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InvisibleChikitta
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Just finished with my girlfriend...
    #5182458 - 01/15/06 04:14 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Over Christmas my girlfriend mentioned something about meeting this other guy on a skiing trip she went on. I'm not sure what they got up to, but I told her I wasn't happy about it.

She asked if she could "have a break" from being with me so she could see this other guy for a while and see how it worked out. I told her I wasn't having it - she either wanted to stay with me, or she didn't. I wasn't about to hang around like a sucker (while she started dating this other guy) in the hope that it wouldn't work out between them and she'd come back to me.

She seemed really shocked that I wouldn't let her bone some other guy for a few weeks to see who she prefered... as if it was normal for people who have been together for years to do something like that.

Eventually she decided she wanted to stay with me. The last week of the Christmas holiday was really awesome - we spent every day together (we're 4 hours apart studying at different places, so I rarely get to spend more than a few days at a time with her) - it was the happiest I've been in a while. We started making plans for the year ahead... we were gonna go to thailand this summer to celebrate 5 years together.

Then she calls me last night and I knew she was gonna finish it. We haven't spoken for 5 days and she wasn't returning my calls or any of my messages so I expected something was gonna happen.

It's really sad because she was like my best friend as well as my girlfriend. I don't think I'll be able to handle speaking to her any more knowing she's getting porked by some other guy.

I can't beleive after 4 and a half years together she dumps me for some dude at university she's only known for a few weeks - I just feel totally gutted and betrayed.

I'm not sure how I'm supposed to be feeling now... part of me wants to start screaming at her for putting me through this, but I doubt that'd do any good. Part of me wants to call her and start grovelling for a second chance. Part of me wants to get the next train to Portsmouth and beat the crap out of this new guy.

Not much point to this post really - just needed to vent.

Great start to the new year  :sad:

Edited by Chikitta (01/15/06 04:16 AM)

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182463 - 01/15/06 04:17 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Hey man it happens to teh best of us. She wasn't for you. You'll find someone better suited for you. I know it doesn't seem like it right now but you will. Besides it better you find out now that after a marriage including kids and shit. Also keep your head up man Karma will come back to her.

Edited by Terrapin77 (01/15/06 04:19 AM)

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182466 - 01/15/06 04:19 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

You did the right thing--if someone wants to be shitty to you, leave it.  You'll be fine.  And, in the end, you won't be forcing something that wasn't working.  :wink:

YOU HAVE GOT TO BUCK UP!  YOU CAN'T DRAG THIS NEGATIVE ENERGY INTO THE TOURNAMENT.


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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182471 - 01/15/06 04:23 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Women who act like that are generally only concerned with doing what they want. And, oddly enough, it seems that they're drawn to want to do things that are especially hurtful to others. It's some sick, perverse subconscious fixation upon doing shit that makes people suffer.

It's sickening. You're better off without her, from the description, she'd rather make 2 men unhappy than resist one single impulse to please her own whims.


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InvisibleIn(di)go
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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182473 - 01/15/06 04:24 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

shit man! i've been there... it was almost exactly 1 year ago... something about this time of the year, let me tell you...

keep your head up and look after yourself... go out with friends... you will feel like shit for a week but then it's going to start to get better... the good thing is she is far away, so that will make it easier to forget her since you won't have to see her or anything...

funny enough queen is playing right now ever here...

So you think you can stop me and spit in my eye?
So you think you can love me and leave me to die?
Oh baby... Can't do this to me baby!
Just gotta get out... I just gotta get right out of here.

feel better man... by the way you did the right thing telling her you wouldn't wait around on her ass like some fool...


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InvisibleChikitta
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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: In(di)go]
    #5182553 - 01/15/06 06:44 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

ahhh man just had her on MSN doing the whole "i still love you" thing.

She says she "just needs time" to think about what she wants.

This is really fucking me up - I could handle the rejection but this hope she's giving me is just harsh.

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182554 - 01/15/06 06:48 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Dude she just gave you a free pass to screw around behind her back. When you finally get caught, just go "remember that time?"

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InvisibleChikitta
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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: djfrog]
    #5182557 - 01/15/06 06:52 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

yeah that's a good point actually... I'm 20 years old and at university surrounded by hot girls. Dunno why I'm complaining so much :laugh:

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182560 - 01/15/06 06:58 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Chikitta said:
This is really fucking me up - I could handle the rejection but this hope she's giving me is just harsh.




yes indeed... that hope is like poison...


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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182565 - 01/15/06 07:01 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Chikitta said:
ahhh man just had her on MSN doing the whole "i still love you" thing.

She says she "just needs time" to think about what she wants.

This is really fucking me up - I could handle the rejection but this hope she's giving me is just harsh.




What she means is she needs time to have you as a safety net while she tests the waters to see if she can find someone else who will put up with her. She wants to sleep around but still have you to go back to in case she's displeased with the results.

Chances are she thinks nothing of you or any other human other than herself, and that she'd fuck you over at the drop of a hat if it meant pleasing herself. This kind of thing is indicative of a "how can I manipulate others to gain pleasure for myself?" school of thought. It's poison, it turns women into horrid parisites if left unchecked.


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InvisibleChikitta
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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Konnrade]
    #5182568 - 01/15/06 07:04 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Konnrade said:
Quote:

Chikitta said:
ahhh man just had her on MSN doing the whole "i still love you" thing.

She says she "just needs time" to think about what she wants.

This is really fucking me up - I could handle the rejection but this hope she's giving me is just harsh.




What she means is she needs time to have you as a safety net while she tests the waters to see if she can find someone else who will put up with her. She wants to sleep around but still have you to go back to in case she's displeased with the results.




Yeah that's what I thought she meant.

The sad part is, I'd probably still take her back.

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InvisibleRandalFlagg
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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182570 - 01/15/06 07:09 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Chikitta said:
ahhh man just had her on MSN doing the whole "i still love you" thing.

She says she "just needs time" to think about what she wants.

This is really fucking me up - I could handle the rejection but this hope she's giving me is just harsh.




The following stuff might seem harsh, but it is as I see it:

She either:

A. ...is bored of you.

B. ...has found somebody better (for whatever reason) than you.

Both of those possibilities hurt. They are a blow to the ego. You probably feel as if you have been kicked in the gut right now.

She's doing her "I still love you stuff" either out of some guilt or to keep you around as a backup guy in case the new squeeze doesn't work out. Call her on this shit. I love calling people on stuff that I know is the truth and they won't admit it.

She made her choice. She is ready to throw away a long relationship for whatever reason. Obviously, she doesn't prize the relationship like you do. Therefore, you need to move on.

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Konnrade]
    #5182572 - 01/15/06 07:11 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Konnrade said:
Chances are she thinks nothing of you or any other human other than herself, and that she'd fuck you over at the drop of a hat if it meant pleasing herself. This kind of thing is indicative of a "how can I manipulate others to gain pleasure for myself?" school of thought. It's poison, it turns women into horrid parisites if left unchecked.




:thumbup:  You are dead on.

For the sake of equality (because feminists always are screaming about that  :lol:), we should admit that a lot of guys exhibit these behaviors as well.

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182576 - 01/15/06 07:13 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Dude, I'm feeling that post!

Happened to me last year - 7 year relationship, house and mortgage together, best friends and everything.  And it stil hurts, sometimes like hell, but it gets easier...

I have not found anyone else because for the first time in my life, I wanted to be alone for a while - I always jumped headlong into another relatonship from the last one, with no break in between...

But, it feels good. Sometimes I feel lonlely, but mostly I know I'm taking some time out, and when the time is right, it will happen...

You'll be ok in time!

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182580 - 01/15/06 07:16 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Chikitta said:
Yeah that's what I thought she meant.

The sad part is, I'd probably still take her back.




She will just string you along. I've seen it happen.

She will use you for whatever she can (occassional emotional support, a backup guy for male attention when no new squeezes are around, etc...). She will probably also get a thrill over having such sway and power over a person.

Drop the bitch faster than a Shroomerite dropping a hit of LSD. She will become indignant. She will try to keep you around to be her bitch. Let her be selfish and fickle, let her be used herself by men, and let her fuck her life up. People who are like this usually do fuck their lives up and I derive great pleasure in seeing it.

Harden your heart. This girl is not worth shit. Thank God that you found it out before you were married and had kids with her. Look at this as a blessing and move on with your life.

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182592 - 01/15/06 07:32 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Chikitta said:
ahhh man just had her on MSN doing the whole "i still love you" thing.

She says she "just needs time" to think about what she wants.

This is really fucking me up - I could handle the rejection but this hope she's giving me is just harsh.




My most recent ex still gets on aim and tells me she still loves me and would never cheat on me again and wants me soooooo badly. It really fucks with me sometimes but I try not to let it. Man I know where you are comming from.

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182636 - 01/15/06 08:12 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

!!drop that bitch!!


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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: eligal]
    #5182639 - 01/15/06 08:15 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

eligal said:
!!drop that bitch!!




And try not to give a damn if you break anything from the drop.

Empathy is a weakness. Empathy will make you hesitate just long enough for her to cut another incision from which to suck blood.


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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182709 - 01/15/06 08:56 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

...move on sir.
Dont even think about taking her back after that BS.


Definetley go out, and try to find someone better.

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Re: Just finished with my girlfriend... [Re: Chikitta]
    #5182762 - 01/15/06 09:19 AM (18 years, 2 months ago)

I agree with them and i really hope you can get thru with this and dump her ass

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