|
Anonymous #1
|
|
Well... After talking with a good friend/ex GF, I am starting to feel better... I dunno. I think I'm still going to move back out to where she lives. I think the long distance thing has been the hardest part, and I am hoping that by being around her again, she'll see the charm that used to be between us.
If that DOESN'T happen, then I'll try to get an apartment, get a steady job, go backpacking, chill with old friends, and try to enjoy the summer....
|
iamconfused
Happily insane since '06
Registered: 03/14/06
Posts: 589
Last seen: 9 years, 8 months
|
|
Not be mean, but I say find new friends and a new girlfriend. You're putting yourself through unnecessary loneliness by having friends that are so hard to see. Unless you REALLY, REALLY think that girl is the 'one', but usually we never meet the one that young.
|
Anonymous #1
|
|
Quote:
iamconfused said: Not be mean, but I say find new friends and a new girlfriend. You're putting yourself through unnecessary loneliness by having friends that are so hard to see. Unless you REALLY, REALLY think that girl is the 'one', but usually we never meet the one that young.
Yeah. I realise that most people don't but I really think I did. I was ok with her flaws, I loved every part of her. I had 3 girlfriends before her, none that lasted less than 3 months and i NEVER felt this way about any of them...
I'm going to move back out to where she lives. I'm hoping that the long distance thing is the worst part, but I dunno... If it was, then we can get back together, but after the convo we had last night, i'm not so sure about the likelihood of that
Either way, I'm gonna move back at least to be with my old buddies...
And for me, I can't just "go find another girlfriend." Not only do girls not seem to be into me that much, but I'm not even physically attracted to anyone else anymore. I mean, I can be like yeah that girls hot, or shes cute, but i just cant imagine have any intimacy with anyone else. Ever. Not at this point.
|
Country1
Ehhh
Registered: 03/11/09
Posts: 544
Loc: Canada
Last seen: 2 years, 2 months
|
|
After I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years I also felt like I wasn't going to be attracted to anyone anymore. Then one night I got drunk as fuck and banged my boss. Since then everything has been A-Ok. And good call going back to old buddies.
Life's a garden, dig it
|
PowerTrip
Polypharmaceutical Shaman
Registered: 03/07/05
Posts: 1,148
Loc: The void
Last seen: 11 years, 5 months
|
|
It's very normal to feel like a girl is "the one" when you become very close to them. Our brains release bonding chemicals that cause us to see no flaws in our partner, and feel good being around them. It turns into a literal drug addiction. Some theorize we developed this through natural selection because the mechanism allows us to stay together long enough to have children and raise them.
I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago and I still miss her sometimes. I wanted her back at first. Now I see what the relationship was doing to me, and there is no way in hell I would get back together with her. I do still care about her though. I simply see things more clearly now.
-------------------- I spit reality, instead of what you usually learn and I refuse to be concerned with condescending advice cause I'm the only motherfucker that can change my life
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Fucking christ. [Re: PowerTrip]
#10107793 - 04/04/09 10:43 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
I see...
last night i turned my phone off around 1030 pm, hoping that if she tried to call or text me, i wouldnt be available. And, to help me from going crazy in the even that she DIDNT call or text me.
I turned my phone back on around 3 pm today.... no messages or anything.
Nothing. all day. It's the first time, even since we broke up, ever, that we have not talked.. I wanted the No Contact rule to be on MY terms, have HER wanting to talk to me, but no, now neither of us is talking, and once agian, it feels like everything is back in her court again.
God. fuck. shit, and such expletives.
|
Anonymous #1
|
|
Ahh.
A ha!
Now she starts texting me. And calling me. And then texting me some more.
Sucks for her, cuz I got over it by talking about it tonight.
|
Anonymous #2
|
|
you sound a bit... psycho
|
Luddite
I watch Fox News
Registered: 03/23/06
Posts: 2,946
|
|
Quote:
Fucking Christ
I always figured he was a virgin, the way he was portrayed by the church.
Edited by Luddite (04/05/09 09:11 AM)
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Fucking christ. [Re: Luddite]
#10110615 - 04/05/09 02:02 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Anonymous said: you sound a bit... psycho
I'll be the first to admit I'm not normal... Normality is boring. but i think psycho is a bit overboard.
Quote:
Luddite said:
Quote:
Fucking Christ
I always figured he was a virgin, the way he was portrayed by the church.
lol!
|
Anonymous #2
|
|
Try.. -following her around for a little while. -Maybe put some spyware on her computer. - Next... fuck everyone she knows (make sure they cum on your face) she'll love you.:D
|
|