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OfflineMyInnerChild
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Define "love" for me if you please... * 1
    #7545036 - 10/21/07 10:48 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

Have you felt the real thing :heart: and how do you know?

Have you felt lust/longing and thought it was love?

What do you do to maintain/nurture your love relationship?

Thanks for the input...feel free to joke about it but I'd like some honest replies as well y'all. :thumbup:


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My inner child runs with scissors but plays nicely with others!

Sometimes the light's all shine'in on me,
Other times I can barely see.
Lately it occurs to me,
What a looong strange trip it's been! ~ Truck'in

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: MyInnerChild] * 1
    #7545058 - 10/21/07 10:54 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

MyInnerChild said:
Have you felt the real thing :heart: and how do you know?

Have you felt lust/longing and thought it was love?

What do you do to maintain/nurture your love relationship?

Thanks for the input...feel free to joke about it but I'd like some honest replies as well y'all. :thumbup:




I love a girl. She doesn't love me. Love's a bitch, and gravity's a bastard :banghead:

I love you InnerChild :japsmile:

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: MyInnerChild] * 1
    #7545059 - 10/21/07 10:54 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

Anal sex


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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: Hyper_Panda_GO] * 1
    #7545065 - 10/21/07 10:56 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Hyper_Panda_GO said:
Anal sex




fueled by ketamine, right?

damn dude anal sex is your answer a lot of the time :rofl:

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... *DELETED* [Re: MyInnerChild] * 1
    #7545103 - 10/21/07 11:08 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

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OfflineMyInnerChild
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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: blkjkrabbit] * 1
    #7545137 - 10/21/07 11:14 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

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I love you InnerChild :japsmile:




Why, :thanx: how kind! Same back atcha! :heart:


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My inner child runs with scissors but plays nicely with others!

Sometimes the light's all shine'in on me,
Other times I can barely see.
Lately it occurs to me,
What a looong strange trip it's been! ~ Truck'in

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: PJDIDDLE] * 1
    #7545154 - 10/21/07 11:19 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

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Script said:
I have been, and still am in love with someone.  Love made me an irrational being, and an overall bad person.  Strong love doesn’t combine well with low self control and a wandering mind.

And im left with the pain of one sided love.  But it’s deserving, so I don’t feel bad for myself.

I just hope that if it ever happens again I can be a different person.  If not, I’d rather die alone.




Wow, this is vulnerability! If you can be this introspective and honest then you're a keeper man and I bless you that you should find that soul-mate in the right time whenever that will be. :thumbup:

Btw, I relate the the mind-wandering thing....


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My inner child runs with scissors but plays nicely with others!

Sometimes the light's all shine'in on me,
Other times I can barely see.
Lately it occurs to me,
What a looong strange trip it's been! ~ Truck'in

Edited by MyInnerChild (10/21/07 11:20 PM)

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: MyInnerChild] * 1
    #7545230 - 10/21/07 11:36 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

love is the definition...


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  Edited by yageman (04/20/06 4:20 PM) 

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: wrestler_az] * 1
    #7545348 - 10/22/07 12:07 AM (16 years, 6 months ago)

love is not what most people think it is. most people's idea of love comes from their parents or TV/music and sadly, is very dysfunctional. most people think the urge they have to fuck/kiss/dominate/control/command etc. is love. it is not. it is what we are told by the ignorant to see as love. but...

"Love is a state of Being. Your love is not outside; it is deep within you. You can never lose it, and it cannot leave you. It is not dependent on some other body, some external form."

if you are still enough, mentally motionless, then you can feel your own formless and timeless reality as the unmanifested life that animates your physical form (feel, not think about!). then you can feel the same life deep within every other human and creature. it this state you look beyond the veil of form and separation. this is the realization of oneness. this is Love :smile:


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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: chubbycharley] * 1
    #7545420 - 10/22/07 12:40 AM (16 years, 6 months ago)

love is when your heart melts and runs out the end of your peter.

thats what my grandad told me, anyway.

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: antiPock] * 1
    #7545430 - 10/22/07 12:44 AM (16 years, 6 months ago)

haha i like that definition. i

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: MyInnerChild] * 1
    #7545432 - 10/22/07 12:45 AM (16 years, 6 months ago)

To many people treat love like an addiction. Miserably living fighting bickering nonstop. Love with out the attachment is whats up for the ultimate happiness. Love is the last relationship, the rest are all just practice.

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: blkjkrabbit] * 1
    #7545481 - 10/22/07 01:05 AM (16 years, 6 months ago)

Is there another kind of anal sex?

Lolz, jk

Only drug I've ever been on when getting fucked was mushrooms and cocaine

Fun shit, being a teenager and lying about your age on craigslist


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OfflineMyInnerChild
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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: chubbycharley] * 1
    #7548190 - 10/22/07 06:28 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

chubbycharley said:
love is not what most people think it is. most people's idea of love comes from their parents or TV/music and sadly, is very dysfunctional. most people think the urge they have to fuck/kiss/dominate/control/command etc. is love. it is not. it is what we are told by the ignorant to see as love. but...

"Love is a state of Being. Your love is not outside; it is deep within you. You can never lose it, and it cannot leave you. It is not dependent on some other body, some external form."

if you are still enough, mentally motionless, then you can feel your own formless and timeless reality as the unmanifested life that animates your physical form (feel, not think about!). then you can feel the same life deep within every other human and creature. it this state you look beyond the veil of form and separation. this is the realization of oneness. this is Love :smile:




I strongly agree with the 1st part and have to think more and experiment into the 2nd. Thanx and I deeply appreciate the input man, I really do! <3

The rest of you guys: Please answer this: What do you do to maintain/nurture your love relationship?


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My inner child runs with scissors but plays nicely with others!

Sometimes the light's all shine'in on me,
Other times I can barely see.
Lately it occurs to me,
What a looong strange trip it's been! ~ Truck'in

Edited by MyInnerChild (10/22/07 06:31 PM)

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: MyInnerChild] * 1
    #7548523 - 10/22/07 07:31 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

Love is being able to say: No, don't stop. Not: No. Don't. Stop.


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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: Penguarky Tunguin] * 1
    #7548577 - 10/22/07 07:43 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

Haha, that's pretty solid. :thumbup:

To me, love is something of a slight intangible.  Most words are difficult enough to define in their own right, let alone a word attributed to a human emotion/experience.  If you choose to love, you might have a fighting chance of drawing your own conclusions as to what sorts of reality will coincide with an experience so widely and subjectively interpreted.  I engaged in a discourse on love in our Philosophy & Spirituality forum about a year ago when I found myself falling into it for the first time in a very long while.  I think that in the midst of the conversation I did ample justice to my own definitions of love, and plenty of other members had some great things to say as well.  If you're interested:

The Trouble of Love - To Love is To Live





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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: geokills] * 1
    #7551714 - 10/23/07 04:44 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

thanks Geo~That thread has a lot to say and y'all added a lot of what I wanted to know. :thumbup:


Communication...making the other happy and not looking to see if they're doing the same.

My husband stuck with me but recently told me after 23 years that he never loved me. He thought he was marrying one person and when he discovered that when I'm excited, I interrupt and I HATE being criticized. He was shocked.

So now I wonder if I'll ever be loved by a man. I had lustful short relationships (see my journal about my younger days' pursuing young men for sexual encounters) but never felt truly attached to anyone.

If I divorced I know I'd be constantly quoting hus and I'd miss the creative interesting person he is. I wouldn't miss the pressure of his expectations and disappointment when I don't come through the way he wants me to. He's tough and demanding of himself and expects others to do the same.

He only touches me in bed.

I long for hugs as well as sex. Typical women that last way eh?

Thanks for "listening". Excuse the whining. Things are going three steps forward and two steps back so the progress is slow and hard to detect. Our mentor with whom we met last night says he sees improvement.

I want to be loved...for me now not just who he hopes I'll be after I get "fixed" with medication counseling and personality adjustments. I'll try again. I'll put in the effort but I can't help but feel rejected. He wants someone else and since he can't have someone else he wants me to be that person if I can be. I can try but I sure feel worried that if I fail to satisfy him I'll be out on my butt. The mentor says that's not the case but I don't agree. What will change then? I'm still me!

I'll try. Again.


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My inner child runs with scissors but plays nicely with others!

Sometimes the light's all shine'in on me,
Other times I can barely see.
Lately it occurs to me,
What a looong strange trip it's been! ~ Truck'in

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: MyInnerChild] * 1
    #7551813 - 10/23/07 04:57 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

love
is having someone to share your life with.
The good, the bad and the in between.
Through stuffy noses and no money to
long embraces and elaborate gifts.
It's definitely been a ride for me so far.
But i wouldn't change a single thing.
I dropped my guard about a year and half ago, for the first time in my life, and I haven't looked back since.
:heart:


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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: laska] * 1
    #7551833 - 10/23/07 05:02 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

laska...describe how dropping your gaurd manifested itself in deed, or nom-deeds if you please.


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My inner child runs with scissors but plays nicely with others!

Sometimes the light's all shine'in on me,
Other times I can barely see.
Lately it occurs to me,
What a looong strange trip it's been! ~ Truck'in

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Re: Define "love" for me if you please... [Re: MyInnerChild] * 1
    #7551863 - 10/23/07 05:15 PM (16 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

MyInnerChild said:
laska...describe how dropping your gaurd manifested itself in deed, or nom-deeds if you please.




not too sure of the question.

Basically, if i understood you right here's my answer :blush:

I was in Europe visiting family for almost 3 months.
I came back and found out a guy I liked was murdered.
I finally realized after 20 years of living that life is too short to look and not feel.
I met Suimush at a job I started and I really liked him. It was the first time in a while that i actually liked someone.
I went for it and we just clicked.

A year a half later were still spending every day together. And i couldn't be happier.
He's my best friend and so much more.

:heart:

wow - gush much, but hey the threads about love. :flowers:


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