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Quote: Seriously_Spaced said: Heres the whole deal btw this is a bit long so bear with me. I have know this girl since middle school and we were THE best of friends but for 3 years she really really like me almost loved me but when she told me this i had a gf and i said i couldnt and i havent talked to her since before new years because she is honestly the other half of me like seperated from birth kind of thing.well this new years we reconnected and sparks flew i mean its was more magical than mushrooms i swear that love i feel for her is more priceless than any drug ive ever tried.
Shes the only person in this world that doesnt make me feel like im a fuck up...She always tells me im handsom and sweet and that she loves me.Ive never felt this kind of connectin with anyone in my life after new years she came to my house and the only thing she wanted to do at first was snuggle up to me in my arms and i love that(dont get me wrong i love sex to but)she looked so peacefull and happy and loving the same way i was feeling i could see it in her eyes hear it in her voice and we made out for hours on end and my whole world melted away i forgot for a while about school work and a painting a made for her plus i was going give her her bday present haha but anyway that was a very very romantic night and i thought for sure if i asked her out she would say yes but she says she wants to date me first and go from ther, weve been best friends since middle school she knows me very well.But i wouldnt mind that alone but my bestfriend told me that she been getting high and drunk on a daily basis which i dont like her doing because addiction runs in her family.Also my bestfriend said that he saw her with some dude walking to ampm she said she didnt have many friends but thats not to suspicious i guess.I just dont know is this just a dating situation or will it turn into something amazing.I just dont know should i ask her if is seeing other guys or should i just leave it alone
Thanks for any input
You came to the romance forum on 'The Shroomery' because you are worried your 'soulmate' may be drinking and smoking too much? And she spoke to a man?
If your post is valid...I really have no response, but I wonder if you may be violating the age policy. Good luck kid.
~Monk
Yeah no i am 18 and i never used the term soulmate and the onlly reason i posted this on the shroomeries romance forum is because i couldnt get advise from my best friend because hes bias but the problems real and im really 18.Also its not just she spoke to a man my bestfriend said he saw them cuddling up to each other so you got a few of your facts wrong there but yeah dude im really seeking advice here
Quote: Moronicus said: So, you like her but you don't trust her with other guys or her having fun?
In a way idk my bestfriends tells me it might be more than her just having other male friends and thats what worries me.But im totally fine with her having fun with other guys just not to much fun.And she is a very vulernable person easy to take advantage of idk i just dont like it
Is it possible your friend(s) want to fuck her, or otherwise be with her? And it would be in their interest to sow distrust? Do you trust her more, or these friends?
~Monk
See this makes sense because the info im getting is from my bestfiend but i think he is really really jealous because he liked her to but shes always liked me alot more(not tying to be conceded its true) So i have a strong suspicion hes fucking around with my head trying to sow those seeds of distrust as you say because she has no reason to lie to me and shes always had lots of friends so maybey he was exageating to try and get me not to date her.Also he had more of a problem of her dinking than i did.Im going to go with my gut and trust my girl
-------------------- All you need is love
I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?-John Lennon
I'm not going to change the way I look or the way I feel to conform to anything. I've always been a freak. So I've been a freak all my life and I have to live with that, you know. I'm one of those people.
-John Lennon
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Quote: Othyem said: You're not even dating and you're having trust issues with her, and are bitching about her drug use. I would say no, it's probably not going to work.
We are datinng just not boyfriend and girlfriend and DO NOT ASK ME what that means cuz i have no fucking clue but i wasnt the one with trust issues really my best friend has been trying to tell me that she getting out of control and she did say she was going to kill herself after a like 2 day binge so for her own health i want her to get better even if we never become bf gf because ive been best friends with her fo 6 years so i trust her its just my friends are trying to tell me all theese bad things about her and i wanted a fresh opinion
-------------------- All you need is love
I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?-John Lennon
I'm not going to change the way I look or the way I feel to conform to anything. I've always been a freak. So I've been a freak all my life and I have to live with that, you know. I'm one of those people.
-John Lennon
Life is like a dang old rubix cube you get one side right you mess up the other-Boomhauer
To do list-Ketamine, Mushrooms,LSD:,Salvia,DMT,DXM,Cocaine,2c-e,Molly,E,MXE, 4-Aco-DMT, 25inbome,6-APB and 5-meo-dalt
Ive taken all of your advice in consideration thanks everyone for your input.Im not going to say anything about her drinking and im going to ignore my best friends advice about her being loose and drunken i think hes really just jealous im going to continue to date this girl because i think im falling in love with her and little things like just hanging out with another guy or guys, i never cared about it that much untill my friend said something about it.And ill drop little comments here and there about her drinking because i see someone getting an addiction.All of theese things might sound bad to you guys but im falling in love with her and i think i should follow my heart
-------------------- All you need is love
I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?-John Lennon
I'm not going to change the way I look or the way I feel to conform to anything. I've always been a freak. So I've been a freak all my life and I have to live with that, you know. I'm one of those people.
-John Lennon
Life is like a dang old rubix cube you get one side right you mess up the other-Boomhauer
To do list-Ketamine, Mushrooms,LSD:,Salvia,DMT,DXM,Cocaine,2c-e,Molly,E,MXE, 4-Aco-DMT, 25inbome,6-APB and 5-meo-dalt
all that "take it slow" shit is about control. she's known you for a significant portion of her life. what else is there for her to feel out? it seems to me that she wants to date around, have fun but have you around for her emotional needs (because chances are the guys she's running around with are dicks who treat her like shit and she knows you're not going to do her that way).
if you two are really as close as you say, i'd just ask her what the deal is. the worst that can happen is she breaks your heart, and if she's up to what it looks like she's up to, that's bound to happen anyway.
-------------------- It is sometimes an appropriate response to reality to go insane.- Philip K. Dick
Yeah forsure i actually did talk to her about whats going on and i didnt even mention the guy because im sure that was a lie but she told me shes just really depressed and cant really go anywhere now.I dont know this whole sitiuation is getting fucked im going to be direct with her from now on and take out all this guesswork shit
-------------------- All you need is love
I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?-John Lennon
I'm not going to change the way I look or the way I feel to conform to anything. I've always been a freak. So I've been a freak all my life and I have to live with that, you know. I'm one of those people.
-John Lennon
Life is like a dang old rubix cube you get one side right you mess up the other-Boomhauer
To do list-Ketamine, Mushrooms,LSD:,Salvia,DMT,DXM,Cocaine,2c-e,Molly,E,MXE, 4-Aco-DMT, 25inbome,6-APB and 5-meo-dalt
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