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Anonymous #11 said:
the only thing to keep in mind here is that psychedelics are a *little* thing that make a big difference (in this instance anyway)



consider this:

• 'Naughty-n-Nice' is a sweet little innocent looking girl who likes it rough in bed
  
• she has a tendency of attracting guys who are into sweet little innocent girls
  
• and they have a tendency to get freaked out when she asks to be tied up
  
• so little miss Naught-n-Nice has a tendency to always be alone
  

now why is this you ask?...simple - because she doesn't warn people ahead of time about her little fetish

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That's quite the dumb post.

I agree that some people only judge other people by the appearance and they don't even have a clue on how to pay attention to more obscure details, but, in my opinion, these people don't even deserve one's attention. Now, from what I'm aware, the OP seems to want someone who's more tuned into the finer aspects of communication, and, I think, would want to lose her time with people that get freaked out by the fact that she uses psychedelics but she doesn't yell out loud that she does.

Also, why should she "warn" anyone about this? Such a thing can be quite dangerous and threatening to her personal safety, I personally don't want anyone to know (except my very few close ones) that I use drugs, or any other detail about myself, and those who know about my drug use have found out after I became convinced that they deserve my trust.

So yeah, this post and the conclusions you drew = fail.

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Anonymous #4 said:
I disagree.  If you have a "dealbreaker" why not get it out in the open ASAP?  You can do it in a round about way without announcing your beliefs to the world.

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Anonymous #11 said:
the only thing to keep in mind here is that psychedelics are a *little* thing that make a big difference (in this instance anyway)



consider this:

• 'Naughty-n-Nice' is a sweet little innocent looking girl who likes it rough in bed
  
• she has a tendency of attracting guys who are into sweet little innocent girls
  
• and they have a tendency to get freaked out when she asks to be tied up
  
• so little miss Naught-n-Nice has a tendency to always be alone
  

now why is this you ask?...simple - because she doesn't warn people ahead of time about her little fetish

this is a little thing that makes a big difference

it's not a real huge part about the type of person she is, and she has no problem being 'normal' most of the time...but...every once in a while she likes to indulge, and unless she's with someone who is comfortable with the occasional indulgence of hers - they're likely going to be weirded out by it (much like how people are often times weirded out by your occasional use of psychedelics) and the only way to get around that is to be upfront and honest about it right from the get-go

much like little miss Naughty-n-Nice here (who, by the way, starting looking for potential partners in places that were opened to these types of fetishes...and consequently - found exactly the kind of guy she was always hoping for) if you begin your search by automatically surpassing anyone who *might* have a 'problem' with your sporadic mushroom use (by beginning your search on a website specifically for these things, par exampla) then you're going to know for a fact that the one thing that's always seemed to be your achillies heel in the past most certainly won't be your downfall this time

and it really does come down to exactly that in the end 

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Anonymous #13 said:
So yeah, this post and the conclusions you drew = fail.

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goto a website that revolves around psychedelics specifically, and start searching there

this will bypass Both the possibilities of:
A) having them turn away from her because of her psychedelic use
(again - because these people are in a place specifically for psychedelics)
...and...
B) the *fear* of drawing attention to herself by admitting to her 'drug' use
(ALSO because this is a 'drug' site)

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now stop
take a breath
and think about what I just said:

searching for a potential significant other at a place specifically for psychedelics -
NEGATES the chance of people looking down on her for taking psychedelics herself





why is that so hard for you to understand 

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Anonymous #11 said:
the only thing to keep in mind here is that psychedelics are a *little* thing that make a big difference (in this instance anyway)



consider this:

• 'Naughty-n-Nice' is a sweet little innocent looking girl who likes it rough in bed
  
• she has a tendency of attracting guys who are into sweet little innocent girls
  
• and they have a tendency to get freaked out when she asks to be tied up
  
• so little miss Naught-n-Nice has a tendency to always be alone
  

now why is this you ask?...simple - because she doesn't warn people ahead of time about her little fetish

this is a little thing that makes a big difference

it's not a real huge part about the type of person she is, and she has no problem being 'normal' most of the time...but...every once in a while she likes to indulge, and unless she's with someone who is comfortable with the occasional indulgence of hers - they're likely going to be weirded out by it (much like how people are often times weirded out by your occasional use of psychedelics) and the only way to get around that is to be upfront and honest about it right from the get-go

much like little miss Naughty-n-Nice here (who, by the way, starting looking for potential partners in places that were opened to these types of fetishes...and consequently - found exactly the kind of guy she was always hoping for) if you begin your search by automatically surpassing anyone who *might* have a 'problem' with your sporadic mushroom use (by beginning your search on a website specifically for these things, par exampla) then you're going to know for a fact that the one thing that's always seemed to be your achillies heel in the past most certainly won't be your downfall this time

and it really does come down to exactly that in the end 

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Anonymous #17 said:
or message TM

hes a 50 year old man with a harley and a dog who loves to trip on dem der shroomz.

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Anonymous #18 said:
Hello Anonymous #1,
    I have two simple suggestions. You could possibly move to the San Francisco area and search out festivals, Love Fest, and other potential public gatherings of open minded experience. Or: You could look into businesses that deal with sending customers to certain tribal locations in order to experience psychedelics in a spiritual, open minded environment. I once read of a couple who met on a trip to South America to experience Ayahuasca and apparently they've been together for somewhere between 40-50 years of marriage. In any case, best of luck in finding that special guy that'll help you feel young and wild again!

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