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wiggles
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Like a girl...
#6678906 - 03/17/07 12:30 AM (17 years, 7 days ago) |
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Well, I don't really know where to begin with this one...
About 6 or 7 months ago I got really, really stoned, and did a whole lot of cocaine. Then I rode my bike across town to work, stopping at a gas station along the way to get some stuff to eat/drink, and a pack of cigs. So, I arrived at work (as a lab monitor in a computer lab). Sitting across from me was this really pretty girl, but I didn't think much of it. I was starting to come down, so I was slumped back in my chair, just crusing the web.
Then I saw her move in her chair, which caught my attention. So, I looked over, and I saw her move her eyes back to the screen. So, I just smiled (I'm shy, and have no self esteem... so I tend to not approach girls... I just smile if I see people looking at me). Well, I noticed her do it again, and we ended up peeking back and forth at eachother for about 10 minutes, and both of us kept smiling bigger and bigger. Then she got up to head out... and as she was walking to the door, she stopped, turned around and looked at me and hesitated for a second. Then she looked at my drinks, and asked me in a surprised way if the orange one was really a Jones soda. I said yeah it is. She went on to say she loved their sodas, but she couldn't find them in the area. I said that they sell them down by the sunoco, so, after an uncomfortable moment of silence she turned and headed out the door.
So, I figured I blew it... but what the hell, she seemed cool. So, I found her on facebook (she goes to my college). I sent her a message a few days later just saying hi, and we started messaging eachother back and forth.
Well, since then, we've been conversing every couple days, and hung out a couple of times. We grew up about a town apart, and know most of the same people.. its strange we never met. She actually went out with one of my old bandmates in my punker days. The thing is... she's probobly the coolest person i think I've met in at least a decade. And to put it frankly, I think I'm starting to develop a crush.
The downside is, she seems to deflect any attempt I make to get her number, or screen name... anything that would allow for more continual conversation. The upside is, we spend a lot of time face to face, and she's the one who initiates it... she actually asked me if I was busy monday night.. and I burnt a mixed cd for her 21st birthday that I'm planning to give her.
The other downside is, every girl I've met thats had the gift to fall in my "amazing people" group, and that I have started to like, have ended up as wrecked friendships. I would love for us to be more than friends, but I'm kind of scared to have another amazing person end up leaving my life.
So, shroomerites, how can I have my cake and @*#( it too? lol
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HELLA_TIGHT
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: wiggles]
#6678919 - 03/17/07 12:34 AM (17 years, 7 days ago) |
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Ask her to have dinner with you. That would hint that want more than friends, but if she says no, just be like, "Alright" /motion like you don't give a fuck
Then you won't look like a bitch, ya know?
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DeathCompany
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: wiggles]
#6678920 - 03/17/07 12:34 AM (17 years, 7 days ago) |
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you cant your screwed but id make a move before you end up as a "friend"
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Wasteland
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: wiggles]
#6678935 - 03/17/07 12:38 AM (17 years, 7 days ago) |
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Find several girls that you find interesting.
And start one of those "there can only be one I will choose, but you all have to compete for me" shows, and put it on YouTube.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: wiggles]
#6679062 - 03/17/07 01:27 AM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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First, you need to chill out and stop thinking anything romantically. Just play it cool for another week or so. But the next time you go out, go somewhere nicer than where you went previously. And then ask her to dinner, 'cuz how she reacts is what she's really feeling.
Also, reexamine why your past experiences with such "amazing" people ended. Maybe they weren't that amazing to begin with and you just built them up in your head.
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eligal
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DeathCompany said: you cant your screwed but id make a move before you end up as a "friend"
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JunkFood
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: wiggles]
#6679368 - 03/17/07 05:23 AM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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wiggles said: Well, I don't really know where to begin with this one...
About 6 or 7 months ago I got really, really stoned, and did a whole lot of cocaine. Then I rode my bike across town to work, stopping at a gas station along the way to get some stuff to eat/drink, and a pack of cigs. So, I arrived at work (as a lab monitor in a computer lab). Sitting across from me was this really pretty girl, but I didn't think much of it. I was starting to come down, so I was slumped back in my chair, just crusing the web.
Then I saw her move in her chair, which caught my attention. So, I looked over, and I saw her move her eyes back to the screen. So, I just smiled (I'm shy, and have no self esteem... so I tend to not approach girls... I just smile if I see people looking at me). Well, I noticed her do it again, and we ended up peeking back and forth at eachother for about 10 minutes, and both of us kept smiling bigger and bigger. Then she got up to head out... and as she was walking to the door, she stopped, turned around and looked at me and hesitated for a second. Then she looked at my drinks, and asked me in a surprised way if the orange one was really a Jones soda. I said yeah it is. She went on to say she loved their sodas, but she couldn't find them in the area. I said "Well...you can find em' in my area"
Nice move
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JunkFood
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: JunkFood]
#6679373 - 03/17/07 05:30 AM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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wiggles said: Well, I don't really know where to begin with this one...
About 6 or 7 months ago I got really, really stoned, and did a whole lot of cocaine. Then I rode my bike across town to work, stopping at a gas station along the way to get some stuff to eat/drink, and a pack of cigs. So, I arrived at work (as a lab monitor in a computer lab). Sitting across from me was this really pretty girl, but I didn't think much of it. I was starting to come down, so I was slumped back in my chair, just crusing the web.
Then I saw her move in her chair, which caught my attention. So, I looked over, and I saw her move her eyes back to the screen. So, I just smiled (I'm shy, and have no self esteem... so I tend to not approach girls... I just smile if I see people looking at me). Well, I noticed her do it again, and we ended up peeking back and forth at eachother for about 10 minutes, and both of us kept smiling bigger and bigger. Then she got up to head out... and as she was walking to the door, she stopped, turned around and looked at me and hesitated for a second. Then she looked at my drinks, and asked me in a surprised way if the orange one was really a Jones soda. I said yeah it is. She went on to say she loved their sodas, but she couldn't find them in the area. I said that they sell them down by the sunoco, so, after an uncomfortable moment of silence she turned and headed out the door. And then I quickly grabbed a piece of paper, wrote my phone number down on it, ran after her and said: "You forgot something."
Nice move
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Jenny
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: wiggles]
#6679831 - 03/17/07 11:08 AM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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I can't really tell whether she likes you or not from the information, but initially it sounds to me like she kinda had a crush on you. But if you are coming on too strong, which it sounds like you are (you need to play hard to get at first) Even if she DID like you at first, if you are trying to talk to her all the time then its going to turn her off and send her running. Maybe you just need to chill for a while. As hard as it is, try and let things just happen and naturally run their course.
Like the facebook thing was semi creepy. I've had guys in my classes message me on facebook and I just thought it was weird. Why didn't they just talk to me in class? The other thing is she just wants to be friends and always just wanted that. Girls lead guys on all the time because they just want guys friends, but guys take it as the girl must like me only to be disappointed later. So thats why i'm thinking maybe just chill out and see what happens.
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Kickle
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Penguarky Tunguin said: Also, reexamine why your past experiences with such "amazing" people ended. Maybe they weren't that amazing to begin with and you just built them up in your head.
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: Kickle]
#6679917 - 03/17/07 11:34 AM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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All, I know is girls are hard to understand.I like to be a girls friend that gets to fuck her, with out being in a relationship .
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Muppet
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: Brainiac]
#6679941 - 03/17/07 11:44 AM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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that one's tough to pull off though
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JunkFood
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: Brainiac]
#6679942 - 03/17/07 11:44 AM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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Brainiac said: All, I know is girls are hard to understand.I like to be a girls friend that gets to fuck her, with out being in a relationship .
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: wiggles]
#6679948 - 03/17/07 11:48 AM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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wiggles said: Then she looked at my drinks, and asked me in a surprised way if the orange one was really a Jones soda. I said yeah it is. She went on to say she loved their sodas, but she couldn't find them in the area.
Jones is good. Maybe she was paying no mind to you and was smiling at your soda?
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Your name is a great song.
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EndlessNameless said:
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wiggles said: Then she looked at my drinks, and asked me in a surprised way if the orange one was really a Jones soda. I said yeah it is. She went on to say she loved their sodas, but she couldn't find them in the area.
Jones is good. Maybe she was paying no mind to you and was smiling at your soda?
soda fetish
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Phumfeinz said: Your name is a great song.
I second that
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: wiggles]
#6680036 - 03/17/07 12:17 PM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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Okay, the only way to find someone who is an amazing person to be with is by putting yourself out there to begin with. If you don't try for it you will never have known whether or not you would of ever had a chance to begin with and will just end up regretting it.
Getting hurt and losing people in your life is just a part of the whole process of life. But can be completely worth it.
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Muppet
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you know, everyone keeps telling me that it's always fucken worth it... but then I see people who are apparently 'happily married' and it's always some like:
"shuddup bitch...go fix me a turkey pot pie"
I think adults are just lying to us so we make the same mistakes they did, so they feel better about themselves for fucking up their own lives you know - like how they always tell ya it's also good to wait til you're married to have sex
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Re: Like a girl... [Re: Muppet]
#6680089 - 03/17/07 12:37 PM (17 years, 6 days ago) |
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wiggles.. i don't have any advice for you, but good luck getting the girl
and your avatar is great.
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