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Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc
#8957001 - 09/19/08 10:57 PM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well today I tried again and it doesn't help my "I dont really see the point in sex/Im not going to talk to them again" thing.
So basically, this particular lady had been "on my jock," so to speak and professed her attachment to me and it proceeded from there. Keep in mind, I kind of, I repeat kind of, had to be somewhere an hour after we started.
So I fought through the stomach pains and all that jazz, and as we started, all I could think of was "Man, I could be studying right now or doing something productive."
Long story short, about 15min into it I said that I was going to be late for something, got up, and left.
I guess my questions are; A. Was this rude of me to leave so abruptly like that? B. I am kind of annoyed by her, so what im wondering is if I am just stupid in the head and can't enjoy sex at all or if my annoyance just reigned over the entire incident.
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Re: Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc [Re: Mufungo]
#8957198 - 09/19/08 11:44 PM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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It went between watching the clock to make sure I wasn't going to be late and then attempting to enjoy it.
I dont think it had anything to do with myself not being comfortable because I honestly felt fine and she felt a bit insecure (which is why maybe I felt a little bad when just leaving).
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Re: Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc [Re: Mufungo]
#8957292 - 09/20/08 12:19 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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When I attempt to enjoy other things I immerse myself in them and don't really care about anything else. Like, I won't really care about the concept of time because, I hate to use Be Here Now but, I feel like "I'm right here, right now, having fun, and why should I ruin it by caring about something else"
Sex is the only activity in which this sort of thing occurs.
Also I was really pissed off because I was having a great time out at lunch with a few of my friend and she was saying like "oh come on, lets get together" so I left that early. Honestly, having sex with her was a complete waste of my time.
If I didn't see her today I my alternative options included; playing billiards with a few friends, going biking because someone I know purchased a new road bike, jamming on some instruments with people, generally enjoying myself, etc.
What was kind of funny was she introduced me to one of her friends and he was far more interesting than she is. I would have rather continued discussing psychology/philosophy/books with that guy instead.
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Re: Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc [Re: Mufungo]
#8957392 - 09/20/08 01:02 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Maybe I just don't like these people so I remove myself from the situation I'm in, either mentally or physically?
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Re: Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc [Re: Mufungo]
#8957427 - 09/20/08 01:17 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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I reckon. For awhile I decided that sex shouldn't be a part of my life because of paranoia related to STDs and the fact that I have yet to actually enjoy it but today I was caught in a vice.
But it still coould be that I dont actually like anyone i've had sex with.
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Re: Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc [Re: Mufungo]
#8957460 - 09/20/08 01:29 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well now im 100% sure that it's at least a factor in it.
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Re: Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc [Re: Mufungo]
#8957635 - 09/20/08 02:59 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sounds like you need to engage in more foreplay, or even have some general romance leading up to it. It sounds corny but it does wonders for getting you into it. Do you have any fetishes? Find some way to incorporate those and I GUARANTEE you wont be looking at the clock.
I was like that when I was younger, I actually had a legion of girls (that today I would find attractive and interesting) but I wasnt really into them back then, Id rather smoke pot, jam, talk philosophy or do something more cerebral, and I thought of them as silly, inane, immature and quite obnoxious. As soon as I actually became interested in any of them they stopped being interested in me, but before that they were constantly trying to get my pants off. The odd thing is girls actually prefer guys who are more interested in cerebral pursuits than they are in them (no matter how much they say otherwise). If you put a girl in a room with a guy who is literally obsessed with her to the point of wanting to sniff her socks, and pulling hairs off her shirt to collect she'd be terrified, but take that same guy and make him more interested in art than he was in her and she'd be all over him. Thats just how they are. Id kill to be with any of those girls now, but back then I just wast interested.
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Re: Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc [Re: MisterMuscaria]
#8961320 - 09/21/08 01:01 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sounds like you need therapy to see what's going on in your head, you probably wont get the answers on some shrooming forums, you need to dig into your psyche with a professional that can guide you the right way and see what's going on
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Re: Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc [Re: learningtofly]
#8962972 - 09/21/08 11:24 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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learningtofly said: Well today I tried again and it doesn't help my "I dont really see the point in sex/Im not going to talk to them again" thing.
So basically, this particular lady had been "on my jock," so to speak and professed her attachment to me and it proceeded from there. Keep in mind, I kind of, I repeat kind of, had to be somewhere an hour after we started.
So I fought through the stomach pains and all that jazz, and as we started, all I could think of was "Man, I could be studying right now or doing something productive."
Long story short, about 15min into it I said that I was going to be late for something, got up, and left.
I guess my questions are; A. Was this rude of me to leave so abruptly like that? B. I am kind of annoyed by her, so what im wondering is if I am just stupid in the head and can't enjoy sex at all or if my annoyance just reigned over the entire incident.
Definitely sounds like a psychological problem of yours.
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Re: Awhile back I anon posted about sex problems with women etc [Re: Icelander]
#8963181 - 09/21/08 12:02 PM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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maybe you're gay?
cmon man...it's sex.
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