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Anonymous #1
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 virgin girlfriend 
#8040541 - 02/18/08 10:15 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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my girlfriend is a virgin and really really small
we've been messing around, shes really shy about having sex, but has told me that she plans on it etc...im not rushing her at all, each time we make out we go closer and closer
i was rubbing her down there, getting her wet and went to stick a finger in and wasnt able to, it is way too tight. I tried with some force but not to hurt her and it was like fort knox.
I'm not exactly sure what i should do, i mean i figured to give oral and some hand work before anything else, but that is really hard to do.
like I said, she is a little aprehensive, and emotional about the whole thing so we kinda go with the flow and she ends up getting k inda uncomfortable and scared and we stop.
that being said i wasnt able to make it "official" like tell her "hang on, im going in this might hurt" it just kinda happend, and if i were to talk about it im sure it would be a major turn off
also she seemed to love me touching her down there, and rubbing her clit area getting off kinda much, but is it possible, or likely that she was contracting any muscles to make it harder to get in?
i just wanna know how to get in the first time lol cause its seriously a tiny hole and im kinda a big dude once i get a finger in im sure we can work something out, but i cant even do that!
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Anonymous #2
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I swear I read this exact same post several months ago.
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Anonymous #3
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sure you aint one too?
theres lots of reasons which could be why she's so small
some women are born with deformed pussies or she might even be a midget or maybe shes a kegel expert
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Anonymous #4
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or maybe she's a man and he's fingering the asshole.
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Anonymous #1
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OP --
im not a virgin, but far from experienced or even good in bed...no lies there
but yeah, she is under 5' tall and weighs under 90 lbs and has never had sex or touched herself and doesnt use tampons, she wears pads
do i just make sure shes all slippery and try with maybe my smallest finger and force its way in? she is really worried about the pain based on what all her friends have told her about their first times, and im sure it will be worse for her being so small....last thing I want to do is hurt her the first attempt and ruin it for a while
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Anonymous #3
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im not sure OP
she might have to see a gyneacologist(dunno if spelt right)
you could tear her and she could get infections
go with her and see one
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Anonymous #5
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yah, and make sure shes relaxed as can be, cuz if she tenses its gonna hurt
i agree with going to a doctor
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Anonymous #6
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if my girlfriend were a virgin id pay someone else to take it from her.. god i hate virgins.
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Anonymous #1
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is it really that big of a deal?
my ex girlfriend was bigger than her and not a virgin and after not having sex for a while she was pretty tight too, could get maybe a finger in at first before loosening it up, and she used tampons too
that is why it doesnt seem *too* odd just small girl
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Anonymous #6
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its not just about being small.. they are shy, it hurts them, and all that other shit. Just dont wanna deal with the "dont go in all the way, it hurts too much"
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Anonymous #7
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Put it in maybe a few centimeters to start with and slowly work your way all up in dat pussy.
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Anonymous #8
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When she's nervous, and of course she it, she tightens up. You are just gonna have to get her to relax. Instead of starting with touching her vagina start with a backrub with candles. You need her to relax. Then as she starts to relax slowly slide a hand down there. If she tenses back up go back to the massage.
I'm a girl so I never had to deal with it. But I'm pretty sure it would work.
Or just get her really drunk.
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Anonymous #9
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Different women are born with different shaped hymens. Ever hear of popping a girl's cherry? That is tearing of the hymen. It happens. It will probably be painful and she might bleed, but once it's torn she will be able to have sex more easily. If she has a gyno, I'd imagine the gyno could cut it for her in sterile conditions... that'd be much safer. All she'd have to say is she wants to have sex but is too tight or something along those lines.
Sex with small girls is not impossible. Most of the girls I've had sex with were under 5'4". I dated a girl that was 4'9". My penis is around 8.5 inches and sex wasn't a problem at all. In fact, that was probably the best sex I've ever had. Of course, she wasn't a virgin so her hymen had probably already been torn. Ahh... if only that girl wasn't engaged, I'd sex her up again... she was a freak. 
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Anonymous #9
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I just made the last post and saw that someone suggested getting her drunk... I though about suggesting that but it's probably a bad idea. If she tears she might bleed... alcohol is a blood thinner. She'd just bleed more and probably freak out more because she was drunk.
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Anonymous #8
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That's how I lost mine. It was kind of gross. But it didn't stop me from wanting it again. And again and again and ......................................well you get the picture.
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Anonymous #10
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Wrong hole fool.
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Anonymous #11
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buy her a dildo and tell her to give you a call once she can fit the whole thing in.
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Anonymous #12
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give her an experience she will never forget
rape her
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Anonymous #13
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I didn't read shit but I am willin to bet dude is waxin a 12 year old
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Anonymous #14
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lol
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