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daimyo
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: unbeliever]
#5543536 - 04/22/06 12:11 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Cheating entails dishonesty only once you've been asked about it and deny.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
#5543546 - 04/22/06 12:15 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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daimyo said: Cheating entails dishonesty only once you've been asked about it and deny.
Cheating is also when the other person expects commitment...and you don't give it.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
#5543555 - 04/22/06 12:20 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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Cheating is funny. The other person loves it when you cheat deep down inside..
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Octavius]
#5543559 - 04/22/06 12:21 PM (7 years, 1 month ago) |
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getting bogged down with relationship problems is a great way to waste years off of your life. If you know you're not ready to get married and have kids, you shouldnt allow yourself to get in a girlfriend/boyfriend situation. Seriously, you'd probably be better off with finding a nice hooker(and spend less money too) or have one night stands (if you have enough game)Just watch out for STDs. STDs are like instant sexual karma.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
#5543565 - 04/22/06 12:22 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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dating someone implies that it's an exclusive relationship, unless you actually talk about it with the person and agree to keep it open. the dishonesty begins as soon as you're with another person, continues when you don't tell them, and truly becomes a serious problem when you deny it when confronted.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Microcosmatrix]
#5543572 - 04/22/06 12:23 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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It promotes growth. Forces the other person to figure out what they need to fix to be better.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5543573 - 04/22/06 12:24 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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If I make a commitment to a woman then that's it...I commit. Yes, of course I am going to see hot women in my daily life and I'm going to check them out. Hell, I might even flirt with them.
That's it right there. It's easier to get laid once you're in a relationship because you're not serious about really following through or worried about the consequences of flirting, you're just having fun with it, because in the end you've got a girl at home.
I've never cheated in my adult life but I swear when I'm with a girl I get more oppurtunities for strange than I ever do while single.
And about head games... They are unavoidable. People play them unknowingly all the time. If you catch on to them and figure out how they are played, then it's up to that individual to decide what they will do with what they learned. You have to know what the games are to avoid them.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
#5543586 - 04/22/06 12:28 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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Quote:
daimyo said: It promotes growth. Forces the other person to figure out what they need to fix to be better.
i can't wait to find out how you'd discipline children.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
#5543591 - 04/22/06 12:29 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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No children for me, but if I were to raise them it would be in military school.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cowgold]
#5543629 - 04/22/06 12:51 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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another thing, never let a gurl know youve completely fallen for her. gurls love the game, once you are no longer a challenge, she will find someone else.
with that being said, never get lazy with your relationship. there are a million guys out there after your gurl who would fuck her in a heartbeat, regardless if she has a boy or not. keep your relationship just as alive as the day you hit it off.
also, women get lazy with their relationship too. more often then not, they tend to get unhealthy when they fall in love. they gain weight, dont care to 'doll up', dont care for social functions, & would rather spend time with you alone at home doing nothing. women, this WILL drive a man insane & make him more prone to cheating.
now with all that being said, im NOT saying to be a sneak, paranoid/controlling lover or a player. people, regardless of sex will cheat if they want to cheat, no matter what there partner says.
what i AM trying to say is, know that your partner is with you & only you for a reason. if you give your partner reasons to cheat, you will be cheated on.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: 40oz]
#5543637 - 04/22/06 12:54 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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I've never cheated on someone in my life. Though I'm sure I've been cheated on. :|
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: 40oz]
#5543640 - 04/22/06 12:55 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Cryogenicz]
#5543650 - 04/22/06 12:59 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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Another one of the bad aspects of cheating is the STD's. Not only do you have potential emotional issues, maybe a nasty break up because your s/o cheated on you.. but as a consolation prize you might wind up with herpes or aids or whatever. Not cool.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: unbeliever]
#5543665 - 04/22/06 01:05 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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females do it more often i would reckon.
and with guys its more just giving into temptation with girls its more sinister...
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: Hitman203]
#5543729 - 04/22/06 01:27 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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Girls definitely cheat more than men.
In my case, I've been really tempted to cheat. But that's because of the problems my woman brings into the relationship. I've always sworn off cheating, but I'm thinking that it's not even so bad. I would cheat with a very hot girl in a heartbeat, so long as it didn't break my gf's heart. It'd make her feel like dogshit, so I wouldn't.... if that changed though, I'd let loose and hump anything with a nice ass and tits.
I've always been the good guy, the gentleman.... but I think that with the rise in testosterone, chicks generally getting hotter, and my social skills getting increasingly better I sometimes want to be the jackass who fucks all the fine girls. My girlfriend's beautiful imo, but there's a few girls at work and around town that always give me the look. It's a 110% guarantee that I can woo them over and score on the first date, then go back for more any time I'd like. I see it in their eyes. But ahh well, I'm a nice guy. No cheating for me, even though my woman's pissed at me right now lol
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: browndustin]
#5543749 - 04/22/06 01:32 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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I couldn't imagine being tied down to just one girl for the early years. There's so many fine bitches to lay it to, why have just one? Makes no sense.
Get out there and get in them other guts. Knowing you could have got with those girls but didn't will be lame when you're older.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: browndustin]
#5543757 - 04/22/06 01:32 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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Go sleep with her best friend.
She'll love that!
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: daimyo]
#5543858 - 04/22/06 01:46 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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I know dude, it's such a dilemma. There's a girl at work that I'm in lust with, and some chicks at the gym that I always catch looking at me. I'll stare them up and down and they'll just blush.. fuuuuuuuuuck I could almost spring one right there and jump them in public. It would be so hot that no one would really mind us rallying right there.
Hella, I want to sleep with her best friend. Her body's so tight!! They highschool my gf went to had a lot of hot girls a few years back. Oh my. But.... I'm with my gf so I guess I have to live with it. She's worth it.... but just by a little bit dammit, if we break up I'm going absolutely wild. I think I'll just court girls and date them a few times, having endlessly wild sex until I find another clean, take home to mom but pound furiously kind of girl. Sounds like a good plan eh
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: browndustin]
#5543863 - 04/22/06 01:48 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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For every beautiful woman you see, there's a man that's tired of fucking her.
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Re: Cheating - why do men cheat on women? [Re: browndustin]
#5543877 - 04/22/06 01:52 PM (7 years, 30 days ago) |
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Hahahaha, so true.
Woman taunt me. My ass almost wants to get dumped some times.
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