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 Enjoywho
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 Re: about to break up with my girl  [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16016462 - 03/30/12 12:22 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Dunno man, just dump her. You obviously have far too many insecurities about it.
Are you a capricorn by chance?
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Kukaracha
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16017606 - 03/30/12 06:19 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Then what lies are they? That she didn't eat a sandwich but she ate a burrito? When she actually ate a sandwich?
You accuse her of lying but you're incapable of giving us, as anonymous posters, more information. You're "withholding information"!
And if you think that you never lie, well, that's a lie for once. And it makes you even worse than people who admit lying.
Just let her be free and don't bother her anymore with your twisted perception of honesty.
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Kukaracha]
#16017622 - 03/30/12 06:32 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I've given you an example of her lying in my original post, about her sexual history. It was a bald faced lie, I didn't even ask her, she just offered me this story which I knew to be false. I can't remember specifics of the other times.
Now I don't know why this seems to get you so riled up. Maybe you're a dishonest person? But to my mind if you tell your partner something that's not true, even when they ask you to be honest, that's FUCKED.
Adults don't go around lying like children! they have a conscience that stops them from that shit.
Seriously, do you know people that lie to you at all?
I strongly get the feeling that you've never been in a relationship before. It just doesn't make sense for anyone to actually defend dishonesty.
Ever heard the saying that all relationships are built on trust?
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MistyMystic
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16018059 - 03/30/12 09:33 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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maybe u need to start listening with your other brain.
the one inside your pants
that tells you guys and girls are different.
and that shes too good for you.
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Kukaracha
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16018423 - 03/30/12 11:28 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Go on and think that relationships are based on the ABSOLUTE truth. People lie about small things all the time, because they're embarrassed or because they simply don't want to share it.
Do you tell your GF when you have explosive diarrhea? No, you say that you're "not feeling good".
Do you tell your GF that you can see a hair coming out of her nose? No, you don't want to embarass her.
Do you tell your GF that when you were 12 you tasted a piece of your shit to see what it tasted like?
Do you tell her that when you were 14 you were turned on by her mom?
NO. Unless you're looking for a fulfilling fucking marriage.
Get off your high horse and realize that EVERYONE lies.
You don't need to know that someone enjoys the smell of their own pee to trust them, Jesus Christ. Get real for a second and realize that everyone has these odd secrets about themselves. THAT is real honesty.
Hell, how the fuck can you act like a chill illuminated hippie and post as a fucking anonymous? Show your face, be honest, right?
Why don't you use that honesty of yours to tell her straight up you'll dump her if she doesn't fulfill your criteria? Why the need to post anonymously in an internet forum if you're such an open person?
Edited by Kukaracha (03/30/12 11:33 AM)
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Kukaracha]
#16020519 - 03/30/12 08:20 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I think I see the problem here. You're getting all bent out of shape because you think that she's lying about what she had for breakfast. No.
Here's an example. A friend of mine came up to me the other night at a party and tried to give me advice on having sex with my girlfriend. She's friends with someone who is a friend of my girlfriend.
I confronted my girlfriend who admitted telling her friend that she was a virgin, but claimed not to remember saying anything else. Now this just didn't make any sense to me, because this girl was giving me advice on details which she had to have been told. I confronted my girlfriend again the next day, and still she denied saying anything else.
This puts me in a really hard position. Do I trust my girlfriend and therefore accept that a very, very (almost absurdly) coincidental event has occurred, or do I take the fact that my girlfriend has lied to me before and chose to believe another (more likely) story, which is that she told this person more than she's letting on?
Do you see now how important it is to trust the person you're in a relationship with?
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16032868 - 04/02/12 11:33 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Do this girl a favor and leave her....please
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livenotonevil
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16046730 - 04/05/12 09:54 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
I think I see the problem here. You're getting all bent out of shape because you think that she's lying about what she had for breakfast. No.
Here's an example. A friend of mine came up to me the other night at a party and tried to give me advice on having sex with my girlfriend. She's friends with someone who is a friend of my girlfriend.
I confronted my girlfriend who admitted telling her friend that she was a virgin, but claimed not to remember saying anything else. Now this just didn't make any sense to me, because this girl was giving me advice on details which she had to have been told. I confronted my girlfriend again the next day, and still she denied saying anything else.
This puts me in a really hard position. Do I trust my girlfriend and therefore accept that a very, very (almost absurdly) coincidental event has occurred, or do I take the fact that my girlfriend has lied to me before and chose to believe another (more likely) story, which is that she told this person more than she's letting on?
Do you see now how important it is to trust the person you're in a relationship with?
Sorry this just all sounds like you have trust issues. I'd say she is not the problem. You are.
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16047105 - 04/05/12 12:20 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Nobody is completely honest 100% of the time. Get real.
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Icelander]
#16047117 - 04/05/12 12:23 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I stopped reading at "We've only known each other for a month."
What are you in high school?
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aledos
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16050892 - 04/06/12 01:56 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
I think I see the problem here. You're getting all bent out of shape because you think that she's lying about what she had for breakfast. No.
Here's an example. A friend of mine came up to me the other night at a party and tried to give me advice on having sex with my girlfriend. She's friends with someone who is a friend of my girlfriend.
I confronted my girlfriend who admitted telling her friend that she was a virgin, but claimed not to remember saying anything else. Now this just didn't make any sense to me, because this girl was giving me advice on details which she had to have been told. I confronted my girlfriend again the next day, and still she denied saying anything else.
This puts me in a really hard position. Do I trust my girlfriend and therefore accept that a very, very (almost absurdly) coincidental event has occurred, or do I take the fact that my girlfriend has lied to me before and chose to believe another (more likely) story, which is that she told this person more than she's letting on?
Do you see now how important it is to trust the person you're in a relationship with?
First off, sounds like you just want to take her purity.
Second, you should fucking listen to your girlfriend, not some random fucking "friend of my girlfriend."
Like someone else already posted, do her a favor and break up with her. She deserves even if she is lying.
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: aledos]
#16059649 - 04/08/12 03:17 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Update: I got over this stuff and we're still together, really happily I might add. I don't really know what came over me, I wrote the OP at 3 in the morning (my time) while in a semi rage. I was making all these connections in my mind, everything came together and just made perfect sense, she needed to go, and all I had to do was catch her out.
I don't know if maybe my mental health is slipping, but every now and then I just get paranoid. Usually about about girls. Never about what they're doing when they aren't around me, it's always about what they're really thinking.
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livenotonevil
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Re: about to break up with my girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
#16063171 - 04/09/12 12:15 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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arg
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It is without question that the war on drugs is a failure. It has failed to prevent drug abuse. It has failed to keep drugs out of the hands of addicts. It has failed to stop drug overdoses. It has failed to keep drugs away from teenagers. It has failed to stop the violence associated with drug trafficking. It has failed to help drug addicts get treatment. It has failed to prevent the cultivation of marijuana and the making of illicit drugs. It has failed to halt the flow of illegal drugs into the United States.
Edited by livenotonevil (04/09/12 12:19 AM)
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