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 Cute Girl Smiles At You 
#15806870 - 02/14/12 06:08 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Say you're at school in a commons type area studying and you recognize a girl from one of your classes. You make eye contact and smile and she smiles back, but you've never spoken before. Should you get up and talk to her or hope for a more natural chance in the future?
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Either way, as long as you just relax and don't act like a weirdo. There are no real rules to this sort of thing.
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She wants the cock, you have the cock.
Profit.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Dystopia]
#15806898 - 02/14/12 06:23 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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So, in other words, I should talk to her while making sure not to look like a weirdo?
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So many missed opportunities in college.. my god.. for my sake please go talk to the woman. And yeah, just don't be nuts. And in case she's not down for drugs don't bring it up unless she does.
Put the mack on. Maybe she just smiled, who knows. Give it a shot. Don't buy into this "game" shit. You are who you are. If you show weakness she will stop liking the cock. If you are an amazing asshole she will not want the cock.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Dystopia] 1
#15808255 - 02/14/12 03:44 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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So many missed opportunities in college.. my god.. for my sake please go talk to the woman. And yeah, just don't be nuts. And in case she's not down for drugs don't bring it up unless she does.
If that bitch doesn't smoke weed she's the cops. Tell her to fuck off.
Get bitches drunk and high then fuck them. The formula is simple, jabroni.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Dystopia]
#15808257 - 02/14/12 03:44 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Dystopia said:
She wants the cock, you have the cock.
Profit.
Spoken like a true mac.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Dystopia]
#15808286 - 02/14/12 03:51 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Give a friendly hello and introduce yourself. Talk about the class.
Always show good taste, but there are times when it is good to be direct and forward.
Try to read her. She's most likely gonna be just as nervous as you.
Just be yourself. Never settle for someone who doesn't accept you as you are.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Humility] 1
#15808344 - 02/14/12 04:05 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Also, you need to listen to more Mac Dre, Suga Free and Too Short.
These should be a must for any college freshman. Do NOT underestimate what I just said. I ASSURE you that listening to these three artists regularly will put you in a frame of mind where you feel comfortable talking to and being around these girls.
Do what you want though.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Humility] 1
#15810928 - 02/15/12 12:16 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Humility said:
If that bitch doesn't smoke weed she's the cops. Tell her to fuck off.
Get bitches drunk and high then fuck them. The formula is simple, jabroni.
I like the way you think, Humility. I'll check out those three artists you mentioned too.
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I've had two more recent encounters with this girl. Yesterday I saw her at a triple door. She was opening one from one side and I was opening one from the other. We said hi and she gave me the sweetest smile and asked how I was doing. I was so surprised and nervous that I just said good how are you and that was the end of the encounter. It didn't feel nearly so awkward at the time tho.
Previously I had sat down behind her one day without realizing it because the seating was totally different cause we were taking a test. When I looked down I realized who it was and that she was trying to catch my eye. We smiled at each other and started talking about the forthcoming test but the teacher started talking a minute later and we had to shut up. She finished before me and I didn't get the chance to talk to her again until yesterday.
I've noticed that she sits all alone in lecture. I really wanna sit next to her but I feel I need some sort of reason to first. Sometimes the teacher doesn't open the door until right before class starts, so people are hanging out outside the class waiting to be let in. Next week I'm gonna show up early to class and hope to see her waiting there and actually talk to her. Then if she's receptive, maybe ask if I can sit next to her.
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MAybe she's a born again christian ^^.
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That's not the point right now, dude. The point is how can I initiate dialogue with her. Then I can focus on details like that.
I see what you're saying. Hardcore Christians can be really friendly, but I don't think it's like that. The class we have together is organismal biology, and I don't think a Born Again Christian would take to well to that subject.
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Also, it seems like a BAC would dress really plain, but she dresses really stylishly. Not in a cheap, copy-everyone-else sort of way, but really creatively.
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Just sit next to her.....be bold.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: sharkeye]
#15959325 - 03/17/12 01:54 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I want to, but it's in an auditorium and she sits in an aisle seat. Seems like it'd be kind of awkward, so I really wanna have a real convo with her first..
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I want to, but it's in an auditorium and she sits in an aisle seat. Seems like it'd be kind of awkward, so I really wanna have a real convo with her first..
if you show up after her walk by her and say 'hi'. Continue talking and casually sit down?
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Humility]
#15959477 - 03/17/12 02:51 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Humility said:
Also, you need to listen to more Mac Dre, Suga Free and Too Short.
These should be a must for any college freshman. Do NOT underestimate what I just said. I ASSURE you that listening to these three artists regularly will put you in a frame of mind where you feel comfortable talking to and being around these girls.
Do what you want though.
QFT
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moonrockmushy
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I want to, but it's in an auditorium and she sits in an aisle seat. Seems like it'd be kind of awkward, so I really wanna have a real convo with her first..
The trick to meeting new people is learning to manage this awkwardness, and there is really only one way to get through it: dive on in. It is all in your head really, what you're doing now probably comes off to her as more "awkward". C20 has the right idea. I'd ask if she minds because I know that I like to sit alone sometimes in classes to focus better, but I doubt she'd mind if you are quiet.
Good luck 
Edited by moonrockmushy (03/17/12 03:11 PM)
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Also, it seems like a BAC would dress really plain, but she dresses really stylishly. Not in a cheap, copy-everyone-else sort of way, but really creatively.
You don't know too many BACs do you 
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No I don't, why?
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dude just talk to her its not that big of a deal
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It is all in your head really, what you're doing now probably comes off to her as more "awkward".
I know, I'm sure it does but I never get a real chance to talk to her. I really wanna do it soon so it doesn't get really awkward.
I forgot to mention I normally sit next to my friend, Kalee (strictly plutonic) but she never comes to class anymore. I just talked to her tho and she's planning on going to class monday and I can't be rude and not sit next to her.
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You really want to know how to initiate conversation. well, start by opening your mouth, flapping your tongue around a bit and moving your vocal cords. Once you learn how to make sounds, then develop those sounds into words........... :-) seriously though, ask her how her day is going. what she did last weekend or if she has anything planned for the weekend coming. Totally harmless things to say. wait for her response then develop that into a conversation. Go and sit next to her in class and just say you felt like sitting somewhere different for a change...... the more awkward you act the more she will think you are a creep.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: russokeefe]
#15962692 - 03/18/12 10:56 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I'm gonna try hard and talk to her Monday before class, but I'm still gonna sit next to my friend Kalee. Maybe I will sit next to her next time my friend skips class.
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No I don't, why?
Hey man, I'm just trollin for lulz. But never underestimate BACs ^^.
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I know, I'm sure it does but I never get a real chance to talk to her. I really wanna do it soon so it doesn't get really awkward.
Thats not what I meant, awkward is ok and totally natural, just be friendly, smile and make eye contact, and realize that in these situations racing heartbeat, drymouth, stumbling over words, shakiness, butterflies, things like that are ok, never something to beat yourself up over no matter how ridiculous you act. That is where learning to laugh comes in, because it is kinda funny how worked up some of us get when it comes to these things.
Maybe ask Kaylee for advice on the situation, I find females sometimes know alot about women. Perhaps you could invite the girl to sit with the two of you or ask if she wants to make a study-group.
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I know, I'm sure it does but I never get a real chance to talk to her. I really wanna do it soon so it doesn't get really awkward.
Thats not what I meant, awkward is ok and totally natural, just be friendly, smile and make eye contact, and realize that in these situations racing heartbeat, drymouth, stumbling over words, shakiness, butterflies, things like that are ok, never something to beat yourself up over no matter how ridiculous you act. That is where learning to laugh comes in, because it is kinda funny how worked up some of us get when it comes to these things.
Maybe ask Kaylee for advice on the situation, I find females sometimes know alot about women. Perhaps you could invite the girl to sit with the two of you or ask if she wants to make a study-group.
Dude, killer idea! I'm gonna ask Kalee about it. She's really hot so I'm sure she's used to guys approaching her all the time. The place we sit is rather crowded, but a study group would be a great idea. I can tell she's a really studious person too.
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LOL talking to people isn't that difficult... Everything doesn't have to be calculated and assessed. Be natural, be cool, be yourself. Casual.
Or take a half gram of shrooms and hour before you talk to her 
You shouldn't need "blue courage" though.
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Be natural, be cool, be yourself. Casual.
Sounds like an aftershave slogan 
Here's a pick-up line for you zappa:
"If I were an enzyme, I'd be DNA helicase so I could unzip your genes."
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I find females sometimes know alot about women
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LOL talking to people isn't that difficult... Everything doesn't have to be calculated and assessed. Be natural, be cool, be yourself. Casual.
Or take a half gram of shrooms and hour before you talk to her
You shouldn't need "blue courage" though.
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"If I were an enzyme, I'd be DNA helicase so I could unzip your genes."
show her this thread and you guys can both laugh about it. lol
really don't do that.. but this has gotten to be pretty damn funny.
but hey man it's just college, where girls and guys get weird everyday until the end of time. there's really nothing you can say or do that will make things too much more awkward than they already are. not trying to say you've gone and made things super awkward - just saying simple conversation doesn't need to be awkward unless you make it. if a half g of "blue courage" isn't your thing, try a benzo or a little speed? Needing drugs to talk to women isn't recommended, but if you over-think every last thing, then a benzo would seriously work wonders.
as stated earlier in thread - she prob wants your cock. just go for it. if you fail, at least you tried. failing is no worse than not trying at all
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: extreme]
#15967911 - 03/19/12 05:51 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRrrrrrrrrrrr! I showed up a bit early today, but the door was already unlocked. I walked into the lecture hall and my friend Kalee wasn't there as usual. I saw the cute girl was sitting in the aisle seat as usual. I wanted to talk to her but I was too chicken shit cause there was only one seat between her and the next person, and it's a pretty uncrowded class so i didn't wanna just sit next to some random person, unsolicited.
Previously, I didn't mention that she also happens to be in my same lab class. It's not a big group kind of lab tho, you pretty much just work with your one lab partner. Well I showed up to lab almost ten mins early in hopes to talk to her in the hallway (you always have to wait for the teacher to open the lab). She showed up toward the end and I very briefly got to exchange a few friendly words with her, but it was about the upcoming lab. Totally void of any substance. Then the teacher showed up and opened the door. My group finished before hers, so now I almost certainly won't have a chance again until Wednesday.
It's really frustrating cause I don't even know her name and it's really hard for me cause I'm so shy I can barely have a regular conversation with a dude, let alone a beautiful girl.
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but hey man it's just college, where girls and guys get weird everyday until the end of time. there's really nothing you can say or do that will make things too much more awkward than they already are. not trying to say you've gone and made things super awkward - just saying simple conversation doesn't need to be awkward unless you make it. if a half g of "blue courage" isn't your thing, try a benzo or a little speed? Needing drugs to talk to women isn't recommended, but if you over-think every last thing, then a benzo would seriously work wonders.
as stated earlier in thread - she prob wants your cock. just go for it. if you fail, at least you tried. failing is no worse than not trying at all
Blue courage is the last thing I would take to help me talk to a girl. I've got adderall, but I'm pretty inexperienced with it. The first (recent) time I took it I loved it, but the second time I started feeling really gloomy on it. I don't think I should take this for social enhancement until I'm more familiar with how it affects me. Maybe I will try benzos because I do over-think the shit out of everything.
Regarding the failure is better than not trying comment: I really think you are right. My fear isn't so much an awkward conversation. It's a fear of an awkward introduction. Still tho, I can't sit back and not even try to initiate. I think on Wednesday I will show up early again. If the door is locked she'll probly be outside waiting and it'll be relatively easy to talk to her. If the door is open she'll probly be inside sitting down. In that case, I think I will have to just walk up to her. Maybe I could just say something simple like: what's up, how are you? I was wondering if I could sit by you today.
^^^What are your guys' thoughts about the above paragraph?
P.S. She must be pretty shy or else a brand new student like me, cause I never see her sitting next to or even really talking to anyone except her lab partner on lab days.
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Be natural, be cool, be yourself. Casual.
Sounds like an aftershave slogan
Here's a pick-up line for you zappa:
"If I were an enzyme, I'd be DNA helicase so I could unzip your genes."
Haha, I'm assuming this was said purely in jest, but I could never say something like that to any girl I don't know.
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Wait so it's been over a month and you still haven't talked to her?
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Dark_Star]
#15967997 - 03/19/12 06:09 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Yes it has, I'm chicken shit. Just said hi, how are you type stuff like 3 times fairly recently.
Why, would that make it overly awkward? That's what I was kind of thinking, but then she has still acted really friendly whenever I do see her. That's what has left me with some hope.
I'm so cautious about what others think of me, that I feel like I'm not going to miss disinterested/annoyed vibes..
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The longer you wait, the less chance you have. Especially if she knows you like her....then you're most likely fucked. You're probably putting out vibes that you do, so.........
Been there, done that; fail'd
Seriously, I can be the same way; spent years being too shy, and I regret that now. So many missed opportunities. Take the bull by the horns!
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Dark_Star]
#15968035 - 03/19/12 06:17 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I think I see what you're saying. That if I like her but don't talk to her she knows I'm being a pussy, but if she doesn't realize I like her it would actually make sense why I haven't talked to her?
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What does this girl look like?
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What cha trying to gain? Pussy? Girlfriend? Fuck buddy?
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Shes hot. Why do you ask that? I just wanna talk to her and see what she's like
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Thats cool bro. Lil backgroung , u a virgin? I only ask to give the proper advice for the situation.
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If ur just feeling things out, talk to her or be haunted by regreat.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Dark_Star]
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The longer you wait, the less chance you have. Especially if she knows you like her....then you're most likely fucked. You're probably putting out vibes that you do, so.........
Been there, done that; fail'd
Seriously, I can be the same way; spent years being too shy, and I regret that now. So many missed opportunities. Take the bull by the horns!
this negro speaks the truth , yesterdey me and 2 buds went to a bikini sports bar .. when we get there our waitress comes over and looks at me and smiles .. i know its on but still playing it mac daddy supa cool too short ballin and chillin. i had a couple of beers and she asked if i wanted another . i simpled looked at her and said... damnn you dont even know me and ur trying to get me drunk? she giggles and comes back to our table asking if we were down to play some darts.. inside my head i wanted to dshsb on the spot but acting like u got ur shit together or that u simpky dont care usually results in gaining more tail. she asked me again if she could get me a beer which of course i said yes , she took like 5 minutes to get me my fucking beer so i kinda pulled a dick move and told her it was about time... she said sorry and told me she would make it up to me... just be yourself man and dont be afraid to slighty insult her but of course with some light complement attached to it. saying hi how r u its pretty awkward , especially since thats all you say to her... move in on her and tell her the dress shes wearing is really cute even if its not true.. just let her know shes attracting your attention but u are not phased easily by bitches ... so after you do that she will come up to you and start talking .. act like shes just a random person who is somehow trying to gain ur attention...
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Yeah, I was just kidding about the pickup line.
Its really whatever, pretty girls come and go, just use it as an exercise in getting to know people.
Don't go in with expectations, try to play it cool. Maybe catch up to her on the way out of class next time and ask if she is free for coffee. Say hello, introduce yourself, ask how she likes the class, what she does for fun. Give her compliments and see how she reacts. If you end up liking her make sure you tell her upfront and ask her out, don't pussyfoot around too long.
It should be a bit awkward, like I've been saying that is ok and all part of the fun.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Kinko] 1
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wait until shes going to her dorm... at night all alone. yes... hmm... then, oh then walk up 2 here and hit her in the head with a lamp, while shes dazed and confused ohhh yes hit her again. ohh god She will be unconsious, mmm yes then put some, no, lots of xanax in her mouth... yes hmm. then, quickly! Put a rag, soaked in 1, NO, two cups of chloroform, yess mmm, then proceed to tie her up in not 1, but 2 ropes, mmm yes then the rest is up to you ohhhh yess, undress her, then you know what to do....
.... mmmmmm yess
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wait until shes going to her dorm... at night all alone. yes... hmm... then, oh then walk up 2 here and hit her in the head with a lamp, while shes dazed and confused ohhh yes hit her again. ohh god She will be unconsious, mmm yes then put some, no, lots of xanax in her mouth... yes hmm. then, quickly! Put a rag, soaked in 1, NO, two cups of chloroform, yess mmm, then proceed to tie her up in not 1, but 2 ropes, mmm yes then the rest is up to you ohhhh yess, undress her, then you know what to do....
.... mmmmmm yess
^ And you have access to the lab so obtaining chloroform shouldn't be a problem. Use nylon rope, it doesn't bind or leave marks like the regular kind.
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Thats cool bro. Lil backgroung , u a virgin? I only ask to give the proper advice for the situation.
Not quite. Haven't had a gf in a really long time tho.
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Yeah, I was just kidding about the pickup line.
Its really whatever, pretty girls come and go, just use it as an exercise in getting to know people.
Don't go in with expectations, try to play it cool. Maybe catch up to her on the way out of class next time and ask if she is free for coffee. Say hello, introduce yourself, ask how she likes the class, what she does for fun. Give her compliments and see how she reacts. If you end up liking her make sure you tell her upfront and ask her out, don't pussyfoot around too long.
It should be a bit awkward, like I've been saying that is ok and all part of the fun.
Only time I ever see her at all is right before class or in class. I sit up front, but she's back a bit so she's always out of the auditorium first. I think my only chance to engage her is before class or right before lab, which is only once a week.
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moonrockmushy said:
Yeah, I was just kidding about the pickup line.
Its really whatever, pretty girls come and go, just use it as an exercise in getting to know people.
Don't go in with expectations, try to play it cool. Maybe catch up to her on the way out of class next time and ask if she is free for coffee. Say hello, introduce yourself, ask how she likes the class, what she does for fun. Give her compliments and see how she reacts. If you end up liking her make sure you tell her upfront and ask her out, don't pussyfoot around too long.
It should be a bit awkward, like I've been saying that is ok and all part of the fun.
Thats some real talk, bitches com.e and go like the bus bro.Test out ur game dont get hung up on one chick you never had a real conversation with. Boss up, chicks dont like pussys unless their lesbians
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You *DELETED* [Re: Crypt Keeper]
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"Dont worry even jesus never saw his real father"
"Man, because he sacrifices health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then he dies having never really lived."
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Azure Essence
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Man, you should ask her. You're going to spend a month waiting for 'the moment', and what if she says no? Wouldnt you rather just deal with it TODAY? If she says no, well there you do. You didnt spend a month to figure it out, so go find another cutie. Then dont spend another month waiter for her, just ask, that day.
You could wait a month for one girl to possibly say no, or get it over with(and she says yes), or if she says no, you spend every day that month asking another girl.
1 girl in a month, or 30?
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here is some advice, smile at everyone that makes eye contact with you, especially the cute girls
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Holy shit I actually talked to her!!!!!!!!!!!! It was the hardest thing I've made myself do in some while. At first it felt like I swallowed a barn owl, but once I settled down it was an enjoyable conversation. We sat together in lecture, and I was gonna ask if she wanted to take a walk or something, but she had to meet with a partner for a class.
Anyway, she seems like an interesting/nice person and I would like to get to know her better. The next time I see her will be Friday. I'm gonna sit next to her again, but I need to know: how do I go about "asking her out"?
I figure it will be easy to invite her to do something this weekend, because it'll only be natural to ask about the weekend on a Friday. I found out today that she likes disc golf, so maybe I could see if she wants to do that? The only other things I can think of are a walk in the woods, getting coffee, or going to a show. What should I say??
I do have a few concerns. She is from the town we go to school in so she probly already has a ton of friends. I'm so new to town I barely have any friends and never go out on the weekends. I don't wanna look like a total loser with no night-plans, but I do have a couple day-plans this weekend so maybe it won't look so bad? Fortunately, I always have the studying excuse. She's a double major, so maybe she doesn't have much of a night-life either. Also, she is 25 but I'm just 22. I like older girls, but she's probly really experienced w/ dudes and maybe 22 is too young for a 25 yo?
Anyway, main point of this post: How do I go about asking her out? I don't have her # yet or her friendship on FB, lol.
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Noetical
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Ask for coffee.
Does she know your 22? That could be a hangup for her.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Noetical]
#15976482 - 03/21/12 03:25 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Coffee over disc golf? Are you sure? there is a pretty hip coffee house in town..
Yeah, i told her today i'm 22. i think she's in mostly underclassmen classes tho. i'm probly older than most of the other people in her classes..
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Noetical
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You've spoke to her once, go for coffee its less 'date' intimidating with more outs then committing to play disk golf.
Get to know her more.
If coffee goes well take her for a walk.
I'm starting to think you are a very good trolljob by decypher. Well done.
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Noetical]
#15976527 - 03/21/12 03:42 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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I think that means I'm a puppet? I've been around a while w/ lots of relevant posts in the hunting forum and cultivation one. Why would a troll puppet hang out there? Why don't you observe me longer before making such an assumption? I don't know who decypher is, but why don't you check my pics? If he doesn't live in or travel to the PNW it would disprove your hypothesis. (I've got lots of cyan finds, from visiting Seattle).
Back to the point:
I see what you're saying about coffee being less intimidating. That's a great idea. Should I ask if she wants to go after class on Friday? Class gets out at 1:50.
Edit: Oh yeah, and check out my Appalachian Trail slide show thread. If decypher isn't an AT thru hiker it would also disprove your hypothesis.
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Noetical
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I don't know... maybe play it by ear and ask at the end of class... that way there isn't any potential to sit there all awkward like for the whole class if she says no.
Since you are an outdoorsey type, if its nice, get your coffee to go and explore in the woods if its close. You can show off by telling her about nature stuff and the fact that you are teaching her things will go a ways towards helping her get over any age bias (warranted or not, it just happens).
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Azure Essence
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Yes, do coffee after class, and only then will you know if you should ask about disc golf, somewhere near the end of coffee.
And if you worry about girls caring about your nightlife, well start doing something 100 times more impressive with your nights than the other douche bag guys she knows who go to bars every night.
I once had a girl I was beginning to date ask why I never went out at nights, and if I was a recluse or something. She obviously seemed weird about it, so I let her know, truthfully, that I was writing and recording an entire album.
I could literally SMELL her pussy from there after I said that. When they realize you actively do, and care about, not to mention just have your shit going on and are motivated to be doing something like that, they see how much of a fucking child half the guys they know are.
So dont let her know you've been on shroomery asking about her, and get to doing some cool shit that you can impress her with. Thats how I think of almost all my free time, "Will I have something cool to show for this?(aside from a hangover and neat scar)"
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: Noetical]
#15976671 - 03/21/12 04:17 PM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Noetical said:
I don't know... maybe play it by ear and ask at the end of class... that way there isn't any potential to sit there all awkward like for the whole class if she says no.
Since you are an outdoorsey type, if its nice, get your coffee to go and explore in the woods if its close. You can show off by telling her about nature stuff and the fact that you are teaching her things will go a ways towards helping her get over any age bias (warranted or not, it just happens).
Dude, the walk in the woods is a great idea. However, to your previous point, maybe I should invite her just to coffee first? and then, if it's going well mention the woods walk, cause it's such a nice day? and do so fairly quick, while the coffee house is still fresh and interesting.
Really good point about the age bias. I know a lot of wildflowers and trees, so I can teach her those. And I've already done a lot of cool things in life for such a young mycelium, that might help.
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I can tell there is much wisdom in this post.
It's really hard for me because my major hobby is mycology, but I can't tell her about that for obvious reasons. So all the work I put into that goes entirely unrewarded, other people's perceptions-wise.
That last thing you said about how to look at your free time.. That is fucking genius man. I am going to think about that a lot today.
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Azure Essence
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I would ask her somewhere through the cups of coffee is she'd like to walk, so you can still get some time with her, and bring it up.
IF she says no, for whatever reason, GO AHEAD AND GO WEALK ANYWAYS. Dont just not walk because she didnt want to, she'll respect you a ton more for things like having your own shit going on without the validation of her
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Sounds like a plan. Walk around town or at the nature preserve?
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Azure Essence
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play it by ear. Maybe she'll want to talk both with you. Maybe nature first, then dip back to town, maybe by then it will be dinner time?
Dont over think it. The worst is over thinking these plans and she
ll have to run her grandma to the airport anyways. Dont be bummed if it doesnt go as planned
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K, i'll play it by ear. I don't think I'll be too bummed if nothing comes of this. I'm just proud of myself for talking her! Maybe I'll even approach another one..
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moonrockmushy
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Nice work zappa 
I think coffee sounds reasonable, don't worry about the age difference, that is no big deal. Take a walk someplace familiar, around your campus, town, nice parks, someplace quiet but not too secluded. Maybe invite her back to your room if thigs go well, or tell her you'd like to take her for dinner if you are into romance.
Don't try to take her deep into the woods on a first date, I've found most nice girls don't go for that.
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Azure Essence
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Oh about the age....
I was 22 and dated a 30 year old. Anyone who matters wont care. If she cares about that, think about how cunty she'll be when you accidentally buy her a regular Dr Pepper and not a diet one. It's a self-regulating system.
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Ahh, good thought about not suggesting the woods. I should mention tho that it's a nature preserve in a busy town, not my grandparents' private property. Still tho, I think I'll just suggest a walk around town or campus. When you say "take her for dinner" are you suggesting to pay? I don't care about the dough, I just don't wanna come off all strong like that. I shouldn't pay for the coffee, should I?
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Haha, that would be pretty cuntly. Good point taken tho.
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MagicMaker
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mrGerard1277
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Re: Cute Girl Smiles At You [Re: MagicMaker]
#15984972 - 03/23/12 10:47 AM (1 year, 2 months ago) |
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WoW, I didnt realize this thread was a month old. If u havent made a move yet. She probaly thinks ur a creeper by now, You dont drive a cargo van do you?
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Ok, so I'm finally making an update on this:
I sat next to her again Friday. We had a good conversation, but I found out at the end she has a boyfriend. I suspect they may even live together cause she said she has a house and most 25 YO's can't afford their own so it's probly her bf's.
Fuck it tho, my hopes weren't high anyway. It was really just an exercise in initiating conversation. My main concern now is future awkwardness because I already started sitting next to her, and it's obvious I like her. Oh well tho, this sort of thing has happened to me before. I'll just keep sitting next to her and be friends. She'd probly make a good study buddy...
Now I want to continue approaching women and initiating conversation, but I don't know how. I will make a thread about this soon when I have a bit more time.
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Azure Essence
ॐ |MagicBonerTonic| ॐ
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just be aloof and really easy going. She wont think you're that into her if you're just generally positive and like talking to girls and shit.
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Anonymous #1
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Ok, so should I continue to sit next to her as if we've become friends?
It seems like that'd be the least awkward. I can be aloof about it. Maybe just act like I'd rather not sit alone and she is a cool enough person to talk to?
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Azure Essence
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Sure why not. Dont over think it, just be friendly.
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Dark_Star
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Quote:
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Sure why not. Dont over think it, just be friendly.
Yup, and besides, other girls take notice when they see ya hanging out w/ and talking to hot girls.
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