taking messages". Chill parents are the shit.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Green_T]
#10321727 - 05/11/09 09:52 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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lol loved the video
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
#10321753 - 05/11/09 10:00 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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AmericanPsycho said: DId it go something like this poptart...
Lol that almost exactly how the conversation went. haha so stereotypical.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321784 - 05/11/09 10:13 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Lol that almost exactly how the conversation went. haha so stereotypical.
HAHahaHAHa really???
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321803 - 05/11/09 10:19 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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You slam the door and run away with your friends?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
#10321805 - 05/11/09 10:19 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Respect your parents place, don't smoke around their house anymore simple as that...
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Cowgold]
#10321810 - 05/11/09 10:21 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm saying my dad reacted in the exact way not me.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321822 - 05/11/09 10:25 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Do you have a little brother that screamed "Poptart, how could you?!?!" and storm off?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321831 - 05/11/09 10:28 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Poptart said: For example when I was working at subway I was having a very hard time catching on to how I was supposed to work. I was frustrated because I would just stand around and try to act busy because I didn’t know how I was supposed to be doing. I wanted to do a good job but I wasn’t sure how to.
One day I decided smoke a little before going into work which I know sounds very irresponsible but keep in mind I put a lot of thought into it and decided that I should try something new. I suddenly understood what I should be doing and how I should be doing it.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321856 - 05/11/09 10:36 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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You're a dumbass.
It's their house.
Don't like their rules? Move the fuck out.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: luvdemshrooms]
#10321881 - 05/11/09 10:42 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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luvdemshrooms said: You're a dumbass.
It's their house.
Don't like their rules? Move the fuck out.
And your a judgemental asshole
I am trying to move out.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Cowgold]
#10321890 - 05/11/09 10:44 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Poptart said: For example when I was working at subway I was having a very hard time catching on to how I was supposed to work. I was frustrated because I would just stand around and try to act busy because I didn?t know how I was supposed to be doing. I wanted to do a good job but I wasn?t sure how to.
One day I decided smoke a little before going into work which I know sounds very irresponsible but keep in mind I put a lot of thought into it and decided that I should try something new. I suddenly understood what I should be doing and how I should be doing it.
well its fucking true. When I went into work high I was able to function better.
Trust me if you had adhd you would understand. Weed helps me concentrate ten times better then that ritilan shit society thinks I should use as medicine.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321902 - 05/11/09 10:48 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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luvdemshrooms said: You're a dumbass.
It's their house.
Don't like their rules? Move the fuck out.
And your a judgemental asshole
I am trying to move out.
It's spelled judgmental and you're.
Have the decency to respect them They don't have to let you live there. Why shit on their wishes while you do?
Learn how to spell.
It's clear you're a dumbass. At least learn how to spell.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Cowgold]
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Poptart said: For example when I was working at subway I was having a very hard time catching on to how I was supposed to work. I was frustrated because I would just stand around and try to act busy because I didn�t know how I was supposed to be doing. I wanted to do a good job but I wasn�t sure how to.
One day I decided smoke a little before going into work which I know sounds very irresponsible but keep in mind I put a lot of thought into it and decided that I should try something new. I suddenly understood what I should be doing and how I should be doing it.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Poptart said: For example when I was working at subway I was having a very hard time catching on to how I was supposed to work. I was frustrated because I would just stand around and try to act busy because I didn?t know how I was supposed to be doing. I wanted to do a good job but I wasn?t sure how to.
One day I decided smoke a little before going into work which I know sounds very irresponsible but keep in mind I put a lot of thought into it and decided that I should try something new. I suddenly understood what I should be doing and how I should be doing it.
well its fucking true. When I went into work high I was able to function better.
Trust me if you had adhd you would understand. Weed helps me concentrate ten times better then that ritilan shit society thinks I should use as medicine.
It's funny because you basically used the excuse... "Smoking marijuana helps me concentrate on making better sandwiches."
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
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One day I decided smoke a little before going into work which I know sounds very irresponsible but keep in mind I put a lot of thought into it and decided that I should try something new. I suddenly understood what I should be doing and how I should be doing it.
what is so funny about this? should I not include it in my letter?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
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One day I decided smoke a little before going into work which I know sounds very irresponsible but keep in mind I put a lot of thought into it and decided that I should try something new. I suddenly understood what I should be doing and how I should be doing it.
You didn't know what you were supposed to be doing at subway? You make fucking sandwiches! If you couldn't figure that one out then good luck in life buddy!
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321920 - 05/11/09 10:52 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I just think you're wasting your time trying to convince them that weed is good for you. The only thing I can think of is if you got a medicinal marijuana card from a doctor then they can't say shit.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
#10321934 - 05/11/09 10:55 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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well your probably right they will never understand. I'm just trying to get them to understand from a different point of view. Which is pretty much impossible.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321942 - 05/11/09 10:56 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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you didn't answer my question though, you said you have a door down there right?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
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AmericanPsycho said: you didn't answer my question though, you said you have a door down there right?
Yes I do.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321951 - 05/11/09 11:01 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Poptart said: what is so funny about this? should I not include it in my letter?
Deer Mom and Dad, I wusn't smert enuf to mak a sandwitch. I mean who wudda thunk that the brad wented on the outside?
No wander the vugtables falled off.
Your kid, The Dumbass
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10321952 - 05/11/09 11:01 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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You don't understand... It probably has less to do with the truth about pot than it does with you using it while you live at their house. There are just some subjects parents don't feel like discussing rationally with children. And to your parents, you will be a child until you get a haircut and a real job. (your own house, car, display some sort of responsibility, etc...)
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Deer Mom and Dad, I wusn't smert enuf to mak a sandwitch. I mean who wudda thunk that the brad wented on the outside?
No wander the vugtables falled off.
Your kid, The Dumbass
lol... golden
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Haha don't worry you're not alone out there. My parents will call the cops themselves the next time they catch me.
"You're brothers grew up as junkies and we don't want you to end like that"
Ok. But I'm not going to stop just for that silly reason, I've given them enough proof but it doesn't help. Oh well
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: ganjababy]
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This is a very valid point.
Out of curiosity, just what did you think you were supposed to be doing working at subway before you got high and figured out they wanted you to make sandwiches?
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How can you not figure out what your supposed to be doing at Subway?! For fucks sake everything is right in front of you and they TELL you what they want. kids.
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This is a very valid point.
Out of curiosity, just what did you think you were supposed to be doing working at subway before you got high and figured out they wanted you to make sandwiches?
Alas..... you quoted the wrong person.
Those clever lines are from ganjababy.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Entropymancer]
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This is a very valid point.
Out of curiosity, just what did you think you were supposed to be doing working at subway before you got high and figured out they wanted you to make sandwiches?
Yeah, no joke! You should trash your letter, you make an extremely weak argument. Saying that smoking weed helps your mental acuity is laughable, and then using subway to illustrate your point makes you look like an idiot.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: luvdemshrooms]
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Poptart said: what is so funny about this? should I not include it in my letter?
Deer Mom and Dad, I wusn't smert enuf to mak a sandwitch. I mean who wudda thunk that the brad wented on the outside?
No wander the vugtables falled off.
Your kid, The Dumbass
I have to admit that made me laugh.
Seriously though their is alot of shit you have to learn when working at subway. It's not just putting some shit on bread. I was just a better employee in general when I was baked outta my skull.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: ganjababy]
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And quit using "I have ADD/ADHD" as an excuse.
It's lame. And been heard of 60,000 times.
Your parents are your parents. Until you can prove that you can be at least minimally responsible(ie, job, bills paid, school even), I'd say your chances of them turning the other cheek are slim to none. Der!
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: ganjababy]
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This is a very valid point.
Out of curiosity, just what did you think you were supposed to be doing working at subway before you got high and figured out they wanted you to make sandwiches?
Yeah, no joke! You should trash your letter, you make an extremely weak argument. Saying that smoking weed helps your mental acuity is laughable, and then using subway to illustrate your point makes you look like an idiot.
and ya weed does help my awarness and mental acuity for me. Like I said try having adhd. You would understand how helpful weed is.
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This is a very valid point.
Out of curiosity, just what did you think you were supposed to be doing working at subway before you got high and figured out they wanted you to make sandwiches?
Yeah, no joke! You should trash your letter, you make an extremely weak argument. Saying that smoking weed helps your mental acuity is laughable, and then using subway to illustrate your point makes you look like an idiot.
and ya weed does help my awarness and mental acuity for me. Like I said try having adhd. You would understand how helpful weed is.
I was diagnosed with ADD 5 years ago. I took the meds for a month and stopped. All you need to do is work out a bit and concentrate harder and apply yourself it's as simple as that.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Don't you understand that the ONLY thing that will make weed okay for your parents is for you to be successful? I love weed, but if you were my son I wouldn't let you smoke either. Go to college, get an apartment with some people, and start doing well. Either that or get a good job and start saving. Then, when you smoke, it's even more fun.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: luvdemshrooms]
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This is a very valid point.
Out of curiosity, just what did you think you were supposed to be doing working at subway before you got high and figured out they wanted you to make sandwiches?
Alas..... you quoted the wrong person.
Those clever lines are from ganjababy.
Yeah, thanks I did say that. I didn't even notice that the wrong person was quoted...
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: ganjababy]
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It does not matter how silly you think the rules are ...it`s thier house ,they could demand you eat dog shit if you want to live there ...follow the rules or GTFO.
Open the door ,walk thru it to the end of the yard or around the corner and do a few hits ,then return home.....everyone and thier brother has done this to get high before,your no different ....go AWAY from the house to smoke.
Your fucking up major and you dont seem to get that ,it`s not your parents fault for not understanding ...your the one who is not understanding.
GO AWAY FROM THE HOUSE TO SMOKE.
It`s called respect man.
If you will not respect thier wishes ,how in the world do you exspect them to respect yours..........
No matter how good of a letter you write,you will still be in the wrong....don`t you see that ?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Poptart said: When I went into work high I was able to function better.
I'll grant you that. It happens to me. And working at Subway is more than making sandwiches, you have to interact with people.
The rest of this, pure dumbshittery.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: unretarded]
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Open the door ,walk thru it to the end of the yard or around the corner and do a few hits ,then return home.....everyone and thier brother has done this to get high before,your no different ....go AWAY from the house to smoke.
Your fucking up major and you dont seem to get that ,it`s not your parents fault for not understanding ...your the one who is not understanding.
GO AWAY FROM THE HOUSE TO SMOKE.
It`s called respect man.
If you will not respect thier wishes ,how in the world do you exspect them to respect yours..........
No matter how good of a letter you write,you will still be in the wrong....don`t you see that ?
And don't you understand that my parents don't give a shit if I am smoking in their house or I am smoking on the other side of the planet?
they don't want me to smoke period. Me sneaking out in the middle of the night to smoke isn't the same thing in their eyes. They just don't want me to smoke period.
I'm not smoking in thier house out of laziness. I would gladly walk five miles just to smoke a bowl if my parents didn't bitch about it.
You need to understand that my parents think weed is the devil's tool used to steal my soul. I am just trying to help them understand from a different perspective.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Cowgold]
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It's their house.
Don't like their rules? Move the fuck out.
And your a judgemental asshole
I am trying to move out.
Until you move out, respect your parents house and DON'T SMOKE IN IT
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DingDingDing
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Poptart, your letter is not going to change your parents mind. It is their house and they set the rules. If you can't follow the rules.
MOVE THE FUCK OUT
Smoking anything in your parents NON SMOKING HOUSE is retarded.
I'm not bitching about your smoking pot. I'm bitching at your stupid ass for smoking in their house.
My parents know and accept my pot smoking, but I don't smoke it in their non smoking house.
This whole issue is about respect, and you obviously don't have any.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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But your getting busted for smokin at the house ............go away from the house.
Unless they are mind readers they dont have a clue what you are doing AWAY from the house ......your not getting busted for being high,your getting busted for smoking in thier house.
This situation would be 20 times less if you just came home high ,than actually smoking in the house.
Let em think whatever they want about the devils weed ,they will not bust you for smoking away from the house.
Get stoned ,go home ,the high lasts for several hours.
I understand now why your parents are soo pissed ,you simply do not comprehend things.
I used to do it and got away with it,I left my smoke stashed away from the house and never brought it into thier house and always played it off....no I was not smoking,no I am not high......it`s pretty basic shit man.
Of course they dont like the idea at all,but what they dont know ,wont hurt them,your just making it easy for them to know without a doubt you been doing it.
If they cant prove it ,they will not get mad and the reason they are soo mad is that you are smoking in thier house.
You need to realize the facts,you are in the wrong ,there is nothing you can say or do to make it right,your never going to persuade them that the devils weed is good for you or OK....
never smoke at the house ,never bring your weed home ,then there is nothing they can actually prove ,so they will shut up.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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yah, you didn't know that?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Doc_T]
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I'll grant you that. It happens to me. And working at Subway is more than making sandwiches, you have to interact with people.
The rest of this, pure dumbshittery.
how so? I guarantee if you were in my situation in life you would do the same thing.
This is why I isolate myself from people. Nobody can understand what's going on in my head and so they just judge me without understanding my situation. I feel like everyone is hostile towards me all the time so I would rather not interact with people.
I just want to be left alone so I can quietly reflect on life without people telling me what to think, say, do and believe. It's my right to explore my own brain and I say fuck everyone who tells me otherwise. I am trying to get out of my house as fast as I can so I don't have to deal with this bullshit anymore but my parents are making it hard for me to leave. My dad got me fired from my job because he told my boss I smoke weed. So now I am unemployed and wanted to go off to college but my mom says she won't take me to tour colleges because I use drugs.
So I can't just get out and leave. I have been stuck in my parents house for a long time and the only thing that removes me from my severe depression and suicidal fantasies is weed.
And like I said I have tried going without weed for months at a time and I find that my depression gets worse. Fucking shit I feel so alone and isolated right now.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10322877 - 05/11/09 03:06 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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And i have mentioned this several times but everyone just keeps ignoring what I have been saying. My parents dont give a shit where I get high they just don't want me to get high period. They will be just as mad and furious at me no matter where I do it.
I'm sick of arguing with everyone. First with my parents and now I have to argue with all of you guys.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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My parents dont give a shit where I get high they just don't want me to get high period. They will be just as mad and furious at me no matter where I do it.
if you don't tell them you got high....
how will they know?
Ignorance is bliss.
News flash....you are not EVER going to convince your parents to let you smoke pot in their house.
Even if you got a Rx for MM you would still have to leave their house to smoke it.
Do your self a favor and smoke your pot away from their house. Do your best to convince them that you have stopped. Move out and then make your own house rules.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10322903 - 05/11/09 03:16 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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You need professional help and smoking weed is not good for you right now....seek professional help and clean your life up.
You have some shit going on inside your head that nobody else can relate to ,because its all inside of your head ,its not what is actually happening....seek medical treatment before you snap and off yourself.
I am done trying to exsplain anything to you ,you will not listen to it from anyone in this thread and you will not listen to those around you ,your going to have to hit rock bottom or worse untill you figure it out.....your best bet is to seek professional help,this is not normal and the pro`s will help you come back to reality....weed is not the answer.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10322912 - 05/11/09 03:19 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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You are stupid. I just thought you should know in case you couldn't tell.
Now that we have that out of the way...
You should just quit if you're still attached to their tit.
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#10322935 - 05/11/09 03:27 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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My mom will not give me a ride ...I have no options......
Walk you lazy stoner or ride a bus,hitch hike ....you dont sound too motivated to do anything for yourself....hell your to lazy to even walk outside the door to get stoned.
I used to walk 5 miles to school and I was on my own at 15 ,had a job and shared a place with a friend,quit spending your money on dope and get a bike ,then get a job ,then move out...it`s not rocket science man....good lord son ,you scare me.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: unretarded]
#10322947 - 05/11/09 03:30 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Seriously people it's not about him smoking in the house, it's the act of smoking itself.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: unretarded]
#10322982 - 05/11/09 03:39 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Fuck it I have tried to explain myself over and over and over again to the same comments everyone keeps repeating. This is going nowhere and apparently I am just a stupid ignorent dumbass. I get the message I am a stupid fuck. Thanks everyone for contributing to my already horrible self loathing. I don't mean to sound like an emo asshole but I guess that's what I am.
I guess I am just an ignorent rebellious selfish stereotypical teenager with no common sense. Anyways I am done arguing.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Beanhead]
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Beanhead said: Seriously people it's not about him smoking in the house, it's the act of smoking itself.
Not at all. If he smokes away from the house, his parents will never know provided he doesn't come home high or reeking of weed.
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Beanhead said: Seriously people it's not about him smoking in the house, it's the act of smoking itself.
Lol thank you for being the first person to notice this.
Shit I have tried to explain this a million times and I even included it in my letter but I keep getting comments on how much of a dumbass I am for smoking in the house when that was not my point.
Thanks for listening.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Beanhead]
#10323003 - 05/11/09 03:43 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Thats not what he posted , he got caught at the house and thats what his post is about ....not his parents views on pot. He is trying to turn it into a issue about smoking in general ,but thats not the problem.
Thats not what he posted ,he posted getting busted AGAIN smokin at the house,which lead to direct confrontation......
Plain and simple he needs to man up and get out.He wants to nurse off the tit and spit milk in thier face,which is a nono.
They think it`s the devils weed ,end of story,now he needs to pull it together and get out or quit smoking,not write a 4 page letter trying to justify weed to his parents...not going to happen,ever ,so he needs to get that out of his head and move on....
Sounds like he has way more problems than his parents views on pot....he has issues that need to be solved or he needs to move out.
Typical irresponsible kid shit,he better be thankful they are bible thumpers ,otherwise he would be sleeping in the street........he has no clue and is going to get his ass botted out if he keeps this childish shit up.
I would have booted his iresponsible ass out long ago and he would have learned something by now.
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Not at all. If he smokes away from the house, his parents will never know provided he doesn't come home high or reeking of weed.
well that would be true but leaving the house in the middle of the night is not the norm for me and my parents are suspicious of anything I do regardless.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10323020 - 05/11/09 03:46 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Your parents will not accept you smoking obviously, which only leaves you with a few options...
1. Write a dumbass letter to them that they won't finish reading because they write it off as the devil's work. Then quit smoking. Be responsible.
2. Quit smoking. Be responsible.
3. Quit smoking at home, hide that you smoke and then put a show on that you've seen the light. Be responsible.
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unretarded said: Thats not what he posted , he got caught at the house and thats what his post is about ....not his parents views on pot. He is trying to turn it into a issue about smoking in general ,but thats not the problem.
Thats not what he posted ,he posted getting busted AGAIN smokin at the house,which lead to direct confrontation......
Plain and simple he needs to man up and get out.He wants to nurse off the tit and spit milk in thier face,which is a nono.
They think it`s the devils weed ,end of story,now he needs to pull it together and get out or quit smoking,not write a 4 page letter trying to justify weed to his parents...not going to happen,ever ,so he needs to get that out of his head and move on....
Sounds like he has way more problems than his parents views on pot....he has issues that need to be solved or he needs to move out.
my post is not about getting caught in the house and I would prefer if we don't have to keep comming back to this point. The purpose in writing my letter is not getting my parents to accept my drug use or for them to let me smoke in their house. I want to explain to them why I choose to live this way. And help them understand why I use drugs. I already know they won't accept it or tolerate it. I just want to keep a good relationship with them and I figured it would be a good idea to communicate with them.
But apperently communication isn't a good idea. I'm obviously not good at communicating with people and I think you can see that in this thread.
So are you saying I shouldent try to talk to my parents at all?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Not at all. If he smokes away from the house, his parents will never know provided he doesn't come home high or reeking of weed.
well that would be true but leaving the house in the middle of the night is not the norm for me and my parents are suspicious of anything I do regardless.
Ever consider a few innocent trial roungs? Establishing a new routine... Go outside randomly in the middle of the night for a few weeks and don't get high.
Next time I need a shitty excuse I'll be sure to say what's up, Poptart.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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I got caught once and smoked away from the house when I lived with my parents and put my stash in the car. They didn't notice a thing and that's the way I liked it. Listen, I had the same exact thing going on. My dad was taught by the police force that all drugs are equally bad and marijuana was the weed of the devil himself. Try as I might I couldn't convince him with arguments and evident no matter what to the contrary. It took me moving out and showing him that it didn't fuck my life up like everyone thought to make him realize that it really wasn't all that bad. Now, don't get me wrong, he doesn't like it but now he's come to terms that it's less harmful then alcohol and should just be regulated and legalized to bring in that extra $$$.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Cowgold]
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Not at all. If he smokes away from the house, his parents will never know provided he doesn't come home high or reeking of weed.
well that would be true but leaving the house in the middle of the night is not the norm for me and my parents are suspicious of anything I do regardless.
Ever consider a few innocent trial roungs? Establishing a new routine... Go outside randomly in the middle of the night for a few weeks and don't get high.
Next time I need a shitty excuse I'll be sure to say what's up, Poptart.
that's not a bad idea. thanks for not saying the same thing over and over again. I will have to try that.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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So are you saying I shouldent try to talk to my parents at all?
Yes. A child will not be able to tell them anything. Go and be an adult for a while and then come back and they can accept you or not at that time. Until then, be a good kid.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Not at all. If he smokes away from the house, his parents will never know provided he doesn't come home high or reeking of weed.
well that would be true but leaving the house in the middle of the night is not the norm for me and my parents are suspicious of anything I do regardless.
So? You're not going to change their minds if they're dead-set against you smoking weed; in fact all your letter will most likely do is convince them that you're so addicted to weed that you're trying to rationalize your own drug abuse. It's still illegal, and your parents will in all probability not want you to do things that can impact your criminal record and/or developing neural chemistry (even if it is much healthier than alcohol).
In short, deal with it. I'd agree to anything they ask and I certainly wouldn't act like an immature teenager by continuing to smoke in the house, even if I ought to be able to choose what I put into my own body, even if marijuana is healthy, even if . The point is that it's still illegal and when you're living in your parent's house, you must abide by their rules and allay their suspicions. This means no letters praising the demon reefer and no huge family arguments where there is no winner, your parents are left feeling disappointed, and you're left still unable to smoke weed.
And c'mon, leaving your house in the middle of the night? When I was still living with my parents I was able to smoke gargantuan amounts without them ever knowing, and it never required me sneaking out of the house or doing more idiotic actions (that will only prove your immaturity to your parents time and time again). I'm sure you can go out during the evening to stay at a friend's house, or go out to see a 'movie', or go to a hookah lounge, or go to the bookstore... all things that involve you leaving the house and being able to smoke weed without your parent's knowledge. Ignorance, sometimes, is definitely bliss.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Thats not what he posted ,he posted getting busted AGAIN smokin at the house,which lead to direct confrontation......
Plain and simple he needs to man up and get out.He wants to nurse off the tit and spit milk in thier face,which is a nono.
They think it`s the devils weed ,end of story,now he needs to pull it together and get out or quit smoking,not write a 4 page letter trying to justify weed to his parents...not going to happen,ever ,so he needs to get that out of his head and move on....
Sounds like he has way more problems than his parents views on pot....he has issues that need to be solved or he needs to move out.
my post is not about getting caught in the house and I would prefer if we don't have to keep comming back to this point. The purpose in writing my letter is not getting my parents to accept my drug use or for them to let me smoke in their house. I want to explain to them why I choose to live this way. And help them understand why I use drugs. I already know they won't accept it or tolerate it. I just want to keep a good relationship with them and I figured it would be a good idea to communicate with them.
But apperently communication isn't a good idea. I'm obviously not good at communicating with people and I think you can see that in this thread.
So are you saying I shouldent try to talk to my parents at all?
Not about pot ,your digging a deeper hole for yourself.........get out of the house or conform.......or be sly and lie....you dont have any other option..unless you want the drama.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: unretarded]
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Sometimes when I didn't have a friends house to go to and I wanted to get baked I'd get really high and go to the library. You'd be surprised at how much fun I had doing this.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Poptart said: well that would be true but leaving the house in the middle of the night is not the norm for me and my parents are suspicious of anything I do regardless.
So leaving the house isn't normal but smoking pot in the house is normal...OK
Your parents are suspicious of you because they caught you smoking pot in their house, not once but twice.
I share your parents concern. You obviously have some emotional issues you need to deal with. You may need to see a therapist. Quit smoking pot get on an anti-depressant, get your shit together and move outta your parents house.
You are NEVER going to get your parents to understand or accept your drug use, give that idea up.
You are putting way too much emphasis on using drugs. If you are so unstable that you have to get high in your parents house then you need professional help.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: unretarded]
#10323091 - 05/11/09 04:00 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I guess the only thing I can do is eaither quit smoking which I refuse to do. Or sneak off in the middle of the night.
But I have no pipes or anything to smoke with and I'm ashamed to say this but I never learned how to roll a joint.
Any ideas on making something homemade to smoke with that is portable?
I can't buy anything out of a hookah store because my parents won't let me drive a car anymore. So I need to make something homemade.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10323105 - 05/11/09 04:02 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Poptart said: I guess the only thing I can do is eaither quit smoking which I refuse to do. Or sneak off in the middle of the night.
But I have no pipes or anything to smoke with and I'm ashamed to say this but I never learned how to roll a joint.
Any ideas on making something homemade to smoke with that is portable?
I can't buy anything out of a hookah store because my parents won't let me drive a car anymore. So I need to make something homemade.
Lemme guess, you're going to make something homemade, stash it in your room, and then write another post bitching about the consequences when your parents find the piece and raise the home security level to martial law.
Get some rolling papers and learn how to roll a joint if you're determined to keep on smoking. A piece smells and will get found eventually.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Cowgold]
#10323143 - 05/11/09 04:11 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Its never too late to learn how to roll a joint! Its really easy with a 5 dollar rolling machine. Buy a pouch of rolling tobacco and practice for an afternoon. After you have rolled 20 or so you will be good enough to roll bud.
Poptart, what is your situation? Are you still in high school, or are you going to college but living at home, or never went to college and are living at home?
I think the best course of action is to not smoke for a month to earn your parents' trust back. Go for hour long walks, and invite them to go too every once in a while. Once you start smoking again, leaving the house won't seem so suspicious. You could also go to get groceries, and smoke on the way back
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Poptart said: I guess the only thing I can do is eaither quit smoking which I refuse to do. Or sneak off in the middle of the night.
But I have no pipes or anything to smoke with and I'm ashamed to say this but I never learned how to roll a joint.
Any ideas on making something homemade to smoke with that is portable?
I can't buy anything out of a hookah store because my parents won't let me drive a car anymore. So I need to make something homemade.
Ever hear of feet ,you can walk alot of miles in one day ,if you are motivated ...fuk them and thier ride ,skip a bag of weed and buy a bike for 10 dollars at a yard sale and you can go many many miles in a day,dont rely on your parents man.....are you really over 18 ?
Gather some gumption and make it happen ,dont wait on your parents for rides /money and a place to live,decide where and if you can goto school....make that shit happen on your own. Act like you have a fire under your ass and go get with it,like you actually desire it and want it....smokin dope at the parents house and waiting for rides is pure failure man...dont do it.
You have to make it happen .....become a go getter and not some dude who smokes pot in the parents basement with no job.
Untill your willing to put forth some effort ,nothing is ever going to happen,steal a fukin newspaper from outside of somebodies house ,find a job ,walk ,ride a bike or beg rides from anyone you know to get there,make money and become self dependant.It`s not that hard ,I did it at 15,when I could not even legally work or have a place ,but I did,so can you.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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Poptart said: But I have no pipes or anything to smoke with and I'm ashamed to say this but I never learned how to roll a joint.
So...how were you getting high?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: niteowl]
#10323185 - 05/11/09 04:20 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: niteowl]
#10323230 - 05/11/09 04:28 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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And that's what it comes down to. OP feels like he's the only one to have these troubles. Dude, we've been there. How do you think we know the answer?
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: unretarded]
#10323232 - 05/11/09 04:29 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Step one: get a real job Step two: rent an apartment Step three: smoke in your apartment
Alternately
Step one: continue smoking in your parents' house Step two: get caught again Step three: make a thread complaining about how you refuse to respect your parents and their household Step four: get made fun of brutally for being a child
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Doc_T]
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: AmericanPsycho]
#10323245 - 05/11/09 04:32 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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learn how to roll a joint..
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i just rolled a cross joint and am bakeeeeeeeeeeeeed
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: I AM SWIM]
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+1, you're doing it wrong Poptart.
My Dad has been on my case for smoking even since I started, ~5 years of the same bullshit you went through, I wouldn't last more then 1 month before a major conflict. My Dad actually used to drug test me though if he suspected I was smoking.
Then I started rolling joints and going outside.
2 years, not a single problem
I started vaporizing a month ago, now I setup my Silver Surfer on my desk/in front of PC, vape like a motherfucker, clouds everywhere. 10 minutes later, zero smell in the room and on my clothes.
Perhaps he still knows I smoke, but I got my ass into gear the past 2 years, doing well at University... I pay market value rent, buy my own food... and most importantly I have plans by the end of the year to move out.
Parents really hate drugs if you're bumming off them.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Chubba]
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Word.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Doc_T]
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: JT]
#10323608 - 05/11/09 06:02 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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i was pretty much in your same shoes poptart, so i know exactly how you feel about this. i had the same out look on weed as you do, and i still do i guess. my mother always hated when she found out i was blazing, she fucking hated it. and i tried so hard to help her understand but there was nothing i could really do. blazing every day (imo) made me a better person. i stopped playing those fucking video games, started working hard in school, i was much more comfortable with myself, i appreciated my parents much more, i found my life passion which i am studying now. i learned to appreciate nature and the world we live on, and it gave me the patience to draw some nice pics. (i drew those pics in my sig when i was blazed)
the only advice i can give you really is just, dont make weed your only interest. let it be something you have on the side. try not to think about weed so much when your not blazed. dont start to think its good to be called a "stoner" or what ever the fuck those posers mean by that. just dont make weed such an important part of your life.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: JT]
#10323625 - 05/11/09 06:06 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Poptart, I had some sympathy for you at the beginning, but you really need to quit whining and take control of your own situation. You're being a whiny bitch instead of thinking of a way to get what you want.
Don't have anything to smoke out of? Go on the fucking internet and order something. Jesus, just look around.
Place a small amount of weed in a bowl. Burn it all in one hit. Hold your breath as long as you can. I guarantee that you exhale almost no smoke. Repeat until you are sufficiently high.
For fucks sake, you're not going to convince your parents that smoking weed is ok. Get over it. They are mormons. There is no rational argument that will convince them of your position because they aren't thinking rationally and don't care to begin.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10323661 - 05/11/09 06:12 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Poptart said: And i have mentioned this several times but everyone just keeps ignoring what I have been saying. My parents dont give a shit where I get high they just don't want me to get high period. They will be just as mad and furious at me no matter where I do it.
I'm sick of arguing with everyone. First with my parents and now I have to argue with all of you guys.
you don't have to argue with all of us. just quit posting your stupid little pity parade posts, noone gives a fuck. you're just a dumb kid, and it seems like there's no changing that.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
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My parents were anti it but I just told them i wasn't going to lie or change and that they were gonna have to deal with it. Problem solved.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: trees]
#10323926 - 05/11/09 07:28 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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trees said: i was pretty much in your same shoes poptart, so i know exactly how you feel about this. i had the same out look on weed as you do, and i still do i guess. my mother always hated when she found out i was blazing, she fucking hated it. and i tried so hard to help her understand but there was nothing i could really do. blazing every day (imo) made me a better person. i stopped playing those fucking video games, started working hard in school, i was much more comfortable with myself, i appreciated my parents much more, i found my life passion which i am studying now. i learned to appreciate nature and the world we live on, and it gave me the patience to draw some nice pics. (i drew those pics in my sig when i was blazed)
the only advice i can give you really is just, dont make weed your only interest. let it be something you have on the side. try not to think about weed so much when your not blazed. dont start to think its good to be called a "stoner" or what ever the fuck those posers mean by that. just dont make weed such an important part of your life.
Thanks it's nice to know I can relate to people and I agree that I think about weed way too much. It's just so fascinating to me though. And I can't stop thinking about conciousness and all this crazy shit. I just need a hobby that has nothing to do with weed to get my mind off of it.
Because everytime I try and do something the thought creeps up in my mind. "hey this is pretty cool but it would be a much better with weed" I need to get out of that way of thinking. Because to me everything is better with weed but I can't just sit around and be high all the time. So I have to learn to enjoy life without it.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Othyem]
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I Have to agree with tpihkal.
For truth. If you've been caught once, and you proceed to disrespect them (regardless how you feel about it, you are in THEIR HOUSE, then take it outside)
A letter isn't going to solve the relationship problems you have with your patents.
While I am no role model, and I have done things I shouldn't have done in my parents home, always keep it on the down low and respect them, and their rules.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#10324376 - 05/11/09 09:20 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Your making me think that weed is addictive like heroin the way you talk about it. Go grow up alot, then expand you mind. You can't run before you learn to walk son.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Kada]
#10324424 - 05/11/09 09:28 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Granted I love the sweet leaf, but there is more to life than getting high.
Such as getting higher!
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Polk_Audio3
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: OrganizedChaos]
#10324573 - 05/11/09 09:59 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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POPTART, just don't smoke in the house man its not that hard. I can smoke pot at my grandparents house, They don't know what pot smells like. If I start to eat a lot and shit they will know.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: tpihkal]
#10386648 - 05/23/09 02:38 PM (14 years, 9 months ago) |
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your a fucking idot. As soon as they see the part about "you've been told by the government and polititians" they are going to get even more pissed because you are implying that you know more than they do. You are always going to be seen as an indifferent child who doesnt know any better in their eyes. You wont win this fight.
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Vaudeville Villain
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Gumby]
#13125512 - 08/30/10 06:44 PM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Gumby said: Dude. Give up on pot. I don't mean to insult your intelligence, but lets just say I don't think you're ready to be smoking it yet.
Yeh son.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Vaudeville Villain]
#13125518 - 08/30/10 06:45 PM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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ooooooof
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RipVanWinkle
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Vaudeville Villain]
#13125528 - 08/30/10 06:46 PM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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You dummy
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Vaudeville Villain]
#13125591 - 08/30/10 06:54 PM (13 years, 6 months ago) |
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You brought up a 15 month old thread to say that...
Hope this one is funny, sometimes an old classic comes back. Like that dude on TV shitting in a bucket Comedy gold I tell ya.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#14236129 - 04/04/11 01:24 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Blame it on add and that your mind races without it and improves mental stability
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Coffelt831]
#14236147 - 04/04/11 01:30 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Awesome first post!
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Maverick]
#14237043 - 04/04/11 04:03 PM (12 years, 11 months ago) |
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Maverick said:
Smoking in the house is gonna get you caught though. No matter how you look at it.
This is soo damn true.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#18296089 - 05/21/13 01:29 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Poptart said: I have no fucking clue I"m like a ninja when I smoke. I didn't make a fucking noise. And it was like 1 in the morning. So I snuck off in the room and opened the door to my backyard and blew my hits out. Then I retreat to my room and hide the weed and the apple I was using. Then ten minutes later my mom runs downstairs and goes in the workroom. she then goes up to my door and bangs on it angrily and says that that wasn't a very good mothers day present.
She fucking gave me a heart attack when she pounded on the door to my room.
Why do you feel the urge to smoke in the night anyway? Go to bed, sleep is much more important than weed.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Unscrewed]
#18296094 - 05/21/13 01:30 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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My dad just told me: "Hey, if you're going to smoke weed, that's fine." "As long as you're sure you know what you're smoking, and as long as it's only weed or hashish."
Sorry for the double-post, thought it'd merge.
Edited by Unscrewed (05/21/13 01:31 AM)
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Unscrewed]
#18296110 - 05/21/13 01:36 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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This thread is four years old, dude.
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i passed out when I was 18, in the recliner in my mom's house, and left a big bag of mexican on the table. they found it, and told me not to bring it into the house again. I guess they cut me some slack because i was gainfully employed.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Unscrewed]
#18296356 - 05/21/13 03:21 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Unscrewed said: Sorry for the double-post, thought it'd merge.
double post???????
you just bumped a 4 year old thread.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: k00laid]
#18296509 - 05/21/13 05:03 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
k00laid said:
Quote:
Unscrewed said: Sorry for the double-post, thought it'd merge.
double post???????
you just bumped a 4 year old thread.
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: trippinballs420]
#18296516 - 05/21/13 05:07 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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the mad machinest
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Gorlax]
#18296722 - 05/21/13 06:56 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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it's already been said but ima say it again. respect THEIR HOUSE, when you grow up and have your own place your can blaze the fucker up. how old are you anyways? this site is 18 and up FYI.. and if they don't want you Gettin high period, then you should respect that while you are living under their roof. now with that said I will smoke a bowl and clam back down
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Re: So my parents caught me smoking weed again so I wrote them a letter. [Re: Poptart]
#18297128 - 05/21/13 06:56 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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This thread has been closed.
Reason: Thread is 4 YEARS OLD.
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