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 Reality Junkie
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 So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back 
#9986917 - 03/17/09 04:06 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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well,
i broke up with her the other day, and now 3 days later we finally saw each other face to face... she was drunk, i wasn't... we walked and talked for about 3 hours......
at first she was mad, and mentioned
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"i never cheated on you ha ha"
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you deserve someone that is going to be honest with you
she all but told me she betrayed me in the way that would fuck with me the most. and part of me still wants to be with this girl. Fuck, i do love her, and part of me thinks that we might be better apart....
Like the name suggests, I am in fact a reality junkie in many ways, and god help me I want the truth. but part of me thinks that i might be happier with the girl instead.
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 grymmtymm
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 Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: Reality Junkie]
#9986926 - 03/17/09 04:19 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Reality Junkie said:
she all but told me she betrayed me in the way that would fuck with me the most. and part of me still wants to be with this girl. Fuck, i do love her, and part of me thinks that we might be better apart....
well there you go.......
not listening to your gut is the worst thing you can do, ever.........
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Reality Junkie
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: grymmtymm]
#9986935 - 03/17/09 04:25 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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yeah, you know...
a lot of people have told me that, that not listening to my gut is such a bad idea...
I just dont know what to do.
I hope at the very least that i get a piece of mind, perhaps an answer to when, what, and who.
although i would rather have happiness with her, than knowing.
jesus,,,, ignorance over bliss? is this what i am actually feeling? wow
Edited by Reality Junkie (03/17/09 04:26 AM)
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slickvic
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: Reality Junkie]
#9987272 - 03/17/09 08:02 AM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Just because someone cheats on you, doesnt mean its typical to immideatly stop loving her,however, the fact that she cheated on you, is proof that she either A. doesnt love you, of B. shes a shitty person, and you should hold higher standards for yourself. There is no excuse to cheat, your relationship would never ever be the same. Bottom line drop the bitch, shes not worth it, anyone that conciously makes you feel the way you do right now is a cunt and deserves shit to fall from the sky into her mouth. Dont let yourself slip in that that desperate and pathetic hole to where you actualy talk yourself into thinking about taking her back. I promise you it wil lend bad,go get laid and forger about her. In a state of despair it is easy to belive your own bullshit, and considering her back is just that. IT is hard man i dont deny that, it will make it hard to trust another girl period, but ther are good people in the world, and you will find love again. Listen to some guns n roses, led zeppelin, they have a ton of songs that can help with your cause.
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WhiskeyClone
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: Reality Junkie]
#9989289 - 03/17/09 03:17 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Get ready to be hurt and disappointed repeatedly until you decide to ditch her for good.
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Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide: him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it.
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Rebirtha
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#9991064 - 03/17/09 07:31 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's easy to slip back into an unhealthy relationship when there are so many feelings involved. Much easier to see the story from a 3rd person perspective. You don't need her, your life will suck for a little bit by yourself, you'll feel sad, you'll miss her, you'll be bored, and eventually you'll get over it. Trust me, about this one. This is good advice:
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WhiskeyClone said:
Get ready to be hurt and disappointed repeatedly until you decide to ditch her for good.
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TheHandOfDoom
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: Rebirtha]
#9994799 - 03/18/09 12:38 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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Been there done that... don't do it man. I'm sure I'm not the only one who speaks from experience.
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BlimeyGrimey
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#9996742 - 03/18/09 06:03 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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WhiskeyClone said:
Get ready to be hurt and disappointed repeatedly until you decide to ditch her for good.
^Agreed
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tripp23
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: BlimeyGrimey]
#9998310 - 03/18/09 10:37 PM (15 years, 1 month ago) |
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hey bro. i really feel you on this. seriously, i am going through the exact same shit. i kept going back to her even after i knew she didnt want to be with me and then i finally just made the decision to move on. dont do it, seriously, just go with the flow and get out before you really get attached and then he fucks you over. i kno it will be hard to picture ur life with somebody else and it will be hard to picture her gone but i guarentee it will be for the better because its not worth all the pain. Honestly, dont give in, get out more, haing with new people and chill until somebody that likes you comes to you. thats the best thing you can do. my stupid cunt girlfriend cheated on me multiple times now and i had to go. i got attached and just wanted her but im glad shes gone now, as much as it fucking hurts. just move on, trust me.. trust all of us..
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Viciousend
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: tripp23]
#10013295 - 03/21/09 11:37 AM (15 years, 30 days ago) |
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It's hard and it sucks man but get on with it, she's a bitch.
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PowerTrip
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: Reality Junkie]
#10015069 - 03/21/09 04:26 PM (15 years, 29 days ago) |
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Just wanted to echo what the others said. Moving on is difficult and the couple months after are going to feel dark, lonely, and boring. You will come out of it though and look back and just wonder "what the fuck was I thinking." I know this because I just went through it myself. It's so funny the tricks your mind plays on you when you become bonded to a person. It's really the same as a drug addiction, you keep doing it and you don't even realize it's breaking you down and killing you.
It takes a lot of strength and willpower to walk away from something that once brought you joy. It becomes much easier once you realize that it is no longer making you happy
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and I refuse to be concerned with condescending advice
cause I'm the only motherfucker that can change my life
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silver97232
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Re: So, i guess she really did cheat on me...... but i kind of dont care, and want her back [Re: PowerTrip]
#10023641 - 03/23/09 12:05 AM (15 years, 28 days ago) |
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You need to move on, realie that it's over
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