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Hitman203
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My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew...
#5553146 - 04/24/06 10:34 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Seriously am i wrong or is that riddiculus? hes 18 and his Dad makes him be home by midnight every night except saturday (when he stays with his mom cause there divorced)
I tell him to grow a pair and do what he wants but he doesnt listen.
Do you guys know anyone thats out of HS and has a curfew? Cause its pretty riddiculus... Its basically the reason i rarely hang out with him anymore. My parents stopped caring about pretty much anything i did in junior year lol...
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Hitman203]
#5553165 - 04/24/06 10:38 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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when I graduated high school, I moved out of my parents' house, hence no more curfew. Maybe your friend should consider doing the same.
How's he gonna "grow a pair" when he's completely dependent on his father for shelter?
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: NickSoapdish]
#5553179 - 04/24/06 10:41 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Brandon said: when I graduated high school, I moved out of my parents' house, hence no more curfew. Maybe your friend should consider doing the same.
How's he gonna "grow a pair" when he's completely dependent on his father for shelter?
IDK. he was going away for college but then failed out so hes in community college nowadays. He hasnt worked a day in his life either (His dad is rich...)
So yea. I would move out if i was him. actually i wouldnt have failed out of college but same idea.
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Hitman203]
#5553190 - 04/24/06 10:44 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Next time you're with him and you see a bum be like "DO YOU WANT TO BE LIKE THAT? THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO END UP LIKE IF YOU FAIL SCHOOL."
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Hitman203]
#5553193 - 04/24/06 10:46 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I have a curfew when Im home and Im 21. its kind of unspoken at this time, but my dad will ask questions if I come in after 2. I always get a "late night, huh?"
Its alright, Its a good time to go home, I always get good sleep.
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Hitman203]
#5553800 - 04/25/06 02:06 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well, I hate to play devil's advocate, but it sounds like your friend might need some rules to keep him in line since he failed out of school once before. Apparently, when he's left up to his own devises, he doesn't make the wisest decision and thus, fails out of school as you said.
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: danamine]
#5553823 - 04/25/06 02:18 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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I can see living in the parent's house, and obiding by their rules.. but living in a dorm and still sucking on mommas tittays? Something wrong in that situation.
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Hitman203]
#5553923 - 04/25/06 03:07 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Whew! You've got the mentality of a 14 year old, it seems.
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Hitman203
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: peepeepottypants]
#5554164 - 04/25/06 07:12 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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peepeepottypants said: I have a curfew when Im home and Im 21. its kind of unspoken at this time, but my dad will ask questions if I come in after 2. I always get a "late night, huh?"
Its alright, Its a good time to go home, I always get good sleep.
hahaha dude. tell your dad that u make the rules.
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Hitman203]
#5554191 - 04/25/06 07:42 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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well I have, and its not like i get in trouble if I dont come in on time. he just gives me a little attitude. which is fine, because I'd probably still come in around that time if it was not my "curfew."
truthfully I do live by my own set of rules...even my dad knows that, but I respect what it means to be living in his house, and also what it means to have him paying the bills for my education and living situation now. I'm not going to be a bitch about it just stay out another hour to prove to my dad I can and will...he knows Ill do what I want.
like i said, its just a convenient curfew time, with or without it, I still will probably come in around the same time
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: peepeepottypants]
#5554432 - 04/25/06 10:08 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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He is dependant on his father, he hasn't worked a day in his life, and he is not going to school.
Ridiculous? The fact that his dad puts up with that shit yes. Ridiculous that he has to follow the rules his dad sets? No.
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Innominate]
#5554454 - 04/25/06 10:17 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Innominate said: He is dependant on his father, he hasn't worked a day in his life, and he is not going to school.
Ridiculous? The fact that his dad puts up with that shit yes. Ridiculous that he has to follow the rules his dad sets? No.
well he does go to school. its just a community college.
His dad never let him work in HS and would just give him loads of money and told my friend to do well in school. He did really well and got accepted to one of the best schools in the country on a almost full ride scholarship.
But he wasnt really that smart and failed out. now hes going to a community college and taking 12 credits and if he gets a 3.0 gpa he gets back to the school he was at with his scholarship back.
So it is kind of his Dads fault imo. If your not like a natural genuis or spending all your time studying you shouldnt go to the school this kid did.
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Hitman203]
#5554503 - 04/25/06 10:35 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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My girlfriend. She doesn't have a curfue perse - She asks her mom if it's ok too stay out late and she will bitch if she's home tooo late.
But she does live with her parents and they are not cooool by any means at all.
Shes's 18 and goes to a university. She is just whipped. I'm used to it
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: TheDudeAbides]
#5554562 - 04/25/06 10:51 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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If you live under your parent's roof, they make the rules.
How did your friend get into "one of the best school's in the country" if he wasn't smart?
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: badchad]
#5554573 - 04/25/06 10:56 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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badchad said: If you live under your parent's roof, they make the rules.
How did your friend get into "one of the best school's in the country" if he wasn't smart?
IDK good grades in HS. Hes not stupid but when you are lazy and not extremely smart the best thing to do is go to a pretty good school thats easy. its what i did
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Brugman]
#5554636 - 04/25/06 11:23 AM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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Brugman said: Whew! You've got the mentality of a 14 year old, it seems.
Looks like it.
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Hitman203 said:
So it is kind of his Dads fault imo.
Competence goes further than smarts.
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Re: My buddies In college and has a midnight curfew... [Re: Cowgold]
#5554989 - 04/25/06 01:52 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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You mean his dad makes him or the school makes him?
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