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 TrippyHippie74
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 ouch 
#11798967 - 01/09/10 09:55 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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My boyfriend and I broke up tonight. We were dating for 2 years and 7 months. I'm pretty heart broken, but I guess it was for the best. The weird thing is he admitted it was his fault. He was not treating me the way he should be. It seemed like he never wanted to be around me. He always had something else to do and picked his friends over me constantly. It make me feel like I was inferior to him. It was honestly like mental abuse.
The sad thing is he never used to be like that. I think it may be because he has a ton of stress hanging over his head. It was so unfair that he took it out on me. All I ever did was try to make his stress temporarily go away. That's why I do not understand why he treated me like that. I thought I was helping him, but I guess I was wrong. He made me feel like I was a horrible girlfriend, but in reality it was him.
The whole thing really gets to me because we had a mental connection like I have never had before. We seriously thought on the same level. We agreed, on religion, politics and lifestyles. He was the first person that I ever had sex with, smoked weed, with, and tripped with. I wouldn't take any of it back for the world though. If it wasn't for him I would have never ever tried any drugs. He really did open me. I love myself so much more. I guess I can at least take that from the relationship.
What to do now that I am single? It's been a long time.
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Envix
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smack a hoe out this dimension
continue my ascension
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makaveli8x8
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where do you live, then ill be able to tell you what to do
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Coffee
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It's good that you are still being optimistic about the things that you've gained form the relationship. Breaking up is a hard thing to get over for anybody, but life is a battle to stay positive in any situation. Just remember that there will be a better day tomorrow, if you make it better for yourself. It sounds like you're a good person and probably deserve a better boyfriend anyway; just go find comfort in some friends and enjoy yourself while passing the time. It's sure to get better every day, positivity is the key! 
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dwtk
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 Re: ouch [Re: Envix]
#11798998 - 01/09/10 09:59 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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rebounds help
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makaveli8x8
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Re: ouch [Re: dwtk]
#11799007 - 01/09/10 10:01 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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yah it got chicago to the championship 6 times
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TrippyHippie74
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Quote:
makaveli8x8 said:
where do you live, then ill be able to tell you what to do
Ohio
I usually am pretty positive. I have things going for me that I can not lose over a guy. No one is worth me failing out of Nursing school. That is the most important thing to me right now. I know it might sound lame but it's the only thing I have going for me in this society.
I did call my best friend right after it and she dropped everything to come see me. We just talked and then walked around wal mart. She really did make me feel better.
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claraclairvoyant
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Re: ouch [Re: dwtk]
#11799020 - 01/09/10 10:03 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
dwtk said:
rebounds help
or they can leave you feeling even worse and missing your ex.
you'll get through it, just take this time to get to know yourself as an individual. i know that's hard to do when somebody has become such a big part of YOU and your life. try to be excited about this chance for new experiences and change. hang out with your girlfriends, it'll get better! just got to take it day by day. 
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 Prisoner#1
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Quote:
TrippyHippie74 said:
What to do now that I am single?
ME!
seriously... live a little, you're good to remember the high points of
the relationship, put the bad out of your mind, it's never worth remembering.
get out and have a little fun with your friends but dont try getting to
mixed up with anything for the time being, grow a little
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thePatient
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I'm sorry to hear that, Trippy. Was this something you both decided on, or were you tired of all his crap and let him know how you feel?
“We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.”
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donteatasians
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I think you should stay single and focus on the other aspects of your life. If something comes up, great, if not a break from relationships isn't going to hurt and can do a hell of a lot of good for someone who isn't sure of what to do when they're single.
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Istigkeit
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I am sorry for what happened. You are lucky to be have the perception to see what is happening and be able to appreciate what you have lost and look forward.
I know people will make a lot of sex jokes. 
You are a really wonderful person and people will always be there for you.
Also, to answer your question, "What to do now that I am single?".
ME! 
I live in Michigan... short drive 
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Prisoner#1
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Quote:
TrippyHippie74 said:
No one is worth me failing out of Nursing school. That is the most important thing to me right now. I know it might sound lame but it's the only thing I have going for me in this society.
far from it... education is a valuable commodity, your chosen field is in
high demand regardless of the economy and it will open up some great
avenues for you... I applaud you for the choice to help people
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simple fix, come to the North East Gathering in OHIO and meet the coolest people in the world! Are you sure it's even over for sure? Women tend to go back to your first loves again and again from what I've gathered. 
edit: Well that's not for quite a bit, in the meantime  for
Edited by Deekay (01/09/10 10:10 PM)
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Envix
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thanks, everyone in this thread. for copying my joke.
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smack a hoe out this dimension
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TrippyHippie74
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I really do plan of staying single. Its been almost 3 years. Actually like 4 because before him I dated a guy for a year then like 2 months after I was with this guy
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TrippyHippie74
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Re: ouch [Re: Deekay]
#11799065 - 01/09/10 10:09 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Deekay said:
simple fix, come to the North East Gathering in OHIO and meet the coolest people in the world!
I Honestly plan on coming. It is an hour away from me! I love nelson's ledges as well
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Istigkeit
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Also- I was saving this to put in my book. But, I think it might be helpful to you!
I came up with this, so spread the love.
"Life is just a cosmic joke, but it's better when you have someone to laugh with" 
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TrippyHippie74
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That makes me sad though, he was the one I did want to laugh with.
It is a really good quote though. Your writing a book! I think thats awesome!
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claraclairvoyant
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Re: ouch [Re: Deekay]
#11799143 - 01/09/10 10:22 PM (14 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Deekay said:
Are you sure it's even over for sure? Women tend to go back to your first loves again and again from what I've gathered.
Whatever you do, don't do THIS!! sounds like you're not going to.
it will only prolong the break up, causing more and more pain(unless it actually worked out the 2nd time). but people break up for a reason.
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