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OldWoodSpecter
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"whores"
#4360934 - 07/01/05 06:59 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why do men often say to a woman that she is a "whore" in a way that might suggest that it is a bad thing, even thought a lot of men like the kind of women that they describe as a "whore"?
Isn't that contradicting?
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moog
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They say it to protect themselves, to protect the image of the nice man. It's the same way women say they want a "nice guy" but what they really want is a challenging, dominant, and sometimes dangerous man. You know, like a chick will call a guy an asshole in a derogatory sense, but women really do want guys who are assholes. Same deal.
I think it's a really stupid way of perpetuating gender myths.
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OldWoodSpecter
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Re: "whores" [Re: moog]
#4361013 - 07/01/05 07:37 PM (18 years, 8 months ago) |
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not really to protect themselfs (at least not consciously) because they often get angry and ofensive at them when they are not horny, but when they are, they are all: "yea baby, you know your stuff"
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Huehuecoyotl
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I like women who are modest and possess intelligence and class. Whores are too easy to come by.
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THE KRAT BARON
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Quote:
Huehuecoyotl said: I like women who are modest and possess intelligence and class. Whores are too easy to come by.
I like both for different reasons.
A girl that is intelligent and can act like a whore behind closed doors = my kind of chick.
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MarkostheGnostic
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We like their sexiness, their manner of dress and walk, but woe unto you if you become attached to a whore. They do not become attached to you. Whores do not evidence nornal interpersonal attachment patterns anyway. 85-90% of interviewed whores have been sexually assaulted in childhood, thereby disrupting normal abilities to trust and bond. So, personality disorders abound in the profession: Borderline, Schizoaffective, etc.
When a woman betrays our trust - cheats on us - we call them whore because they are behaving like whores: sex without emotional attachment - we have become attached to her (because we mistakenly believed she had equivalent feelings and values, including fidelity). A real whore is more honest than a woman who cheats - one knows what one is getting and what one can expect.
I believe that the following article is about the first girl (E.K.) I ever fell in love with in 1975, and the first girl who ever broke my heart. http://www.netbroadcaster.com/events/newsxml/nb020102/nb020102_2_STAR.html
Edited by MarkostheGnostic (07/01/05 09:40 PM)
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Huehuecoyotl
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"A girl that is intelligent and can act like a whore behind closed doors = my kind of chick"
That is really lame. I prefer to have relationships on an adult level instead of on an adolescent one. Any adult should understand about conducting a sexual relationship...it is very easy to understand.
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Icelander
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Any adult shoud understand about conducting a sexual relationship? Ha! Maybe they could if our society and educational system and parents, taught children about sex. Maybe then. But that is a minority. ________________________________________________
"A girl that is intelligent and can act like a whore behind closed doors = my kind of chick" _______________________________________________
As far as this goes^^^ . Whatever floats your boat between two concenting adults, sounds fine. It's different strokes for different folks.
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god i miss colorado
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"god I miss Colorado."
Any particular reason?
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