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chaospilot
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damn them
#4606109 - 08/31/05 09:57 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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So i was talking to this girl today. She was very attractive and she came up and started talking to me (was listing to my cd player). She was with her friend, we talked for a while, then he friend left, but she stayed.
We talked for about an hour until 3 guys i have just met ( met them yesterday) come up. One of them starts to talk to me, the other just sits there and then i notice the third sits between me and this girl, and starts to talk to her. I notice instantly what they are doing. The guy who is talking to me is very loud and stupid, and becomes louder when ever i look over at his third friend. I notice that the girl isn't very interested in what he has to say, and she looks and me an shrugs. I then move around to the other side of her, and we continue on our conversation ignoring the other boys.
all i could think of during this time was "damn those shitheads".
Anyway i found out that this girl and I have alot in common, and i am very interested in talking to her tomorrow. I have always not been smooth when talking to girls. Normal conversations seem to be : Her: Hi, how are you doing? Me: Uh.... uhh.....uhh..........hI? Her: *walks away*
but for some reason i can talk to her normally. Which is why i am pretty mad that those ass holes came in like they did.
anyhow, enough with my story (needed to vent my anger _. Anyone else have any stories similar to what i experienced? I'm sure there are plenty more like this.
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Infrared
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man.. you should told them off... be like ' you guys fuckin suck, go away.. we dont like you'... then if they dont leave.. you just take the girls hand and leave... dont let the girl think your weak and wont stand up for yourself around a bunch of annoying dicks
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Vvellum
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damn those cockblocks
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chaospilot
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Re: damn them [Re: Infrared]
#4606154 - 08/31/05 10:04 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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yeah, thats the thing tho. I normaly would of told them off, yelled at them or at least have done something, but the only reason i didnt was i thought "well, i dont want to be an ass in front of her". I wasnt sure whether she would be cool with it or if it would make me seem like an ass.
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Infrared
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well if she didnt look like she was having fun when those dudes came.. i woulda just asked her if she wanted to go do something else
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mantis
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She probably would've liked it, as long as you were cool about it. You could've just straight-up told them, "We're having a conversation here, do you mind?" or something like that.
You don't need to get all macho, you could end up looking like an emotional twat. You have to be assertive, not aggresive.
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Vvellum
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best to keep your cool. but if they were more aggressive and dicklike you should have stepped up & called them out. girls dont like nice wimpy guys. they like guys who have spines.
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chaospilot
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Re: damn them [Re: Infrared]
#4606174 - 08/31/05 10:07 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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yeah i guess i should of just done that.
oh well, live and learn, live and learn.
but im still pissed at them for being fuck heads
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Vvellum
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Re: damn them [Re: mantis]
#4606180 - 08/31/05 10:08 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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assertiveness is the key to women. you're right.
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thegatewaydrug
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Re: damn them [Re: Infrared]
#4606195 - 08/31/05 10:11 PM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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if u dont take action against assholes then girls will run off to them and leave u in the dust. well as long as u learned then good deal, just dont let assholes run all over u. girls dont like nice guys
my bad that was directed toward pilot
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chaospilot
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yeah, usualy i dont let people walk over me, but like i said before, i just didnt know if she thought that would make me an asshole or not, since the thought of saying "excuse me, cant you see we're having a conversation here?" never crossed my mind...
oh well, at least i learned (hopefuly) and it wont happen again...
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Vvellum
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be tough man. that should be your instinct. instinct!
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