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sleepingbigguy
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Only for the girls
#4825646 - 10/19/05 03:24 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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So i'm like 6ft. 24yrs old I think decent looking, but only weigh like 140lbs. It is such a pain in the ass, i don't have the confidence to get a girlfriend n i've given up on thta i'll gain weight some day. How legit is my insecurities? girls would you date a 6 ft ethiopian if he was decent looking?
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Blu Spore
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yes lots of girls like stick thin guys. Once you do pack some lean muscle on your slim frame it will drive the girls nuts. I think think its a misconseption that most girls like guys built like arnold or the rock.
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Tien
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Shit, man...I'm not far behind, 5'11.5 and 135lbs what a scrawny fuck I am.
Pluto
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Veritas
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My response is probably biased, since almost all the men I have dated have been skinny, but I don't think your looks should hold you back.
If girls are hung up on finding a boyfriend who looks like a model, they are likely to be very shallow in other ways, too. Better to weed those chicks out in the first place! In that way, your physique might actually be helpful in getting together with less-shallow girls.
Seriously, though, work on inner qualities and your ability to express warmth and interest. Those treasures last long after even the "perfect" body has been transformed by old age.
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Tien
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Re: Only for the girls [Re: Blu Spore]
#4825672 - 10/19/05 03:30 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
JimmytheWorm said: yes lots of girls like stick thin guys. Once you do pack some lean muscle on your slim frame it will drive the girls nuts. I think think its a misconseption that most girls like guys built like arnold or the rock.
I've met a number of girls who think built guys are fuckin nasty.
Pluto
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Triad
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Re: Only for the girls [Re: Tien]
#4825753 - 10/19/05 03:44 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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sleepingbigguy
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Re: Only for the girls [Re: Triad]
#4825768 - 10/19/05 03:46 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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Triad-
done lots of reading, but no growing, it's not impossible but very hard when you have a high metabolism
Edited by sleepingbigguy (10/19/05 03:48 PM)
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Tien
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Quote:
sleepingbigguy said: Triad-
done lots of reading, but no growing, it's not impossible but very hard when you have a high metabolism
It's a bitch..you have to spend waay too much money on food. Especially if you want to keep up between meals.
Pluto
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WeAreAllOne
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i felt obligated to post here seeing as i am 6 feet tall and 140 pounds as well.
must be us skinny guys that lack confidence because i've got somewhere between none and nil.
it might be a misconception, but i feel people have a natural tendency to isolate guys that wear dark clothing, listen to "scary" music (which, in my opinion, have some of the most touching and heartfelt lyrics out of any genre) and have long hair.
i feel there's someone out there waiting for each one of us. perhaps we're even exactly what they're looking for.
keep your head up.
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Penguarky Tunguin
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I dont feel I'm isolated at all. I wear dark clothing, listen to "scary" music and proudly show off the fact that I do smoke weed and that I trip. I don't give two shits about what anybody thinks about anything, unless I decide to do so.
To the original poster, put on a few pounds of muscle and quit your bitching. Be glad you're 140lbs and not 340. Be glad you're not 4 foot seven. You have to be happy with yourself, before you expect to make anyone else happy. Who cares what women think? Do what you will and they'll be coming.
Like Veritas said, if a girl is only going to get to know or date a guy just cuz he matches her physical ideal, probably don't want to be with that girl for the long haul anyway.
What are you looking for? Extended one night stands, friends with benefits, or a serious relationship?
You've got to put in the work to get the reward.
*I don't want to come off as harsh, but I just got done with a relationship that opened my eyes to a lot of things. Nothing but love for everyone here.
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leery11
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being skinny is always sexier than having a beer belly, even when you don't ever drink beer, ever.
well I don't know, maybe some people find small bellies sexy. I hope so. I'm only 165 at roughly 6ft but like most of my body fat is in my gut/assal region... my arms are skinny as fuck.
if I were a girl I'd probably go after someone matching your description... as long as you aren't Trevor Reznik skinny....
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Edited by leery11 (10/19/05 05:50 PM)
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LiquidSmoke
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it simply has to do with security and protection.
girls want a guy who they feel safe walking home with at night. not someone who can't do a pushup.
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Veritas
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If I want a bodyguard, I'll hire one, not date one.
If I want a watchdog, I'll adopt & train one.
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HeavyToilet
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Re: Only for the girls [Re: Veritas]
#4826696 - 10/19/05 07:31 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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You just don't realize you want a big, muscular man to protect you.
It's only natural.
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HB
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Re: Only for the girls [Re: Veritas]
#4826707 - 10/19/05 07:33 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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im working on getting to 125 lbs finally, having been 115 or under for most of my existence, so nobody should be upset about being skinny here
almost everyday i get the 'compliment' from girls that they wish they had my body ... it's no so flattering when you're male, however .. lol
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Veritas
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Oh, you must be right. I am just too stupid and girlish to realize that what I really want is a big, strong man.
Gimme a break!
I'm a 33 year old single working mother, I manage my own house, pay my own bills, and have relationships for emotional connection and pleasure, not for protection.
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HeavyToilet
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Re: Only for the girls [Re: Veritas]
#4826998 - 10/19/05 08:54 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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Females often don't know what they want.
You seem to be suffering from hysteria.
Nah I'm just playing with you.
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Veritas
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It's OK, I know it's difficult for males to remember to think with the big head.
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Rustifer
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Re: Only for the girls [Re: dr_gonz]
#4828150 - 10/20/05 01:46 AM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm 6 foot and 120 pounds and I get bitches.
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