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 Re: girlfriend issues  [Re: Hologram]
#15176472 - 10/04/11 02:23 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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Hologram said:
just figure her for a filthy whore while ur hittin it. Punish her for banging those other dudes when she should have been saving that precious pussy till you came along.
 haha, this right here, all day long!
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vengeful fucksesh, FTW!
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drr
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It was before you were dating AND she never even lied to you about it. You shouldn't even care. Evolve.
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amberella1989
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Lol, yea, dishonesty is always the best medicine in starting a relationship.
its not about being dishonest. Its about knowing that before you, they had sex with other people, fell in love with other people, but you dont need to know the specifics, it was before you, and knowing details isnt going to be a good thing, i think. its better to just leave those things unsaid. I mean, do you really wanna know if the girl your falling in love with went through a slutty stage and has some crazy high number?It might not effect you negatively, but its not effect you positively either, so why bother?
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Re: girlfriend issues [Re: drr]
#15176501 - 10/04/11 02:29 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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It was before you were dating AND she never even lied to you about it. You shouldn't even care. Evolve.
Many of you had good responses, this is the kind of stuff i need to hear. Telling myself it just doesnt work
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Lol, yea, dishonesty is always the best medicine in starting a relationship.
its not about being dishonest. Its about knowing that before you, they had sex with other people, fell in love with other people, but you dont need to know the specifics, it was before you, and knowing details isn't going to be a good thing, i think. its better to just leave those things unsaid. I mean, do you really wanna know if the girl your falling in love with went through a slutty stage and has some crazy high number?It might not effect you negatively, but its not effect you positively either, so why bother?
I agree; the past should stay in the past. It would be incredibly hard to evolve a relationship if both partners were fixated on who and how many previous partners they had.
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Herbologist said:
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drr said:
It was before you were dating AND she never even lied to you about it. You shouldn't even care. Evolve.
Many of you had good responses, this is the kind of stuff i need to hear. Telling myself it just doesnt work
I know it's hard man. I've been in your shoes. I learned at some point that if I want to be happy I can't concern myself with shit like that. But I know how it feels to be in a relationship and to worry about these things. It's not easy but you'll be a lot happier if you can show the girl unconditional love. If you can't then it probably wasn't meant to be anyway.
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Re: girlfriend issues [Re: drr]
#15176533 - 10/04/11 02:37 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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Psybe said:
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amberella1989 said:
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Psybe said:
Lol, yea, dishonesty is always the best medicine in starting a relationship.
its not about being dishonest. Its about knowing that before you, they had sex with other people, fell in love with other people, but you dont need to know the specifics, it was before you, and knowing details isn't going to be a good thing, i think. its better to just leave those things unsaid. I mean, do you really wanna know if the girl your falling in love with went through a slutty stage and has some crazy high number?It might not effect you negatively, but its not effect you positively either, so why bother?
I agree; the past should stay in the past. It would be incredibly hard to evolve a relationship if both partners were fixated on who and how many previous partners they had.
Defintely should stay in the past, I agree 100% with what you're saying.
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Herbologist said:
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drr said:
It was before you were dating AND she never even lied to you about it. You shouldn't even care. Evolve.
Many of you had good responses, this is the kind of stuff i need to hear. Telling myself it just doesnt work
I know it's hard man. I've been in your shoes. I learned at some point that if I want to be happy I can't concern myself with shit like that. But I know how it feels to be in a relationship and to worry about these things. It's not easy but you'll be a lot happier if you can show the girl unconditional love. If you can't then it probably wasn't meant to be anyway.
Exactly. At first it just really hurt, but I do want to be with her cause she is so amazing. I'll have to try not to concern myself with bullshit anymore
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yeah move past it, and try not to let the thought set up shop in your head
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I guess I just don't really understand what your upset about? It's not like she went and slept with your friend knowing that someday she will be with you just to hurt you later on down the road. What I say next is unrational but just as rational as your feelings now; do you think about the fact that your friend slept with her first, and then you came and took her and now he's hurt because he had her first? I mean Im not hating on you but man people have sex, it's natural.
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Re: girlfriend issues [Re: trekie]
#15176694 - 10/04/11 03:13 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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most
awesome
gramelin
Ever.
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Re: girlfriend issues [Re: Hologram]
#15176974 - 10/04/11 04:22 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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burn her nipples
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Re: girlfriend issues (moved) [Re: Herbologist]
#15176982 - 10/04/11 04:24 PM (1 year, 7 months ago) |
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 This thread was moved from The Pub.
Reason:
Fits better here.
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HELLA_TIGHT
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It's not like she cheated on you.
She probably didn't tell you because she knows you're friends with him.
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Now that I love her, hearing of another guy touching her infuriates me.
Suga Free would NOT be amused.
Quit that trickin' shit.
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One, it shouldn't matter how many guys she's been with. And if it was just one time, then most people don't want to admit or bring it up, due to what people think (such as how you feel now). If she just didn't bring it up, that's one thing - if you made her swear on a bible and asked her how many people she's slept with, and she left it out, that may be another....
Personally? It's the past. You weren't going out with her. She didn't cheat on that person then, and hasn't cheated on you now. I'd just continue the relationship. Why does it matter how many people? What should matter is the here and now, IMO.
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