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SneezingPenis
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bad dreams and my girlfriend
#8441812 - 05/24/08 08:56 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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its so odd. everytime she stays the night over, I have the worst dreams. epic, fucked up shit... and she is hardly ever in the dreams. its always one of those dreams where you wake up and become so happy that it was all just a dream.
anyone have any insight on this?
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Re: bad dreams and my girlfriend [Re: SneezingPenis]
#8441952 - 05/24/08 09:38 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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explain in detail some of the dreams, if you can remember them. also, explain your relationship in detail. do you have any hidden feelings? any withheld emotion? do you suspect her of anything? any bad fights recently?
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Re: bad dreams and my girlfriend [Re: SneezingPenis]
#8442002 - 05/24/08 09:54 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Is she molesting you while you sleep?
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LeftyBurnz
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that would make most men have a wet dream, not a terrifying one lol. well supposing shes molesting him in a good way.......
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Re: bad dreams and my girlfriend [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#8442285 - 05/24/08 11:39 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Exactly.
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maybe you have them alone as well but you just can't tell because she isn't sleeping with you?
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Re: bad dreams and my girlfriend [Re: SneezingPenis]
#8445784 - 05/26/08 02:38 AM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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imagine said: maybe you have them alone as well but you just can't tell because she isn't sleeping with you?
I think there may be something to this comment.
Dream recall.
How often do you sleep alone compared to sleeping with her?
Are you normally a deep sleeper? Do you recall your dreams a lot when you sleep alone?
Do you secretly prefer to sleep alone?
What about possible psychic issues...do you think that your girlfriend could be unconsciously projecting negative energy which you are sensing and interpreting with your own mental imagery?
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he has a weird habit of not posting again in the same thread .. I would recommend you cherish those bad dreams.... those are the best dreams man, life changing shit, only second to wet dreams and other euphorias produced in our sleep.
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Re: bad dreams and my girlfriend [Re: ManianFH]
#8451079 - 05/27/08 03:48 PM (15 years, 9 months ago) |
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memorial day weekend kept me from my computer.
but she sleeps over about 2-3 nights a week. I have an extremely comfortable bed but I usually will crash on the couch in front of the television when she isnt there.
the odd thing is that when she isnt there, I sleep a solid 8 hours, but when she sleeps over, I get maybe 4 and feel even more rested than usual.
here is how the average night goes (im not bragging, just throwing all the details out there): we both work late so we get to the house at 2am and fuck until 4 or 5 am. I will have some dream where I killed someone and think my life is over. wake up at 9am, try to go back to sleep, fail and get some quick morning lovin and go play Call of Duty 4.
now I will sleep in my bed some nights, and I dont have bad dreams or atleast I dont recall them. the only reason I think it is her is because the one time I slept at her house, I had bad dreams.
we sleep really well together too. no fighting over the sheets, kicking legs. the only thing I can think is that I sleep on my back when she is over so she can rest her head on my chest.... or tons of sex is doing it.
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Re: bad dreams and my girlfriend [Re: SneezingPenis]
#8451225 - 05/27/08 04:33 PM (15 years, 9 months ago) |
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well a number of reasons could account for you sleeping better and feeling more rested despite getting less sleep, for starters a couch is not a good place to sleep especially not for your spine. another is that televisions and other electronic devices screw with your sleep patterns due to the EF they produce, there is also strong evidence to prove that even the dimmest light being on affects the depth of your sleep. it is also proven that sex helps produce a deeper state of sleep.
my opinion is that your sleep patterns are not healthy when she is around therefore you are not getting preferable sleep, nor are you falling into deep sleep, which is where dreams occur. however i do not see anything that would give me any idea as to why you would be having so many bad dreams while around her. dreams are pretty mysterious and are not always direct, it could have absolutely nothing to do with her, you just might think so due to the fact that when she is around is when you get the best sleep and therefore dream, your subconcious thoughts find a way to come out.
try a week of sleeping better(on a bed or other firm, flat surface. no electronics and no alcohol within a few hours of sleep) when she isnt around and see if you dream without her there.
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Re: bad dreams and my girlfriend [Re: SneezingPenis]
#8453840 - 05/28/08 03:17 AM (15 years, 9 months ago) |
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maybe you sleep lighter when she's over and you wake up easier remembering the dreams easier
what are your thoughts on this relationship. is it something you are 100% in for?
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Re: bad dreams and my girlfriend [Re: stefan]
#8455838 - 05/28/08 03:53 PM (15 years, 9 months ago) |
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for right now... she is perfect.
we both dont want kids, and dont like marriage.
Common Law is a possibility.
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