|
Anonymous #1
|
 Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice 
#16539426 - 07/16/12 03:16 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
I've been with my girl for a bit over a year now. We are pretty comfortable with each other. She's been pretty 'vanilla' so to speak in her sex life and I have had numerous, albeit pretty crappy experiences when trying to explore my kinks. I find that I am quite turned on by butt play, and I have an unhealthy obsession with anal sex (giving)
She has been great and really open to experimenting. The first time we tried it it really hurt her and we stopped. I have done plenty of reading and don't worry have done the 'never enough lube/try slowly stretching with fingers over time' etc.
A few times while going down on her I've put in a finger into her butt, a couple of times she has gotten off on it (pretty intensely) although one of those times we were quite drunk. Another time we tried with the finger and she said it hurt too much. Interestingly, whilst having sex there is no problem in me putting my finger in her, albeit a little 'rougher' (sometimes we have some pretty intense sex if the mood is right)
I don't try butt play all the time, perhaps 40-50% of the time. I really enjoy it and I think she wants to enjoy it as well, on many occasions it's been her idea to try it. I think half of it is her wanting me to do what I like and the other half is she really wants to experiment (it seems I've opened her up a bit to things) on many times she's scratched/bitten/choked me prety hard (I have permanent scars on me from the scratching) and said she has never done that with anyone else and is quite surprised I bring it out of her. I choke her sometimes.
I have told her quite a while ago that I have an unhealthy obsession with butt play. She said if anything she finds that really interesting. I am trying to figure out a way I can incorporate more into our sex life. The last thing I want to do is hurt her and I have a strong feeling she would really enjoy it once she starts 'getting into it'.
She has numerous toys and I am a little nervous about buying something like a vibrating buttplug to try out. I have no problems with her using it on me, in fact a couple of times she's tried to slip me the sneaky digit and another time she tried to put a vibrating egg in me. She got offended when I said no because it seemed like she was doing it to try and humiliate me rather than to try and bring on a fun sexual experience. I'm not really into leather or all that kind of stuff but she has suggested some time maybe we try 'hurting each other' and getting really rough. I don't know how quite to approach that. I've never been one to talk dirty.
I don't know what kind of advice I'm after here. I think more than anything I want to try and teach AND learn anal with her. Although I really like it, I've only had a couple of experiences with it in the past and they were pretty bad, but it's one of those things I'm dying to do regularly. Whether or not this is bad, I don't know... I am really grateful that she is accommodating to this and is at least open to trying. SHe has been amazingly supportive of a few things, and the best thing is being able to talk so openly about it. Perhaps one day I wouldn't mind even trying watersports! (She said she doesn't really see the point in that)
So usually our nightly routine of going to bed will just involve pretty standard vanilla sex, oral (she doesn't like giving head but she has done it to me a couple of times and said she doesn't mind, and I never asked for it either knowing she didn't like it... she really seemed to enjoy 69 though) and sometimes I feel quite disappointed that I don't use the oppurtunity to spice things up a bit. I know she is open to it and I think she's expecting me to 'teach her stuff' but I'm kind of stumped with where to start with confidence. I think she thinks I'm some kind of super experienced guy because I've done it a few times, but in reality I'm not.
How do you guys go about these kind of situations??
thanks in advance for any help and really sorry if this post is up the shit, i've been putting off asking this because I don't know where to start really. I guess I want to 'kink it up' but don't know how!
|
Anonymous #1
|
 Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16539485 - 07/16/12 03:26 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
also I think another problem I face is she's a really small girl. I don't have a particularly large penis, pretty average I think. I've never succeeded in getting it in past the head, though. I've tried telling her to relax, breathe out, not 'clench' so to speak but i don't think she listens and just tenses up. but doesn't seem to have a problem when I'm using my finger. Although, I think the though of my penis just automatically instills the tension and nervousness in her.
Also I'm a bit stuck on the right kind of lube, and Ill feel bad if i just rock up with a tube of "sassys booty formula" or something (I've heard this is the best waterbased? she prefers waterbased for normal play) and she'll think I'm just expecting butt fun, but then again she's hinted a few times when we've been away on holiday about going out and buying lube (i'm assuming so we can try stuff out) arrrrgh im just really confused!
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16539551 - 07/16/12 03:40 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
aaaaand does anyone have any recommendations for good, non-intimidating looking toys that could be used universally for both vaginal and buttplay? something that doesn't scream "i want to put this only in your ass!" like a black butt plug ? :P
|
 999
Number Nine?
Registered: 05/08/12
Posts: 394
Last seen: 4 months, 7 days
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16539585 - 07/16/12 03:47 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Anonymous said:
aaaaand does anyone have any recommendations for good, non-intimidating looking toys that could be used universally for both vaginal and buttplay? something that doesn't scream "i want to put this only in your ass!" like a black butt plug ? :P
I didn't read it all, sorry, BUT! You should look up animal tail butt plugs, bro!
My girlfriend is extremely vanilla, too, but we both like that 
Edit: I have now read it all, seems to me like she's already pretty open to the idea. Sit down with her, maybe discuss the possibility of getting an animal tail plug, and then you can incorporate that into a whole new wave of kinky. My girlfriend and I have long debated on what to get, when we finally do cough up the 80 bucks or so to buy them... but really, it's pretty cool, and IIIII think it's really sexy. Just be open and honest and discuss it when you're not horny... Maybe over lunch, bring a laptop and go tail shopping.. Lmao
Also, it's not very intimidating looking, and uber cute if you want to go for that "let's fuck like bunnies" look. Or, if you're into that sorta thing, you COULD go for the less cute, more hard-core ones..
All depends, brah.
--------------------
Cold as a razor blade,
Tight as a tourniquet,
Dry as a funeral drum...
Edited by 999 (07/16/12 03:52 PM)
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: 999]
#16539774 - 07/16/12 04:19 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
wow i've only seen the horse tail ones... some of them are really cute looking like the bunny tail ones!
thanks a million i will ask her about it and seee what she says
|
999
Number Nine?
Registered: 05/08/12
Posts: 394
Last seen: 4 months, 7 days
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16539968 - 07/16/12 04:52 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Anonymous said:
wow i've only seen the horse tail ones... some of them are really cute looking like the bunny tail ones!
thanks a million i will ask her about it and seee what she says
No problem! Look at the fox tail ones, too, and try typing words like "Fluffy animal butt plug" Rofl, sounds funny, but some good results are to be had. Below I shall post a few piccies...
I like this last one, because it has a nylon rod in it that makes it stick upright ^,^ Waggy 
Lol, but be prepared to get primal with this shit.
Pshhh, it doesn't make you a furry, or bestial... just about the closest you can be to both of them without being either
Or you can be, whatever floats your boat.
--------------------
Cold as a razor blade,
Tight as a tourniquet,
Dry as a funeral drum...
|
Freyja
High Priest of his own madness
Registered: 09/03/11
Posts: 336
Last seen: 19 days, 17 hours
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16540039 - 07/16/12 05:03 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
They do make smaller diameter vibrators and dongs for anal play. I may be wrong but it sounds to me like it's not really at the sphincter that bothers her but farther up in the anal cavity that bothers her. Ask her about it, If this is the case you'll have to work on that slowly.
--------------------
The future did not look good for Schrodingers cat.
one shroom, two shroom, green shroom ... wait how did that get there?
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Freyja]
#16540347 - 07/16/12 06:09 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
ok so if it's not the sphincter then what could it be? She said it felt like "tearing" (didnt say where) and then said it hurt for a couple of days afterwards, like to sit down and whatnot.
I am really surprised it didn't put her off at all, yet she came back asking for it again (and no its not just like shes doing it JUST to please me i think she is genuinely curious about it)
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Freyja]
#16540356 - 07/16/12 06:11 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
sorry i meant to ask, what could i do to make it more comfortable or what should i work on if it isnt the sphincter?
I also too have read about the different curves in the cavity and have felt hers 'curve/fold' the the left a little so i am wary of that and try to follow that route, is that good form?
|
Anonymous #2
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16540467 - 07/16/12 06:32 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
I was in your girlfriends position not that long ago. Although I'm not vanilla - I had experienced plenty of other kinds of kink just never ended up with a guy into butt play until now.
If you've only been able to get your head in and she says it feels like it's tearing then it is her sphincter - and it does tear. It took months for me to get used to it and there are times where it does still hurt somewhat depending on the position. I have found that a spooning position not only hurts the least but provides the best orgasm. This is also an easy position for her to remain relaxed in. Relaxation really is key.
Try different lubes but avoid crap like KY or astroglide - spend the money and get something good - it makes a huge difference.
Last but not least, you say your obsession is in giving but you should be willing to receive as well. Tit for tat you know.
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
#16540527 - 07/16/12 06:41 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
I have absolutely no problem with receiving whatsoever. That's fine. I even suggested it to her in the beginning and she was kind of weirded out by out but i think now shes opening up a bit and as I said she's tried putting things in me a few times, i only resisted once when we were just lying in bed and she tried out of nowehre to put an egg in me and i felt like she as just trying to humiliate me or something.
spoong position you reckon... thankyou very much for that. how does the (i dont know how to describe it) but if she is on her back with her legs up around her head, ive heard if the knees are drawn upwards it kind of changes the inside layout a bit that makes for more comfortable entry? or would that position be too uncomfortable for her?
ALSO what are some good things to have in your mouth while going down on a girl to really make her get off like bubbles (champagne) or mints or whatnot? ice?
|
Wallflower
Registered: 05/10/12
Posts: 721
Last seen: 9 months, 22 days
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16540537 - 07/16/12 06:44 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
Is she secure enough to watch some porn with you (provided it isn't like super insane female-only porn)? The reason I ask being that I've always thought a fun way to learn things with someone would to pick out some porn together (so both people enjoy it) and then try the stuff in the porn. It seems like it has the potential to be fun, casual (sort take any 'edge' off) but also kind potentially pretty sexy, too. Just a random possibility off the top of my head. I'm rather inexperienced myself and just always thought that could be a lighthearted, fun away to go about trying things.
In any case though you seem to really care about her feelings and respect her. Just sayin' I think that's pretty awesome. She's a lucky gal in that regard.
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Wallflower]
#16540554 - 07/16/12 06:49 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
Yeah funny you should mention that. We are totally comfortable around each other in that respect. There's really not much boundary between us with what we can talk about except for the usual 'what would upset a girl/what would upset a guy' kind of thing, female sensitivities.
She actually said someone randomly dropped a gay porno in her mailbox last week, and said she wants to sit down with me and watch it to see if i get turned on by the gay scenes or how much i really like butt play. she said it would be funny and interesting, so she's pretty open in that respect. i really dig her, she's really cool and the more i'm with her the more i find out about her it's like slowly putting a puzzle together. and we become more open with each other about stuff is the most awesome thing, not just sex wise but emotionally and all that crap as well.
|
Anonymous #2
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16540608 - 07/16/12 07:02 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
ALSO what are some good things to have in your mouth while going down on a girl to really make her get off like bubbles (champagne) or mints or whatnot? ice?
Your tongue. Sorry, I couldn't resist that. In my experience mints just make it tingly, ice was not very pleasant, I mean sort of in a weird painful kind of way but also numbed things too much. Never tried champagne. Honestly, I'd just say you and what you're born with. Be slow and sensual though and build up.
Quote:
spoong position you reckon... thankyou very much for that. how does the (i dont know how to describe it) but if she is on her back with her legs up around her head, ive heard if the knees are drawn upwards it kind of changes the inside layout a bit that makes for more comfortable entry? or would that position be too uncomfortable for her?
That position could be difficult for a novice. Think about it - it pulls the muscle taunt when your legs are drawn up like that - makes everything tighter and makes it more difficult to relax. You're going to have to slowly progress to that after she's used to other positions.
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
#16540667 - 07/16/12 07:12 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
ok thanks for the tip. up until now weve only tried doggy and her lying on her stomache, and I do remember reading somewhere (I believe it was "ultimate guide to anal sex for women" or something like that) that doggy can quite often be a really uncomfortable position for a beginner to try 
Shall try spooning next time the oppurtunity presents itself!
PS I have no problem with making her cum with going down on her, in fact I think it's one of the few things I'm really good at... I was just thinking of things that were safe that could be thrown into the mix to really give it the extra edge. I really REALLY enjoy getting her off, and to me sex isn't complete unless both parties are truly satisfied (I know sometimes people say that this puts unnecessary pressure on girls to orgasm when sometimes they quite simply cannot) but I feel like I've been selfish if she hasn't had an orgasm.
blah, ramlbing. I just want to get things really seasoned is all. ha excuse me for drivel
|
Freyja
High Priest of his own madness
Registered: 09/03/11
Posts: 336
Last seen: 19 days, 17 hours
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16541353 - 07/16/12 09:47 PM (10 months, 28 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Anonymous said:
ok so if it's not the sphincter then what could it be? She said it felt like "tearing" (didnt say where) and then said it hurt for a couple of days afterwards, like to sit down and whatnot.
I am really surprised it didn't put her off at all, yet she came back asking for it again (and no its not just like shes doing it JUST to please me i think she is genuinely curious about it)
It may be or it may be in the anal cavity. Only way to find out is to ask her where it hurt. But the walls of the anal cavity are also sensitive and could be an issue.
If it is the sphincter then use some toys, start small and work your way up slowly as she feels comfortable with it. Also look for a lube with benzocaine or some other topical anesthetic in it. In this case your just training her to relax and stretch to accept larger objects over time. Tapered butt plugs will be ideal for this.
If it's farther up in the anal cavity then you'll want to find a soft flexible toy such as a dong, again smaller size is a good idea. The idea here is to slowly insert it till she tells you to stop. Then don't go any deeper till she says otherwise. The idea here is to allow her to adjust to there being pressure against that part of her anal cavity.
--------------------
The future did not look good for Schrodingers cat.
one shroom, two shroom, green shroom ... wait how did that get there?
|
basqueshaman
trippy humpy creepy guy
Registered: 04/01/11
Posts: 2,138
Loc: hell usa 
Last seen: 17 days, 22 hours
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16541381 - 07/16/12 09:53 PM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
|
|
ok guy get her drunk then eat her out make her cum sevral times have her ly on he side spoon with her and have her push back tilll you get were you want then go slow and pick up pace. this should work all ways worked for me and always have chicks running back for more. im not massive but im above adverage about the size of a 7 1/2 inch maglight
|
Anonymous #3
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: basqueshaman]
#16541651 - 07/16/12 10:55 PM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
|
|
my girl says it makes her feel like she needs to poop and she don't like it 
not to mention one time i pulled my fingers out with shit literally dripping off my fingers. i died inside.
|
 ohforkiefssake
.
Registered: 06/27/12
Posts: 538
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #3]
#16541737 - 07/16/12 11:10 PM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
|
|
Just take it slow! It's much easier to get it in her butt if there's plenty of foreplay before hand. Also, try finding a small vibrating toy you can put up there.
And if you are allowed to put things up her butt, she's allowed to do it to you too! lol
My bf clenches if I try anything though hahaha
|
ohforkiefssake
.
Registered: 06/27/12
Posts: 538
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: ohforkiefssake]
#16541755 - 07/16/12 11:12 PM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
|
|
Yes, doggy style can hurt sometimes. I've actually found it very easy to accept it in missionary style. It can be done! And like everyone else is saying, lube lube lube!!! and turn the fan off in your bedroom if there is one because speaking from experience the fan dries the lube off when he pulls out and then it hurts hahaha
Good luck!
|
Mr. Bojangles
Breathe In
Registered: 04/08/08
Posts: 1,566
Loc: The Dirty
Last seen: 21 hours, 14 minutes
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: ohforkiefssake]
#16542634 - 07/17/12 01:31 AM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
|
|
A small butt plug and a healthy amount of silicone based lube always works wonders with me and women. You just gotta get them really riled up with other thangs and go super slow with the booty. Trust me when I say get the smallest butt plug at first...and just play with it the first few times with her...there's a reason they're tapered. Then slowly work your way up to vaginal fucking with it all the way in there and one day pull it out and put something else up there
Also I've found words like "relax" and such sometimes have the opposing effect...so I just stick to continual kissing and caressing and going slow instead of seemingly pressuring her into relaxing. Once the heads in, let her determine how fast everything else gets in there, just use your hands gently over her.
It also kinda sounds like you want her to experiment with you but you don't wanna experiment with what she wants to do with you...it's a two way street mane. Just try it, you might like it, no ones forcing you to keep doing it if you don't 
--------------------
"It is dangerous to be right in matters on which the established authorities are wrong."
-Fracois Marie Voltaire
|
purplevisions
Wonderland Guide
Registered: 07/16/12
Posts: 74
Loc: on your ipod
Last seen: 9 months, 22 days
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Mr. Bojangles]
#16542793 - 07/17/12 02:05 AM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
|
|
As a girl, it sounds to me like she's interested but maybe a little bit self conscious about it. Which is how it is for me..and is alway why maybe it all works out when you guys are drunk and she's more relaxed, etc. It all just takes time.
...and those fox tail ones are awesome! I've never seen these before
--------------------
All matter is energy condensed to a slow vibration.
The universe is experiencing itself through you.
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Slowly introducing my girl to fetishes/butt play etc I need some advice [Re: Anonymous #3]
#16543261 - 07/17/12 04:16 AM (10 months, 27 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Freyja said:
It may be or it may be in the anal cavity. Only way to find out is to ask her where it hurt. But the walls of the anal cavity are also sensitive and could be an issue.
If it is the sphincter then use some toys, start small and work your way up slowly as she feels comfortable with it. Also look for a lube with benzocaine or some other topical anesthetic in it. In this case your just training her to relax and stretch to accept larger objects over time. Tapered butt plugs will be ideal for this.
If it's farther up in the anal cavity then you'll want to find a soft flexible toy such as a dong, again smaller size is a good idea. The idea here is to slowly insert it till she tells you to stop. Then don't go any deeper till she says otherwise. The idea here is to allow her to adjust to there being pressure against that part of her anal cavity.
Thanks for the advice but I think I want to stay away from all numbing lubricants as I have read in quite a lot of sources these can be dangerous in the event of any damage being done (even small tears) without her feeling it, as when it will wear off the pain will be quite unbearable. best to let her just feel it naturally and stop if she thinks she needs to. thanks for the thought though.
Quote:
basqueshaman said:
ok guy get her drunk then eat her out make her cum sevral times have her ly on he side spoon with her and have her push back tilll you get were you want then go slow and pick up pace. this should work all ways worked for me and always have chicks running back for more. im not massive but im above adverage about the size of a 7 1/2 inch maglight
Thanks. I think I may try this, although might try it without just getting her drunk so she'll do it :P, I think she'll be open to it regardless... however...
Quote:
purplevisions said:
As a girl, it sounds to me like she's interested but maybe a little bit self conscious about it. Which is how it is for me..and is alway why maybe it all works out when you guys are drunk and she's more relaxed, etc. It all just takes time.
...and those fox tail ones are awesome! I've never seen these before
makes me thing that being drunk and relaxed is kinda a good thing? some of the craziest sex we've had has been after a nice dinner and a couple of wines... so maybe that's a go?
Quote:
Anonymous said:
my girl says it makes her feel like she needs to poop and she don't like it
not to mention one time i pulled my fingers out with shit literally dripping off my fingers. i died inside.
One time I pulled my finger out and it was covered in 'mess' it didn't bother me at all but I knew it would bother her a bit so I went and washed it off before she could see it, I thought she would get quite self conscious about it. She has also expressed concern a couple of times about making a mess, but I've been as best I can in reassuring her it's not going to put me off at all and that if it happens, it MAY happen but it will be no big deal. Hey, I shat my pants in front of her once (long car ride, were both BUSTING no toilet stops, diarrhea from bad food, let her use the bathroom first) so it's not like it'll be anything new LOL (she even joked about that too)
Quote:
Just take it slow! It's much easier to get it in her butt if there's plenty of foreplay before hand. Also, try finding a small vibrating toy you can put up there.
And if you are allowed to put things up her butt, she's allowed to do it to you too! lol
My bf clenches if I try anything though hahaha
I really wanted to try a vibrating butt plug or egg but i think the egg is a bit too 'wide' at the start of it.
Again, I said I have no problem with her trying to put things in me. I suggested a strap on if she wanted to get 'revenge' and she just was more shocked than anything as if it was a crazy idea.
Quote:
Yes, doggy style can hurt sometimes. I've actually found it very easy to accept it in missionary style. It can be done! And like everyone else is saying, lube lube lube!!! and turn the fan off in your bedroom if there is one because speaking from experience the fan dries the lube off when he pulls out and then it hurts hahaha
Good luck!
I never thought missionary would be easy to do, do you use a pillow or anything? or have your legs up over his shoulder or anything, generally when we're doing missionary she has her legs up on my shoulders, or one leg at least. if she has one leg up that's generally the time I'm doing 'sneaky business" with a finger
Quote:
A small butt plug and a healthy amount of silicone based lube always works wonders with me and women. You just gotta get them really riled up with other thangs and go super slow with the booty. Trust me when I say get the smallest butt plug at first...and just play with it the first few times with her...there's a reason they're tapered. Then slowly work your way up to vaginal fucking with it all the way in there and one day pull it out and put something else up there
Also I've found words like "relax" and such sometimes have the opposing effect...so I just stick to continual kissing and caressing and going slow instead of seemingly pressuring her into relaxing. Once the heads in, let her determine how fast everything else gets in there, just use your hands gently over her.
It also kinda sounds like you want her to experiment with you but you don't wanna experiment with what she wants to do with you...it's a two way street mane. Just try it, you might like it, no ones forcing you to keep doing it if you don't
Again, I'm up for anything. I'll try just about anything once. I've told her this. The only time i hesitated was when it felt like she had the wrong intentions, I'm sure a girl wouldn't like it if you were trying to have sex with her to humiliate her (i'm sure some girls might get off on that though) so why cant it be any different for a guy? I'll do anything if it's either talked about, mutually agreed on or came about in a fun manner. no problems there.
edit: oh yeah i realised i made it sounds like i was opposed to anything in my butt in first post. i meant i opposed when she tried to put the egg in me for sinister reasons, i have never had a problem with the sneaky digit.
Also, a couple of times while going down on her I have started licking her 'in the area' and whatnot. she said it didn't feel particularly sexual so either i was doing it wrong or she just doesn't feel like that's anything. i thought it was supposed to tickle?
next time I will try pushing my tongue in a little further. i have no problem doing this and i get quite turned on by it. in fact im getting turned on now just thinking and typing about it :P (am I a sick fuck?)
Edited by Anonymous (07/17/12 06:58 AM)
|
|
Images only 
Threaded
Previous
Index
Next
Shop for: 
Edit 
Reply 
[url=http://files.shroomery.org/
Anonymous
