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 Damnd if I do, damned if I dont 
#15859408 - 02/24/12 11:06 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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So my gf of over a year just gave me an ultimatum. But back story time. One of my best friends and ex roomie just got back from a tour in afghanistan. He rented a cabin for the weekend at the local mountain. Basically she said if i go out there and stay the night tomorrow (which i was going to stay with her tonight) and the fact that my friends may have bitches over. Is disrespectful to her and she will not allow it. What my friends do is none of my business but ive been nothing but honest and faithful, but somehow there being women there its a big fucking issue so i have to decide to let her mow me over. I was skipping the big party night tonight, tomorrow we were just gonna kick back and hit the mountain sunday morning. But if i go shes never speaking to me again  all in all im not sure if i have a question, just the same old mistrusting bullshit. Shit just really has me stressed out, when i was pretty stoked about seeing her. But now i think im just going to go out tonight. And let her live in her delusional world that shes created in her head. Keep in mind this girl is 9 years older than me, and is acting like a damn child.
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 Speck1186
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15859432 - 02/24/12 11:12 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Oh damn I've been there but she is 8yrs ahead of me and i have a child with her... BAD SITUATION
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Speck1186]
#15859461 - 02/24/12 11:18 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Just absurd, so absurd. I really love the girl, but if shes this controlling then if there arent issues now there will be later. I dont like being put in this position of having to choose my friends over a girl. She told me she declined going out with her brother barhopping for their friends birthday (male, all her friends are male  ) because it would be disrespectful to me. Which I really dont see why because I have trust and the only way its disrespectful if shes traipsin along like a little ho. Women 
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15859965 - 02/25/12 01:08 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Edit
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"I don't give nothin' to nobody, I just pay the cost to do business." - Riley "Young Reezy"
"The road to hell is paved with good intentions."
"In the days of kings and queens I was a jester."
Edited by Enjoywho (02/25/12 01:08 AM)
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Enjoywho]
#15859968 - 02/25/12 01:09 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Hmmm, what do you know. Now shes apologizing begging me to come over and admitting that she was wrong. "i had some time to cool down and think about it" geeeee imagine that. Bitches
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15860790 - 02/25/12 08:41 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Your not going. Right?
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: preschooler]
#15862141 - 02/25/12 04:41 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
preschooler said:
Your not going. Right?
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: tymoteusz3]
#15862429 - 02/25/12 06:03 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Nah i went, ended up kicking me out, then begging me to come back. I have the upper hand because ive made it pretty clear ill walk away I can live with that because I have a clear conscience. I guess she ran out of her anti depressants, an doesnt get more til monday. So that explains alot of this chemically imbalanced bullshit. Only reason i went is because my other friend pretty much left me in town. So I didnt have a ride all the way out there. Everyone in my lifr are shit heads.
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15863369 - 02/25/12 10:07 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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How old are you, and how old is she?
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I just turned 21 an shes 30. Shes the coolest woman i've ever met, and has taught me a lot about life and love. And boy is she one good ass fuck. But boy is she cuckoo banana pancakes.
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15863457 - 02/25/12 10:23 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Dump her! I was with a girl 2 years younger than me, i was 18 and she 16, and in retrospect I can't imagine why I put up with her immature shit.
Well, I can actually. She's a fucking freak in bed, hottest fuck I've ever had. Not necessarily physically, I've had sex with a girl with a perfect body in every way since. But sexually, ive never met anybody who turned me on like her.
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Haha, things are more complicated than that. But its sound advice that I would be offering to anybody with a similiar thread to mine. 
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15863491 - 02/25/12 10:31 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Haha, things are more complicated than that. But its sound advice that I would be offering to anybody with a similiar thread to mine.
No it's not. She cheated on you numerous times. The only way to go is OUT.
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Anonymous #1
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This was not a cheating thread, its a her thinking ill fuck anything in the same box as me because of my age. Shes got more respect than to cheat on me. You best believe if that were the case, shed be recieving one hell of an ass kicking/ along with your advice. But that has no relevance for the reason i created this topic.
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15863526 - 02/25/12 10:37 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
This was not a cheating thread, its a her thinking ill fuck anything in the same box as me because of my age. Shes got more respect than to cheat on me. You best believe if that were the case, shed be recieving one hell of an ass kicking/ along with your advice. But that has no relevance for the reason i created this topic.
Oh haha sorry, I mistook this one for one of the 1000 cheating threads I posted LEAVE THE BITCH in
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No on second thought, leaving her would be a bit of an overreaction. Tell her you really don't like the fact that she apparently doesn't trust you though.
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Haha, ya i assumed so. Just dont get the whole, oh well its a female so there must be sexual undertones.
Yes exactly, Once she told me she had to abrubtly stop taking her anti-depressents it all makes a lot of sense. Its literally like freaking out, no fuck you. So im like ok bye. 5 minutes later, im sorry! Your right im freaking out. So basically goes from raw emotion/ logic.
Her most recent text.
Im sorry for everything i think u should go snowboarding and hang with ur freinds..im a totall dick and dont deserve you ..i love you im so sorry..
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15863555 - 02/25/12 10:44 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Text back: "whatever."
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At 21 you are too young to be dealing with this is bitch. If you get her pregnant you are fucked. This woman has major issues, get out.
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Re: Damnd if I do, damned if I dont [Re: qman]
#15863594 - 02/25/12 10:51 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Ya, I already have a firm understanding of this, and am just riding the wave. Shes my best friend, but im no where near afraid to pick my life up without her. And birth control my friend, i see the shot go in her ass, and ive dumped more semen in this bitch than is fairly reasonable. Plus 29 and she has no kids. Nor does she even like children. But like i said id be giving the same advice from the outside looking in.
I grew up in a dysfunctional family, what can I say, Im addicted to chaos.
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