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Anonymous #1
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 Could you live a happy life with no sex life? 
#9996376 - 03/18/09 06:49 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Not complaining here, I know I can get into the sex game when I choose to or get the motivation to.
I wanna ask this question. Is your sex life a top priority to you? Do you feel depressed without getting laid often? Can you be happy for long periods of time with no female or if you a chick/ male contact? (or lesbo or gay or hetro or wtvr the fuck else)
I was thinking of putting this in Philosiphy section, but anon means you can be completely open.
Let's hear it local citizens of mushroom message board.
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Anonymous #2
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 Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996408 - 03/18/09 06:55 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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huge penis
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996428 - 03/18/09 06:58 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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OP is a virgin, and no.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#9996448 - 03/18/09 07:01 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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I am not a virgin !!  I've had sex, just my sex life is lacking these days  but I turn 21 soon, which means clubs and bars are an option
I didn't mean for your whole life- I am talking more about long periods of time without sex..................... it kinda sucks, I gotta start pulling some moves, but I honestly don't like the party people in my area, makes me feel stupid to hang around that type of crowd  , I know that sounds elitist, but the last chick I had sex with, was a deep thinker and hot  I will be out of this town soon enough I hope!!
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996457 - 03/18/09 07:04 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm pretty much asexual these days and it doesn't bother me at all.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#9996471 - 03/18/09 07:07 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #4 said:
I'm pretty much asexual these days and it doesn't bother me at all.
That's what I wanted to hear  I really have very minimal sex options these days, and I choose not to play the 'stupid lets have sex' game. I enjoy sex that's got some meaning behind it  maybe that idea doesn't make sense to some people? admittingly though if there were a party anytime soon I would prob look for a good fuck even it is one off, it is hard to go so long
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996591 - 03/18/09 07:33 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Honestly, I've been on a hardcore search for a girl.
I've tried to say fuck it but my brain won't let me. Its like this deep desire I have.
I'm not talking like random hook up girl.
I want just one girl that I can fuck her brains out whenever, where ever I want.
I want to do all kinds of kinky shit to a girl I'm totally in love with.
There, I said it. 
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#9996650 - 03/18/09 07:45 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #5 said:
Honestly, I've been on a hardcore search for a girl.
I've tried to say fuck it but my brain won't let me. Its like this deep desire I have.
I'm not talking like random hook up girl.
I want just one girl that I can fuck her brains out whenever, where ever I want.
I want to do all kinds of kinky shit to a girl I'm totally in love with.
There, I said it.
I have been feeling like that this whole year, it kinda sucks, but that day will come I hope. It does make me mopey some times and anti social but for the time being I choose to  and try to remain happy
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996662 - 03/18/09 07:47 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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I know I can get into the sex game when I choose to or get the motivation to.
Its hard to be sure about that without trying. Has a lot to do with luck.
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Do you feel depressed without getting laid often? Can you be happy for long periods of time with no female or if you a chick/ male contact?
That is a common mental problem, most people have it at some time. It usually comes and goes.
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but I turn 21 soon, which means clubs and bars are an option
You have a lot to learn about bars and clubs. They really suck and they are awful places to meet quality women. I am not saying it doesn't happen, just that the odds are stacked against you in so many ways.
A pot cafe would be a whole lot better environment for that sort of thing, but most places don't have them yet.
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I know that sounds elitist, but the last chick I had sex with, was a deep thinker and hot
You should call her back. There are almost none of those in the "real world" (after college, working 9 to 5, you'll never meet those types, even in bars).
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I'm pretty much asexual these days and it doesn't bother me at all.
Thats a healthy way to look at it. It takes a very strong person to not get laid and not get depressed about it though. Most people are not that strong so instead they get "desperate". Chicks can smell desperate people from a mile away and they won't speak with them, instead they will usually prefer to steal someones boyfriend or go for the same guy that all their friends are hitting on.
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Honestly, I've been on a hardcore search for a girl.
I've tried to say fuck it but my brain won't let me. Its like this deep desire I have.
Yes, the DNA surely wants to reproduce. It has lots of tricks for getting you to do that, even if you don't like the sound of screaming babies. Depression is one of its most persuasive tricks.
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I'm not talking like random hook up girl.
I want just one girl that I can fuck her brains out whenever, where ever I want.
In my experience those come along completely randomly. You'll meet three in a day and then no more for three years.
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I want to do all kinds of kinky shit to a girl I'm totally in love with.
Oh you want to love her too? Thats a tall order, you better date around quite a bit before you allow yourself to be sucked into a "relationship", otherwise you'll never date nearly enough wimmins to find someone that you can really fall in love with.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996690 - 03/18/09 07:51 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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I used to spend huge amounts of energy thinking about and trying to get a girl. Then when I did the sex was never worth it because I would have to put up with dumb girly drama all the time (haven't been with one chick who isn't like that).
These days I don't get laid and honestly it doesn't bother me at all, I don't really think about ever either. Beating off ftw.
So yea, it's possible to be content without getting laid.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#9996702 - 03/18/09 07:54 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #6 said:
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I know that sounds elitist, but the last chick I had sex with, was a deep thinker and hot
You should call her back. There are almost none of those in the "real world" (after college, working 9 to 5, you'll never meet those types, even in bars).
damn dude. that quote will haunt me forever. Here's the story with her: I was in israel two and a half years ago, and I met her at a bar with some of her friends and my friends through me in to chat with her because she mentioned the artist Elliott Smith, basically we ended up being friends for 3 days and had sex b4 i left because I had to head back home to NY for the end of the year. I went back to israel this year and planned on meeting her, but for wtvr reasons- it didn't end up working out because we were never in the same town on the same night, but the thing is I haven't contacted her since, it might be crazy to call her back, although I have been debating sending an e-mail for the past few months, and I am honestly unsure. But she was a rare type of person it was cool cause we got along well, she didn't care that I would just be quiet and whatever. I enjoyed smoking hash around her................ but I don't know......... might've fucked that one up.............. I have never met a girl before that was so chill and listened to Radiohead and shit like that   and I had a period a while back where every time I would get high, my thoughts would just start thinking about her and kept on confusing me.
Honestly don't know what to do or think about the situation?
*This edible is starting to kick in*
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996706 - 03/18/09 07:55 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#9996715 - 03/18/09 07:57 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #7 said:
get in contact :] or ul never know
what would be appropriate to say?  she's also all the way in israel 
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996758 - 03/18/09 08:07 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #7 said:
get in contact :] or ul never know
what would be appropriate to say? she's also all the way in israel
Hi.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#9996768 - 03/18/09 08:11 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Meh, its worth it if you don't let drama get to you. Thats their problem. I'm in a relationship for almost 2 years now, and i tell you what, the drama got old within the first 2 months, however the sex beat jacking off any day and the love is good. I'm happier with her than i was without.
With conflict i've found it best to stand back and let them have at it, suppress your frustration, but be supportive and wait till it cools down and they'll often apoligise for being a bitch. Not all are capable of apoligies though.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #9]
#9996770 - 03/18/09 08:11 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #9 said:
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Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #7 said:
get in contact :] or ul never know
what would be appropriate to say? she's also all the way in israel
Hi.
I hear that. you think a hey, what is up? is good enough? I think that may be a good id ea
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996811 - 03/18/09 08:19 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #11
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#9996823 - 03/18/09 08:23 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sure!
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Anonymous #12
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#9996825 - 03/18/09 08:23 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yes. I am a virgin. I could get laid if I really wanted, but what's the point of senseless, emotionless sex? I live a perfectly happy life. Sure, it causes me a certain amount of existential angst, but so what? Better that than the alternative.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#9996844 - 03/18/09 08:26 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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ban anon 11, derailing the thread
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #12]
#9996850 - 03/18/09 08:27 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#9996911 - 03/18/09 08:39 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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sent her an e-mail. I have no idea what her reaction will be haha
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Anonymous #13
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9996988 - 03/18/09 08:54 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sex is fun and all.
I was never depressed or lonely or angry or whatever when I wasn't getting laid.
I prefer relationships - they are far better in the end - and emotionally fulfilling.
But, I will agree that wanting to get your dick wet on a Friday night and failing is the fucking suck! 
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #13]
#9997066 - 03/18/09 09:08 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #14
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9997363 - 03/18/09 09:55 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anon 12, better to be a Virgin than lose it and then not get anything for years... You dont know what your missing, and that's a good thing.
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Anonymous #15
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9997382 - 03/18/09 09:58 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Probably a case of what you don't know can't hurt you, but I've managed so far.
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Anonymous #16
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #15]
#9997649 - 03/18/09 10:44 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sex is great! It can be amazing, warm, squishy, fuzzy, delicious.
It can also be empty, sad, ugly, and an overall embarrassment for the soul.
I like sex. I get it here and there. I also don't need it, and since I don't have a partner, it matters to me not if I have sex or not. It's like chocolate. It sure can be hella sweet, but it also can be bitter like dark chocolate. You favor one over the other. You don't necessarily want one of them, and you sure as hell don't fucking need the other.
Edited by Anonymous (03/18/09 10:47 PM)
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Anonymous #12
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#9997793 - 03/18/09 11:08 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #7 said:
how old are u 12?
19.
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Anonymous #17
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #12]
#9997803 - 03/18/09 11:10 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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idk...before i lost my virginity, i'd probably say yes. these days....well, let's just say it's been a while, and i'm expecting to get laid this weekend, and i can't fuckin wait.
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Anonymous #18
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #16]
#9997827 - 03/18/09 11:14 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #16 said:
Sex is great! It can be amazing, warm, squishy, fuzzy, delicious.
It can also be empty, sad, ugly, and an overall embarrassment for the soul.
I like sex. I get it here and there. I also don't need it, and since I don't have a partner, it matters to me not if I have sex or not. It's like chocolate. It sure can be hella sweet, but it also can be bitter like dark chocolate. You favor one over the other. You don't necessarily want one of them, and you sure as hell don't fucking need the other.
nicely put!
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #18]
#9998854 - 03/19/09 02:42 AM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm a closet nymphomaniac...or since that really only applies to females, whatever the male equivalent is.
If I could find a girl whos down, I would have sex like 10 times a day.
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Anonymous #13
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#9999227 - 03/19/09 05:22 AM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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I assure you - the day will come. You will score. You'll get a phone call from another girl, and you will score again. All the while, it's even hotter because she's sucking your dick with another girl's pussy juice all over it.
Then you go over your girlfriend's house and it's all  from there.
Patience.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #13]
#9999711 - 03/19/09 11:17 AM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Good things come to those who wait!
     
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#9999788 - 03/19/09 11:42 AM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #19
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Re: Could you live a happy life with no sex life? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9999884 - 03/19/09 12:05 PM (4 years, 2 months ago) |
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yes, but it's not as much fun
not to mention my abs look better when i'm getting it regularly
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