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OfflineAnarchoTrip
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Mansturbation or Sex
    #8369029 - 05/06/08 02:21 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I think, for the most part, I'm starting to prefer mansturbation over sex--not entirely, but for the most part. I, really, only enjoy sex with one girl--the girl that I'm in love with. We're in an open relationship, so I have the option for a polygamous sex life. However, I'm really disinterested with having sex with other people--I really just prefer to mansturbate rather than find another person, the 'game' and all that. I think here's what's going on: From my experience, it's feels, physically, best when I just do it myself; I don't really dig the psycho-sexual aspect of masculinity--I don't get a dominance high from fuckin' some broad and I'm generally a low-testosterone kinda fella; also, though this may be embarressing, I tend to get VERY shy when it comes to sex and honestly, fuckin' some broad is a HUGE psychological battle for me--way stressful, borderline not even enjoyable. Because of all these premesis, I've found that mansturbation is much more physically satisfying that polygamous sex: I know what I'm doing and I can't get shy around myself and the porn. The only thing that's lacking in my situation, which is the reason that I still DO have sex (as I stated in the beginning) is the emotional and sensual aspects of sex. I really enjoy the intimacy of sex, and maybe there's some kind of psychological-commitment deal going on with that I really only enjoy sex with the girl that I've been in a relationship for a couple years and that I love.

Sex is a wonderfully interesting topic, and it's so fucking fascinating exploring, understanding and enjoying it.


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: AnarchoTrip]
    #8369049 - 05/06/08 02:24 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Both have their place.


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: AnarchoTrip]
    #8369062 - 05/06/08 02:27 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I'm sure you're going to get a bunch of "gahhh, fuk every female in da worlddd!" responses, but, IMO, sex without commitment is as empty as masturbation.

I myself have recently made the commitment to abstain from both, at least for the time being. Orgasming for some reason causes a kind of depression, and I feel better overall, mentally and physically, when I do not orgasm.


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: AnarchoTrip]
    #8369076 - 05/06/08 02:30 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

It sounds like you have low self-esteem. It's easier to stay home and masturbate and never go after women because there's no chance of having to face rejection.

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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: boxcarguy07]
    #8369081 - 05/06/08 02:30 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

oh yeah, and why does it have to be "man"sturbation? females masturbate too! :grin:


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: boxcarguy07]
    #8369133 - 05/06/08 02:40 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

i dont think sex without commitment is as empty as masturbation. it has brought some of my friends and i closer. was like it needed to get out of the way and we are even closer than ever before as friends. ive had it turn the other way too though. as shroomism said i too believe they both have their place. some people treat sex as a buffet (quantity over quality) but i think it can mean something even in a non love/intimate relationship. idk if that makes sense to anybody.

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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: boxcarguy07]
    #8369218 - 05/06/08 02:57 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

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oh yeah, and why does it have to be "man"sturbation? females masturbate too! :grin:




oops. my bad. of course women masturbate too. I thought the word looked funny...


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: nalyudi]
    #8369236 - 05/06/08 03:02 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

sex is way better... you guys must be getting old... if i go longer than a day without sex/masturbation i start feeling uncomfortable and i get irritable and i start looking at every woman i see in a sexual way even if they are 40-50 years old.. if i dont get in sex that day ill atleast jack off that night or else i just cant act normal

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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: AliceDee]
    #8369255 - 05/06/08 03:06 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Sex > Masturbation, however I've never really gotten off from sex alone so if I'm just looking for an orgasm then I'll take the masturbation. There is nothing emotionally fulfilling like some good intimate sex though.


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: boxcarguy07]
    #8369464 - 05/06/08 03:55 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

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IMO, sex without commitment is as empty as masturbation.




IMO sex without commitment is even emptier than masturbation... i mean with masturbation you are at least doing it yourself... and who knows you better than yourself, right? i rather a fine jerk over a one night stand every time... but sex with the woman i love... now that is just something else... mindblowing...


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: In(di)go]
    #8369589 - 05/06/08 04:23 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Don't wack off as much and your sex drive will increase, soon you will not have embarrasement on your mind when it comes to pumpin vertical lips full of meat. I used to be kinda the same way as you then after I quit wackin it every 3-4 days shyness wasn't much an issue so much as how clean the pussy was. Excessive masturbation is for children imo, men gotta get that fix gives you confidence, makes you feel testicularly awesome you gotta pwn that bitz :x


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: boxcarguy07]
    #8369804 - 05/06/08 05:23 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

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boxcarguy07 said:
oh yeah, and why does it have to be "man"sturbation? females masturbate too! :grin:



I think "mansturbating" is akin to a circle jerk.  or at least two dudes spanking it.  OP is obviously full of faggotry.  :gayflag:


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: HeadTripVertigo]
    #8369835 - 05/06/08 05:33 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

My wife doesn't really care to have sex. When we actually do have sex, it's been a couple of months and to be honest im always rusty as hell. That always makes me embarrased, so i don't want to really have sex that often either. It's just easier and more relaxing to do it myself. If she would let me just 2-3 times a week, im sure i would be alot better in no time. We used to have sex 2-3 times a day before we were married.

I understand what you mean OP. But i don't totally agree. I love sex when its properly done, but those days are few and far between. btw im only 27. I feel like some 65 year old man is typing this for some reason.


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: Kada]
    #8369858 - 05/06/08 05:41 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

It seems that there may be some psychological barriers that are preventing your experience with the lady friend from working correctly. I would surmise that there is a sense of separation which makes you feel overly self conscious. Drugs can be useful. 2CB is used in Europe for couples therapy. I can attest that it is good for relating to trees at least. W/O 2CB maybe just some nice relaxing grass would help? How about massage?? Try skipping the masturbation and adopt penis exercises. Google "jelqing". If you are too lazy to exercise your penis there is no hope for you.

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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: Mr.Al]
    #8370022 - 05/06/08 06:22 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

you and I sound very similar OP because I totally agree with you.


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: Kada]
    #8370065 - 05/06/08 06:28 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Damn dude, why'd you get married if that's the case? Sounds pretty lame...

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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: Brugman]
    #8370102 - 05/06/08 06:36 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I have seen cases where the masturbation screws (no pun intended) the individual up to the degree that they can't sexually relate to another person. Some claim that obsessive masturbation in society leads to rape and abuse. I mean to say that the sex becomes objectified. Objectification with a hand or person is still objectification. That is the main issue with pornography. Psychedelics help you use your body instead of your body using you. Don't identify with your physical vehicle.

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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: Mr.Al]
    #8370510 - 05/06/08 07:54 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

hmm each definitly have their place i think masterbation can be a good relief if your partner happens to be away for a period of time but if you would rather masterbate than have sex with your partner there has to be some issues there. But as you are saying sex with your partner is great thats good.
and just a side note if your not sexually active with your partner you mite as well just be the best of friends now i know a few will take this the wrong way but we are physical beings and have you noticed that people who have never had sex or not for a long time seem to be very pent up sorry guys this comes across kinda random i think


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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: AnarchoTrip]
    #8370539 - 05/06/08 08:00 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Sex or oral sex> masturbation...come on now! :lol:

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Re: Mansturbation or Sex [Re: Skunk420]
    #8370641 - 05/06/08 08:21 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I think you've let society's expectations of masculinity influence your sex drive.

Before the feminist movement society's expectations of the feminine - to be submissive and demure (frigid)- negatively influenced sex for everyone.

What we need is a "masculinism" movement to knock down preconceived notions of domination as associated with sex.

I like having sex with shyer men. They tend to open up more emotionally and not be all cold and trying to live up to how they think they should act. Also men that display no emotion or reaction during sex are really boring to fuck. Ever fuck a heroin addict? No reaction, just lies there stiff as a board - that's what most men are like. Completely blank. Try getting off to that.


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