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Hakim0777
aka RACKBONE!!!
Registered: 08/25/06
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Fuck coke.
#7450412 - 09/25/07 02:53 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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My ex girlfriend and mother of my child and her boyfirend (one of my good friends) Have become addicted to coke. She says she "needs" it and it "fills a hole" or something to that effect. there doing it. alot. I know if he were to stop she would also...
Wtf am I supposed to do? Ive considered threat to him but that would just make them more secretive about there use. Are they fucked?
Im stuck and im starting to Panic...This could really ruin my babies and there lives. Should I beat the living shit out of him and threaten to ruin his life? should I try to get through to the mother? I cant take the baby...thats almost impossible.
This whole thing is so fucked and I just need some advice...
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AG Tek
Let The GoodTimes Roll
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man that is one sticky situation...thats one reason i dont touch coke anymore. if your ex is serious about your child i would try getting through to her. Even though this guy is your friend he is the one disrespecting you by endangering not only your ex but your child too. Usually IMO its "bros before hos" but nothing should ever get in the way of protecting and caring for your kid....
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juende
feministpresence
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aye... don't panic and bring a towel. i dont know your situation or anything, but keep a clear head, you'll prolly have to make a couple of difficult choices. don't act too rash or quickly. take a look at all your options, rehab, calling the cops, going to court, talking to family, letting it blow over, anything and everything you can think of. talk to them or just her and think of your child. i wish you the best of luck with this and know you've got support behind you <3
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indica
Registered: 08/17/05
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Re: Fuck coke. [Re: AG Tek]
#7450444 - 09/25/07 03:15 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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call the cops
or alternatively
put ice in her ass and pussy
or kill their coke dealer
call the cops, child welfare. whatever it takes to get the baby out of there and into your custody unless its being looked after in whichcase
too bad
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ThirdEyeOpening
Lost In My Head
Registered: 08/24/04
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i dont know your situation or anything, but keep a clear head, you'll prolly have to make a couple of difficult choices. don't act too rash or quickly. take a look at all your options, rehab, calling the cops, going to court, talking to family, letting it blow over, anything and everything you can think of. talk to them or just her and think of your child. i wish you the best of luck with this and know you've got support behind you <3
I hate blow, with a passion. Seen a lot of lives destroyed, or very close to being by it. Just be carefull in what you decide to do, Dont freak them out, but be firm and serious. If shes looking to fill a void in her life, all shes going to be doing is creating more.
Present the facts and your feelings on the situation, tactfully, if it doesnt look like its going to change. Fight with tooth and nail to get your kid out of there. Cops, intervention, rehab, anything.
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mushbaby
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I have to agree with the majority here. Don't want to get too preachy, but I think your decision needs to be based on what's best for the kid. They are adults and as such can make their own choices for their lives. That kid doesn't have a choice.
I've seen some good people turn into horrible people when doing too much coke. And you can't make people quit, or even want to quit. If they won't listen to reason you need to take matters into your own hands.
Blood supercedes friends.
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ralphroks
humaniform
Registered: 03/25/07
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Loc: Up north passed Alaska
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Re: Fuck coke. [Re: mushbaby]
#7454019 - 09/25/07 11:46 PM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Your kids should be the #1 priority, not coke. The bitch fooked up and had a kid, and she would rather hang out and get fooked up and not be a house mom for 18 yrs.
"I cant take the baby...thats almost impossible." so you cant take the kid and she isnt going to raise this kid in a safe environment and she obviously doesn`t want it. Throw the kid down a well, put it in foster care, Or demand full custody. I know alot of single dads because their wife left them to do drugs with their ex best-friend, They get by>most with gov. housing and welfare checks, Until they can grow up enough to feed their babies themselves. It sucks but they love their kids and cowboy up-
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Gratos
Just thinkin anddrinkin
Registered: 08/21/05
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Wait until they fuck up and come in with both barrels full of lawyer. Theres really not much else you can do.
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Pledge2Educate
Der Pilzkönig
Registered: 09/13/07
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Re: Fuck coke. [Re: Gratos]
#7454065 - 09/26/07 12:08 AM (16 years, 6 months ago) |
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Definately Anti-coke here, hell I've even been rated poorly by some white trash mother fucker named FecalDildo because of my stance man.
You have to consider what's best for the kid, plain and simple. And I can guarentee the child living in a house with a bunch of coke fiends isn't it. Do what's right man.
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makaveli8x8
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i do prefer pepsi, but i love the coke bottles
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Pledge2Educate
Der Pilzkönig
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You know the Coca Cola company is the only company licensed under US law to process Coca leafs to make pharmaceutical anastesha.
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Leanin
Student of theIron Game
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dude get a lawyer.
get your kids away from that crazy bitch if shes a total coke head.
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