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Clubbing is fucking stupid
    #15265970 - 10/23/11 02:04 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I went to a friend's 21st birthday party last night at some club downtown, and it was another shitty reminder of how much I cannot stand those types of scenes.

I don't think the club is to blame though.  I am realizing more and more just how much drinking turns me into a resentful piece of shit, and last night was no exception.  After a couple of hours, the booze starts to make me spiteful and horny, which is not exactly a good disposition for anything.

The first hour of being there was awesome, I was dancing and having a good time and letting the numbness and the blasting music take over my body.  It wasn't until I started to get sick of the music that I really started to get fed up.

When I'd go outside for a smoke, all around me people were making out with each other.  Eventually I concluded that I was the only person without some bitch to get make face sex with.  I was walking around with my thumb up my ass gawking at them wondering what the fuck I was doing wrong.  Honestly, I don't even think I wanted to join in the fun, the idea of making any sort of physically intimate contact with people I don't know is not appealing to me in even the least bit, but it was still one hell of a disconcerting emotion.  I felt rejected and like I had failed myself miserably.

But I think it was just the booze.  Maybe I should start rolling at these types of things if I ever decide to go again?


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #15265986 - 10/23/11 02:07 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Most people at clubs are soulless drones that are basically zombies walking around with a fragment of instinctual impulses trying to get it in. Just watch jersey shore.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: audiophoenix]
    #15266141 - 10/23/11 02:41 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I was always a fan of going to clubs, drinking, dancing... as of recently i have started to not like this. Specially a club/bar on a college campus where everyone pretty much seems the same. people running around. everyone is drunk.. idk.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: dshow]
    #15266147 - 10/23/11 02:43 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

like... i used to be that person. and now i know if i were to mention and droogz.. most of those people would give me a dirty look. im drinking right now so booze aint the problem. its the people. I feel like i have to front or something. Like be a badass and throw up dueces.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15266266 - 10/23/11 03:06 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

when i used to club it was neither here nor there with me... i was there because i was always invited out... i was never one for saying "hey let's hit a club up!", it was always someone else's idea... there were times when i was invited to join where i would say fuck it and not go if i were seeing someone and just went home... today i would never go clubbing, it's behind me... rolling is definitely a good idea...

sounds like you were doing good until the drinks kicked in... alcohol does that to some... it can make you become cynical out of the blue, among other things... if you do decide to go again, minimize the alcohol and drink club soda with a twist... i know, i know... who the fuck wants to drink club soda... you can ask the bartender to pour you juice just be prepared to pay full price...

good luck...

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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15266337 - 10/23/11 03:18 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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Clubbing is fucking stupid.





Yes.  Yes it is.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Tri High]
    #15266367 - 10/23/11 03:23 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Would... semi rolling.. like you know not rolling full on blown face.. be a good idea? Sounds like it would lead to you talking to more girls..?


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: dshow]
    #15266409 - 10/23/11 03:29 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Dude needs balls, not ecstasy.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Tri High]
    #15266459 - 10/23/11 03:37 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

cool. well i have balls. just not the courage. maybe x would help..


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: dshow]
    #15267169 - 10/23/11 05:39 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Drinking gives me all the courage in the world, but its stupid and easily regrettable courage.

Rolling on the other hand doesn't make me a desperate, pathetic mess the way alcohol does.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15267709 - 10/23/11 09:17 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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Drinking gives me all the courage in the world, but its stupid and easily regrettable courage.

Rolling on the other hand doesn't make me a desperate, pathetic mess the way alcohol does.




Alcohol always just made me loud and stupid.

And horny.

Not enough booze in the world to make clubbing tolerable, though.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15267952 - 10/23/11 10:19 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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I went to a friend's 21st birthday party last night at some club downtown, and it was another shitty reminder of how much I cannot stand those types of scenes.

I don't think the club is to blame though.  I am realizing more and more just how much drinking turns me into a resentful piece of shit, and last night was no exception.  After a couple of hours, the booze starts to make me spiteful and horny, which is not exactly a good disposition for anything.

The first hour of being there was awesome, I was dancing and having a good time and letting the numbness and the blasting music take over my body.  It wasn't until I started to get sick of the music that I really started to get fed up.

When I'd go outside for a smoke, all around me people were making out with each other.  Eventually I concluded that I was the only person without some bitch to get make face sex with.  I was walking around with my thumb up my ass gawking at them wondering what the fuck I was doing wrong.  Honestly, I don't even think I wanted to join in the fun, the idea of making any sort of physically intimate contact with people I don't know is not appealing to me in even the least bit, but it was still one hell of a disconcerting emotion.  I felt rejected and like I had failed myself miserably.

But I think it was just the booze.  Maybe I should start rolling at these types of things if I ever decide to go again?




isn't it a lot easier to just goto a bar to get laid?


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: NanoAugmented]
    #15268485 - 10/24/11 12:02 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I enjoy clubs they're about going out with friends and dancing with women.
If neither occur it's not much fun, and getting all intimate is but a sweet bonus.
Bars on the other hand don't do it for me, it's usually so loud I can't hear anyway...and no dancing.
Plus I can party with for practically nothing right now anyway.

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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Deekay]
    #15268719 - 10/24/11 12:57 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I only go if I want to see the Dj there.
For example Porter Robinson Last Thursday.
Just roll face and ignore the club rats. Works for me! :crazy:


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: SARAtonin]
    #15270016 - 10/24/11 10:34 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

clubs are pretty wack unless ur there to dance n theres good music n drugs


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Hologram]
    #15270186 - 10/24/11 11:29 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I hate the clubbing scene. Probably because I don't really enjoy the music. Also because it's usually packed with douche-bags whose sole intention is to get their dicks wet. The only time I went 'clubbing' with a friend, it turned out to be a all dark club. Literally I was the only white dude there, the rest were either black or Indian. It was :feelsweirdman: Standing awkwardly in the mist of big-butt black woman dry humping guys the entire time. :shrug:


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: pescadorabioso]
    #15270261 - 10/24/11 11:51 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Just like how dem do in dem rap videos.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: LobsterSauce]
    #15270759 - 10/24/11 02:03 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

clubbing is pretty lame..

overpriced weak poured drinks with people acting like they are someone and they think certain clubs are a place to be seen.

its kinda a ridiculous atmosphere.

but if you find yourself there may as well make it a good time as possible. sitting through a shitty dj is worse than sitting through a shitty band.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: rackem]
    #15271417 - 10/24/11 04:20 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

this has always been my impression. I Never clubbed in my life, not even once. Mainly because its not the type of music i like. sometimes i have the impression that i have deluded myself into thinking that its shitty but you guys are confirming my beliefs.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Vsnares.Zappa]
    #15271846 - 10/24/11 05:50 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Go to a club on a bunch of MDMA, you will have fun for sure, and you will have the energy to party all nite. Check out the hot girls, maybe get a BJ in the mens room, clubs can get fun bro!!!


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: qman]
    #15272445 - 10/24/11 08:13 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Clubs are cool when I go with friends and with my own drugs. I wouldn't want to go there searching for stuff though, either company or drugs. People suck and buying drugs in clubs is sketchy.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Joolz]
    #15274322 - 10/25/11 02:11 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I enjoy going to clubs with chicks.  If you go with a group of guys you look like a bunch of creeps.  When I go with chicks they just talk to other chicks and bring them over to dance with me.  It seems to work pretty well :shrug:.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #15275468 - 10/25/11 11:54 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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I enjoy going to clubs with chicks.  If you go with a group of guys you look like a bunch of creeps.  When I go with chicks they just talk to other chicks and bring them over to dance with me.  It seems to work pretty well :shrug:.




You're only going to look like creeps if you are creeps...

If you went with a group of guys who all dance and chat to girls then what's wrong with that?

That's kind of what people do at clubs...

Letting loose and having fun, not analysing the surroundings...

If the music and the people are good then it would be good.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: LobsterSauce]
    #15276090 - 10/25/11 02:34 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

There's nothing wrong with it per se, but it never ends up being a great night for me.  I'm not very good at breaking the ice with random people, I'm not really a funny guy, so I don't end up doing a whole lot other than dancing by myself.  Also, how do you chat with people when you can't hear anything?


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #15276644 - 10/25/11 04:34 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

yea i cant hear shit. That has turned me away from it.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: SARAtonin]
    #15276715 - 10/25/11 04:48 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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I only go if I want to see the Dj there.



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Just roll face and ignore the club rats.



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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: tripleclick]
    #15281476 - 10/26/11 04:54 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

After I went to my first rave I decided never to go clubbing again.

Raves are void of drunk douchebags, everyone is there to enjoy themselves and have fun.  People dance in their own space for fun and if you bump into someone its all smiles and no fights.

Furthermore, I get hit on by girls way more at raves than bars.  At bars or clubs women can be very protective etc, but everyone is way more open at raves (MDMA is wonderful, aint it?).

Lastly the music is 10000x better!


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Cannashroom]
    #15282152 - 10/26/11 07:34 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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After I went to my first rave I decided never to go clubbing again.

Raves are void of drunk douchebags, everyone is there to enjoy themselves and have fun.  People dance in their own space for fun and if you bump into someone its all smiles and no fights.

Furthermore, I get hit on by girls way more at raves than bars.  At bars or clubs women can be very protective etc, but everyone is way more open at raves (MDMA is wonderful, aint it?).

Lastly the music is 10000x better!




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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: shimishimiman]
    #15285939 - 10/27/11 02:42 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Depends on the club, the people and the music.  That makes up "The Scene".

One of the big big reasons I would rarely ever get to a club before 12am are the alcoholics.  Clubs stop serving alcohol at 2am so you know they will be out of there soon enough.

Most clubs I use to go to were After-Hours anyways.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Cannashroom]
    #15286765 - 10/27/11 05:26 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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After I went to my first rave I decided never to go clubbing again.

Raves are void of drunk douchebags, everyone is there to enjoy themselves and have fun.  People dance in their own space for fun and if you bump into someone its all smiles and no fights.

Furthermore, I get hit on by girls way more at raves than bars.  At bars or clubs women can be very protective etc, but everyone is way more open at raves (MDMA is wonderful, aint it?).

Lastly the music is 10000x better!




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    #15286839 - 10/27/11 05:41 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I've only been to a club a few times and yes, they usually do suck. Guys out number women 3:1 in most cases and god forbid you make the mistake of bringing your girlfriend with you. Youll have every drunk jersey shore wannabe hitting on her and getting pissed off.


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    #15286886 - 10/27/11 05:53 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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After I went to my first rave I decided never to go clubbing again.

Raves are void of drunk douchebags, everyone is there to enjoy themselves and have fun.  People dance in their own space for fun and if you bump into someone its all smiles and no fights.

Furthermore, I get hit on by girls way more at raves than bars.  At bars or clubs women can be very protective etc, but everyone is way more open at raves (MDMA is wonderful, aint it?).

Lastly the music is 10000x better!






I find most raves to have a similar vibe to clubs but with different clothing and more drugs.


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    #15286895 - 10/27/11 05:54 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: TTT]
    #15286899 - 10/27/11 05:54 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

more drugs makes everything better.


Festivals is where its at!


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    #15287430 - 10/27/11 07:53 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Festivals aren't even in the same league as clubs and raves. Its like eating acid (festivals) compared to huffing paint (clubs/raves).


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: shimishimiman]
    #15287743 - 10/27/11 09:01 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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After I went to my first rave I decided never to go clubbing again.

Raves are void of drunk douchebags, everyone is there to enjoy themselves and have fun.  People dance in their own space for fun and if you bump into someone its all smiles and no fights.

Furthermore, I get hit on by girls way more at raves than bars.  At bars or clubs women can be very protective etc, but everyone is way more open at raves (MDMA is wonderful, aint it?).

Lastly the music is 10000x better!







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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Joolz]
    #15287919 - 10/27/11 09:32 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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Festivals aren't even in the same league as clubs and raves. Its like eating acid (festivals) compared to huffing paint (clubs/raves).





wouldnt say that true at all. Ive been to a few smaller events that blew any festival out of the water anyday. Vibes are much better at smaller events. Less shadyness


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: dshow]
    #15287930 - 10/27/11 09:34 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

I only go to small festivals where the vibes are heady and the douche bags don't exist (or well, not in large numbers).


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Joolz]
    #15287955 - 10/27/11 09:38 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

i was bout to say...


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Joolz]
    #15287963 - 10/27/11 09:40 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

There were so many douchebags at the Austin Reggae Fest that I practically grew a vagina for the sake of douching it.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: dshow]
    #15288067 - 10/27/11 09:59 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Festivals aren't even in the same league as clubs and raves. Its like eating acid (festivals) compared to huffing paint (clubs/raves).




It's like paying for acid (festivals) compared to getting acid for free (raves)

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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Beanhead]
    #15288138 - 10/27/11 10:13 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

Eh, raves are probably close to festivals, I just really like festivals a lot. Clubs suck dick though, that's true.

Small festivals are the shit though. Couple thousand people, cover bands, on a small little plot of land somewhere. That's where the real drugs and real people are.

The main difference between raves and festivals is that you can actually talk to people at festivals, go to their camp and rage with them, etc. At raves you have to go outside, which in result is going through security (which they were dicks at the last rave I was at), or yelling at the top of your lungs over womp womp.

Festivals definitely win though imo. I enjoy working the lot while drunk/ondrugs/both, and I also enjoy actually talking to people while we party.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Joolz]
    #15291092 - 10/28/11 03:50 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

If you go to a place that isnt your scene prepare to have a weird time. There are clubs of all kinds, the ones that cater to a generalized mainstream audience tend to be very soulless places. Ive been to tons of bars and clubs, the only ones i like are the industrial/goth clubs. Why? My kind of people, my kind of music. Whats your niche? Find out where they gather, go and be open and you will probably make some friends. Try going a few times, if you have a repeating presence others who do as well will notice you.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: PulseEden]
    #15292938 - 10/28/11 10:58 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

^^ True that. I've made lots of friends over my short time going to shows and festivals and such just because I partied with the same people a couple times.

Now I'll make special trips just to party with them, and we all met at a rave the first time.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Joolz]
    #15304353 - 10/31/11 05:32 PM (1 year, 6 months ago)

i went 'clubbing' on mdma last week for my friends birthday. i'm into electronic music but i go to 'nights' for this kind of thing.

anyways,

it was awful, tolerated it for about one hour and then went back to my friends house and rolled (as you Americans say) with a few close friends and my girlfriend. always tend to enjoy mdma more when i'm with a small group of close friends.

its just the aggro/pure testosterone vibe at these clubs that does my fucking head in. alcohol tends to make it seem bearable to me but thats because it turns me into a loud tnuc.

bottom line is, i no longer drink (unless it's a house party) and i certainly don't associate my self with these bellends in these so called 'clubs'.


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Re: Clubbing is fucking stupid [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #15307656 - 11/01/11 09:12 AM (1 year, 6 months ago)

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I went to a friend's 21st birthday party last night at some club downtown, and it was another shitty reminder of how much I cannot stand those types of scenes.

I don't think the club is to blame though.  I am realizing more and more just how much drinking turns me into a resentful piece of shit, and last night was no exception.  After a couple of hours, the booze starts to make me spiteful and horny, which is not exactly a good disposition for anything.

The first hour of being there was awesome, I was dancing and having a good time and letting the numbness and the blasting music take over my body.  It wasn't until I started to get sick of the music that I really started to get fed up.

When I'd go outside for a smoke, all around me people were making out with each other.  Eventually I concluded that I was the only person without some bitch to get make face sex with.  I was walking around with my thumb up my ass gawking at them wondering what the fuck I was doing wrong.  Honestly, I don't even think I wanted to join in the fun, the idea of making any sort of physically intimate contact with people I don't know is not appealing to me in even the least bit, but it was still one hell of a disconcerting emotion.  I felt rejected and like I had failed myself miserably.

But I think it was just the booze.  Maybe I should start rolling at these types of things if I ever decide to go again?




Hey man, the club can be a rough place if you're not up for it.  I've been there, and if you've struck out the entire night and your not rolling/high/stoned, it sucks balls.  Don't beat yourself up over it, just chalk it up as a learning experience and move on.  E would definitely be a good idea, if you can't find molly.  Next time if it starts to suck for you go find a bar someplace close.  IMHO bars are WAY better than clubs if you find the right one.


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