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Fades_to_Black
Sexaholic
Registered: 04/17/06
Posts: 185
Loc: Lynn, the City of Sin
Last seen: 13 years, 1 month
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Can there just be LOVE!?
#6007544 - 08/29/06 09:08 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Is it possible for there to be only love adn acceptance in the universe? Or am I shit outta luck with all these assholes fucking with me? I'm a good fucking person, and I don't deserve to be made fun of or hurt. Is there such a thing as a REAL friend, or does everyone come with a price...easily bought and sold as the wind blows?? Life.fucking.sucks.period
-------------------- With a bit of luck, his life was ruined forever. Always thinking that just behind some narrow door in all of his favorite bars, men in red woolen shirts are getting incredible kicks from things he'll never know. - Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas ~*Krysta*~
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Rono
DSYSB since '01
Registered: 01/25/01
Posts: 16,259
Loc: Calgary, Alberta
Last seen: 1 year, 29 days
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Fades_to_Black said: Is it possible for there to be only love adn acceptance in the universe? Or am I shit outta luck with all these assholes fucking with me? I'm a good fucking person, and I don't deserve to be made fun of or hurt. Is there such a thing as a REAL friend, or does everyone come with a price...easily bought and sold as the wind blows?? Life.fucking.sucks.period
You speak of unconditional love and acceptance, then in the same breath condemn "These Assholes".
You need to change your own views...because you will never change others, if you can't practice what you preach.
-------------------- "Life has never been weird enough for my liking"
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Newbie
User of semicolons.
Registered: 07/18/04
Posts: 24,715
Loc: SoCal
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Re: Can there just be LOVE!? [Re: Rono]
#6007574 - 08/29/06 09:20 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah it's the whole "What goes around comes around" principle. You must first make an unknown amount of love go around and in an unknown amount of time it should return.
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HarvestTheBrain
CultDeVader
Registered: 07/14/03
Posts: 1,749
Loc: Usa
Last seen: 6 months, 8 days
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yeah, it sucks trying to find love and true friendship, im just now starting ro find what love and friendship REALLY is...i guess you just have to keep looking, and surround yourself with it
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Clean
the lense
Registered: 05/11/03
Posts: 2,374
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love yourself first and foremost. from that space it is natural to treat others with respect. then you can see people who don't treat you with basic respect are just projecting their self-loathing on to you.
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Cubenisseur
Mad Props
Registered: 12/04/05
Posts: 1,392
Loc: Indian Land
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Re: Can there just be LOVE!? [Re: Newbie]
#6007581 - 08/29/06 09:22 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Life.fucking.sucks.period
Yeah, with a negative attitude like that, people aren't going to want to get very close to you.
You can't change others hearts, but you can work hard on your own.
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Fades_to_Black
Sexaholic
Registered: 04/17/06
Posts: 185
Loc: Lynn, the City of Sin
Last seen: 13 years, 1 month
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Re: Can there just be LOVE!? [Re: Cubenisseur]
#6007662 - 08/29/06 09:56 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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I am just very sad lately. I feel like no matter how hard I try, no mattter what I do, everyone hates me. I can't seem to find a friend - someone to talk to. It makes me a little bitter.
<33
-------------------- With a bit of luck, his life was ruined forever. Always thinking that just behind some narrow door in all of his favorite bars, men in red woolen shirts are getting incredible kicks from things he'll never know. - Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas ~*Krysta*~
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Rono
DSYSB since '01
Registered: 01/25/01
Posts: 16,259
Loc: Calgary, Alberta
Last seen: 1 year, 29 days
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We all go through times like that...they will pass.
You probably have more friends than you realize...by the sounds of it you need to work on your outlook on life more than anything. If you are negative all the time, people will avoid you like the plague...learn to laugh at yourself and shitty situations, as they are all temporary.
-------------------- "Life has never been weird enough for my liking"
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Corporal Kielbasa
Registered: 05/29/04
Posts: 17,235
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The question is can you just love and except love in all its forms? Are the things you think also your actions?
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eligal
Noobie
Registered: 05/25/05
Posts: 7,021
Loc: California
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dont try to force love
-------------------- \m/ Spanksta \m/ "do you have the freedom to do with your nervous system what you want?" "MolokoMilkPlus said: I'll respect you if you let me give you a blow job" "tactik said: respect the can."
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Kbell
Stranger
Registered: 08/19/06
Posts: 184
Last seen: 15 years, 17 days
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Re: Can there just be LOVE!? [Re: eligal]
#6007819 - 08/29/06 10:48 AM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ah... SDP and I were JUST having this conversation like two days ago. Ask him his views on it because he's so much better with words than I am. But in a nut shell... Yes there is such thing but people get screwed over all the time that they are hardened and don't trust anyone anymore. But there are a few that maintain and are just naturally nice people (yours truly) and get hurt all the time if they don't realise that people do suck but you need them so guard your heart and you, for the most part will end up ok.
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AlteredAgain
Visual Alchemist
Registered: 04/27/06
Posts: 11,181
Loc: Solar Circuit
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40oz
Registered: 01/18/01
Posts: 30,119
Loc: Sandy Eggo. Ca.
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theres love all around you, you're just not looking at it right
-------------------- - - - - tiny_rabid_birds said: "your avatar is dirty."
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Iamthewalrus
every evening Idied and everynight I wasreborn
Registered: 03/24/04
Posts: 3,744
Loc: Ontario
Last seen: 15 years, 5 months
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I truely love my girl...shes everything I've ever wanted...I didn't think such a loyal honest loving person existed...and u know... looks don't even matter all that much to me but shes also absolutely stunning..I'm a lucky lucky guy
don't give up hope there are good honest loyal ppl who want love and don't play stupid games they can be hard to find tho unfortunately
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Dark_Star
train driver pervading a desktop
Registered: 08/20/04
Posts: 31,859
Loc: Uranus
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It's not only possible, it's guarenteed.....it's going to take a long time. In fact time isn't even an issue....can't even describe what it's all going to take. But it'll happen.
walrus...check your email buddy.
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LeastResistance
Camp Pink Onion
Registered: 09/27/04
Posts: 808
Loc: Dairyland
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Re: Can there just be LOVE!? [Re: Iamthewalrus]
#6008802 - 08/29/06 03:52 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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alot of these people would like to have you belive that love flows like water. well it doesnt, you need a keen eye and some exp to spot the real deal but once you do dont let it go. move out in the country a lot more LOVE out there
-------------------- "Weaving Spiders Come Not Here"
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Corporal Kielbasa
Registered: 05/29/04
Posts: 17,235
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LeastResistance said: alot of these people would like to have you belive that love flows like water. well it doesnt, you need a keen eye and some exp to spot the real deal but once you do dont let it go. move out in the country a lot more LOVE out there
What kind of love you talkin bout?
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surf rat
pass the dutchie
Registered: 08/19/06
Posts: 988
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Fades_to_Black said: I am just very sad lately. I feel like no matter how hard I try, no mattter what I do, everyone hates me. I can't seem to find a friend - someone to talk to. It makes me a little bitter.
<33
ILL BE YOUR FRIEND RANDOM PERSON!! haha
-------------------- Draft beer, not people.
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Iamthewalrus
every evening Idied and everynight I wasreborn
Registered: 03/24/04
Posts: 3,744
Loc: Ontario
Last seen: 15 years, 5 months
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Re: Can there just be LOVE!? [Re: Dark_Star]
#6008920 - 08/29/06 04:29 PM (17 years, 6 months ago) |
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will do
EDIT: k replied
Edited by Iamthewalrus (08/29/06 04:34 PM)
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ClammyJoe
Azurescen Head
Registered: 11/03/05
Posts: 3,691
Loc: PNW
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Don't look for love in off topic discussion.
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