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Anonymous #12
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 Re: Would you date a woman who has kids?  [Re: Anonymous #11]
#15071708 - 09/13/11 09:09 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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If you date a woman with kids you will be devoting your resources toward helping to raise some other man's DNA. The other man is laughing as his seeds are nourished with your hard work. Use your energy toward promoting and protecting your own DNA so you will achieve genetic immortality. That is the meaning of life and you'll probably go to hell for fucking this up. At least that is my interpretation of Christian scripture.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #12]
#15071913 - 09/13/11 10:28 AM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Hey stupid you ever hear of Saint Joseph?
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #12]
#15072288 - 09/13/11 12:28 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Anonymous #12 said:
If you date a woman with kids you will be devoting your resources toward helping to raise some other man's DNA. The other man is laughing as his seeds are nourished with your hard work. Use your energy toward promoting and protecting your own DNA so you will achieve genetic immortality. That is the meaning of life and you'll probably go to hell for fucking this up. At least that is my interpretation of Christian scripture.
The original man has to pay child support / alimony as well... If I wanted to be an equivalent douche, I could laugh all the way to the weed dealer with his money.
But I'm not like that.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15073319 - 09/13/11 04:19 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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it's definitely true. if a woman like that existed, then why is the man who planted his seed no longer in the picture?
she did something wrong.
I was actually a kid.
He was 19. I was 13.
Kids make mistakes and I take responsibility for that even though lack of parental supervision and statutory rape would be easy things to point a finger at. Creeps take advantage of kids.
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If you date a woman with kids you will be devoting your resources toward helping to raise some other man's DNA. The other man is laughing as his seeds are nourished with your hard work. Use your energy toward promoting and protecting your own DNA so you will achieve genetic immortality. That is the meaning of life and you'll probably go to hell for fucking this up. At least that is my interpretation of Christian scripture.
The original man has to pay child support / alimony as well... If I wanted to be an equivalent douche, I could laugh all the way to the weed dealer with his money.
But I'm not like that.
to anon 12 - That's the thing. I haven't expected any man to help raise someone else's DNA. I've done all of the hard work myself and never looked for a replacement baby daddy. All I want out of a relationship now is love exchange and growth. Of course it would be important that he get along with the kids, but that's really not a hard thing to do since they are practically grown. None of us want some guy to come along and play super step dad.
Never received child support either. Dude was an abusive stalker, so I moved thousands of miles away so all of us could grow up in relative peace. Three years ago I finally decided to pursue child support and it turns out he is on disability, so all I get is $250 a month for the last few years of their childhood and the government pays that. $250 a month doesn't even cover half the cost of food.
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anyway, this thread wasn't started to villify me. I just wanted to know how many men out there would give a lady a chance. Perhaps the shroomery isn't the best place to ask such questions, especially when trolls can hide behind anonymous posts, but I also know there are some really awesome people on this website and that I'd get a variety of opinions.
Edited by Anonymous (09/13/11 04:27 PM)
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Anonymous #12
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #6]  1
#15073403 - 09/13/11 04:36 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Hey stupid you ever hear of Saint Joseph?
St. Joseph Molloy.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #12]
#15073424 - 09/13/11 04:39 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Hey stupid you ever hear of Saint Joseph?
St. Joseph Molloy.
that's the funniest thing I've heard/read/seen all day.
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Is Joe Molloy trolling my thread? What a fucking honor to have the most enlightened, self rightous asshole at the shroomery wasting his time here.
I love that guy and all his fucked upness.
Edited by Anonymous (09/13/11 04:42 PM)
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Anonymous #12
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15074311 - 09/13/11 07:37 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Believe it. I'm just giving you Evolutionary Psychology viewpoint of your dilemma. The humanistic version says that if she's a quality woman and she makes you happy then go for it. Her kids seem okay too, so that's another point in your favor. DMT is bullshit and mescaline ain't too far behind.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #12]
#15074546 - 09/13/11 08:42 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Believe it. I'm just giving you Evolutionary Psychology viewpoint of your dilemma. The humanistic version says that if she's a quality woman and she makes you happy then go for it. Her kids seem okay too, so that's another point in your favor. DMT is bullshit and mescaline ain't too far behind.
Can I have all of your cactus?
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Anonymous #12
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#15074692 - 09/13/11 09:12 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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I'd say my next trip or two is going to put me over the edge and then I'll rip up all the cactus in my yard and incinerate them in the barbecue as an offering to the gods to return my sanity. You're invited to the party.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #12]
#15074712 - 09/13/11 09:15 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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i call bullshit. 
Joe is a punk, but he pays attention.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15074748 - 09/13/11 09:22 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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OP, you can bring the new lady and her kids to the party too. Good times for everyone and everybody leaves with a burnt cutting.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #12]
#15074765 - 09/13/11 09:25 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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lol op IS the lady with the kids
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Anonymous #13
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#15074805 - 09/13/11 09:31 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Would you date a woman who's only major "drawback" is that she has kids?
Not even little kids, almost grown teens.
In all other areas of life she is totally rad, self supportive, open minded, no drama, not clingy or crazy, pretty attractive. And consider that the kids are also low drama, don't get into or cause trouble.
If you wouldn't - why?
No such woman exists.
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it's definitely true. if a woman like that existed, then why is the man who planted his seed no longer in the picture?
she did something wrong.
exactly what i was thinking reading the OP. women who start out stating how awesome they are, are always lying.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#15074832 - 09/13/11 09:36 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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I'd have to leave the kids at home, but would totally accept the invite myself.
One of them is an athiest and I think it is dangerous for athiests in crisis to take psychedelics... protective mama instincts.
He might end up as confused, shipwrecked, and lost as the real Joe Molloy if he saw god before he was ready to accept his inner divinity.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15074847 - 09/13/11 09:38 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Good looking out for the children. You are ready to be with this woman and the kids need you in their lives. What if JoeMolloy were one of her kids?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #13]
#15074930 - 09/13/11 09:54 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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Would you date a woman who's only major "drawback" is that she has kids?
Not even little kids, almost grown teens.
In all other areas of life she is totally rad, self supportive, open minded, no drama, not clingy or crazy, pretty attractive. And consider that the kids are also low drama, don't get into or cause trouble.
If you wouldn't - why?
No such woman exists.
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it's definitely true. if a woman like that existed, then why is the man who planted his seed no longer in the picture?
she did something wrong.
exactly what i was thinking reading the OP. women who start out stating how awesome they are, are always lying.
alright I can see why you guys would call me out there. I'm far from perfect and have my dysfunction for sure, but I was really trying to paint a picture.
Decent person. Learns from mistakes. Respects people. Respects self.
I really do possess all of those traits on a spectrum. Everyone does and is capable, it just seems that shroomery men think all women are this stereotypical bitch, and I don't fit that mold, so was trying to establish that so things could be taken into perspective by those interested in chiming in on this thread.
One of the benefits of not getting to live out my childhood, teens, and 20's as most people do is that it made me hit fast forward in the maturity department and able to cut through a lot of my own bullshit for the sake of other people. I really am a pretty decent person who despises drama and the ridiculous emotional outbursts that most women are prone to/known for.
So yeah, I'm fucked up just like everyone else, but also aspiring towards the light. I don't mind admitting to being/acting wrong and changing myself. I've spent a lot of time consciously preparing for a successful relationship and trying to create the kind of person I'd imagine would be an ideal mate.
How many people do that prior to jumping into relationship after relationship?
so cut a lady some motherfucking slack.
I don't need any of you to validate my awesomeness. It's kind of sad that you naysayers automatically think no one with those traits exists. Law of attraction- check it out.
It's all a big fat anonymous, subjective situation anyway.
Edited by Anonymous (09/13/11 09:58 PM)
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Anonymous #13
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15075023 - 09/13/11 10:10 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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i'll give you the benefit of the doubt, but life has taught me that the women that say they aren't crazy and aren't bitches etc, always turn out to be the worst. always. modesty is key.
granted we males tend to paint females in a bad light, and history has taught us so in the same way women paint men in a bad light. granted there probably are great women out there, somewhere. but i haven't met m(any), and those that are worth it are always taken.
most men i know will run if a woman has children, but i'm still fairly young. i might run, it really depends on the woman and what she wants out of me and a relationship.
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Anonymous #14
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#15075034 - 09/13/11 10:12 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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That's why divorce is a sin and why women should be pure until marriage. Praise the baby Jeebus.
haha
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #13]
#15075111 - 09/13/11 10:25 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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i'll give you the benefit of the doubt, but life has taught me that the women that say they aren't crazy and aren't bitches etc, always turn out to be the worst. always. modesty is key.
granted we males tend to paint females in a bad light, and history has taught us so in the same way women paint men in a bad light. granted there probably are great women out there, somewhere. but i haven't met m(any), and those that are worth it are always taken.
most men i know will run if a woman has children, but i'm still fairly young. i might run, it really depends on the woman and what she wants out of me and a relationship.
here's a question...
if i hadn't stated some positive traits, would you not have automatically assumed "crazy bitch"?
I agree, modesty is a virtue. I'd never in a million years say such things out loud to people or even under my shroomery username because it does totally sound like a complete narcissist talking there, but again... I was trying to illustrate. perhaps I went overboard. oops.
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Anonymous #13
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Re: Would you date a woman who has kids? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#15075122 - 09/13/11 10:27 PM (1 year, 8 months ago) |
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honestly i assume every female is a crazy bitch until she proves otherwise. it's like assuming all people have common sense, when they don't.
your posts make me think you are genuine though.
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