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 Wacking off with sig. other in room? 
#14821298 - 07/25/11 10:26 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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If you are horny and your other isn't, is it weird to whack off while they are in the bedroom with you, i.e. going to sleep or sleeping?
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 koraks
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14821314 - 07/25/11 10:33 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Uhm, depends...it can be, especially if she doesn't know and you suspect she'll take offense. So as with all other relationship stuff: talk it over. Or just don't jack off and wait 'till she's horny again.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #1]  3
#14821481 - 07/25/11 11:54 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Ehh I have done it a few times. It can be awkward, especially as it normally happens when your SO is already pissed at you for some reason or another, but you just have to focus, ignore any bitching, finish like a boss, and go to sleep.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14821488 - 07/25/11 11:58 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I've done this twice before. Sometimes you just need to get to sleep, but you're just too damn horny. I got a memory foam mattress... you know, the one that won't spill the wine when you walk on it... so it doesn't transfer the motion of my spanking my monkey as much as a spring mattress would. You just gotta go slow and focus and you should be good.
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#14821651 - 07/25/11 12:49 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Women get severely pissed when you do this. It's like saying, "You're just not good enough, I'm going back to my hand." Kind of a massive bitch slap in regards to relationships. Even if they don't say they mind it, they still do.
Unless she's a hardcore nympho who gets off 24/7 with toys and occasionally you. That's the only loophole.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Cutless]
#14821842 - 07/25/11 01:37 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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My question would be why stay in bed to do it? Why not go to another room? If she's sleeping and you want to look at her that's one thing. But if she's trying to go to sleep, and has already turned you down, then yes, that would probably be weird and piss her off.
There are always exceptions and I think that depends on your relationship and how secure she is in it, how secure she is with herself and her sexuality and the level of her sex drive. My guy did this one night. I was awakened by the motion of the bed and it was an instant turn-on. I pretended to be asleep for a while cause I was enjoying it but then I just couldn't take the excitement anymore and had to pounce.
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Cutless] 1
#14821903 - 07/25/11 01:53 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Cutless said:
Women get severely pissed when you do this. It's like saying, "You're just not good enough, I'm going back to my hand."
No, it really depends on the person you're talking about. Women who behave the way you're describing are either immature or selfish- or too stupid to know you whack it when they arent around anyway....
honestly most emotionally mature women would not find this to be a turn off.
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Cutless]
#14821919 - 07/25/11 01:57 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I wouldn't say it's a bitch slap, but to avoid the awkwardness, that's why I said to do it quietly and go slowly. The reason to not go in a different room is that my wife usually wakes up shortly after I leave the bed. It's like a sixth sense.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#14822896 - 07/25/11 05:12 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Its just that I am horny and they are tired. It's a dude (and Im a dude) so I don't think they would get offended, I just wanna get off before I go to bed. I don't go in another room because I have roommates too, and it would be weird if I just went to the bathroom for 10 minutes before bed and all other rooms are obviously off limits.
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14823278 - 07/25/11 06:32 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
If you are horny and your other isn't, is it weird to whack off while they are in the bedroom with you, i.e. going to sleep or sleeping?
No.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#14823300 - 07/25/11 06:38 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I've done it before. My boyfriend was drunk and passed out so I went to town. I got off fairly quick because the thought of him waking up to what I was doing turned me on
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#14823400 - 07/25/11 07:06 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
My question would be why stay in bed to do it? Why not go to another room? If she's sleeping and you want to look at her that's one thing. But if she's trying to go to sleep, and has already turned you down, then yes, that would probably be weird and piss her off.
There are always exceptions and I think that depends on your relationship and how secure she is in it, how secure she is with herself and her sexuality and the level of her sex drive. My guy did this one night. I was awakened by the motion of the bed and it was an instant turn-on. I pretended to be asleep for a while cause I was enjoying it but then I just couldn't take the excitement anymore and had to pounce.
But I am in my own bed... she is staying over as a guest. If she isn't in the mood to even lend a helping hand, then oh well she is welcome to leave the room, or she can deal with a little awkwardness for a few minutes so I can get some sleep.
I never really understood why it pisses girls off. There is no insult to you because I already asked and got turned down. If she was asleep and I woke her up doing it I would understand, but its normally right before we are going to go to sleep.
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#14823749 - 07/25/11 08:10 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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If woman was not in the food for it and went to sleep then I see nothing wrong. I'be been in situation four or five times over 5 years and twice where I wasn't in the mood. First time it was due to drugs and second time I heard her I instantly became in mood (friend had died that day).
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: withoutawire]
#14824695 - 07/25/11 11:13 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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If they can't accept you rubbing one out/off after turning you down, then you need to have a talk to them; and explain that your hand isn't in competition with them. Also, that you simply did it to make the horny go away, and not to find an alternative to them.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: naturesrevolt]
#14827744 - 07/26/11 04:11 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah, I've done it after she was asleep when she turned me down or just conked out. Otherwise I'll go into the computer room/office an wack it to pr0n.
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#14829056 - 07/26/11 08:22 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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It's important to make it clear to your partner about what's going if she catches you, because woman think differently than men and that does not institutionally make sense as a first thought.
There is an excitement while she is next to you sleeping that can be more exciting than going in other room.
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: withoutawire]
#14835718 - 07/28/11 12:03 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I think it is ok if your partner is a male and you rub one out.
But definitely not if your partner is female and your trying to sneak a spank session.
They really take it personal... I couldn't imagine getting busted in the act... Girls do not want to know you are masturbating. It is ok to do it, but they do not want to know or find out.
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: ribbit]
#14835845 - 07/28/11 12:26 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Broo totally feel your pain, sometimes me and my lady are kissing for 10+ mins, and she will push me off and go to sleep leaving me with a dinosaur penis ready to rip into some meat yo, but yea i have done it many times with her right next too me. First few times were like WTF, but after she got used to it and i guess was happy because i didnt keep begging her  ahhh.... depressing...
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Krash Kharma
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: ribbit]
#14836111 - 07/28/11 01:22 AM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
ribbit said:
I think it is ok if your partner is a male and you rub one out.
But definitely not if your partner is female and your trying to sneak a spank session.
They really take it personal... I couldn't imagine getting busted in the act... Girls do not want to know you are masturbating. It is ok to do it, but they do not want to know or find out.
You must fuck some lame-ass prude-ass tight-ass girls then
Try getting a bitch with a more open mind. Slapping your meat is only a problem if it's keeping you from having sex; if your girlfriend says otherwise, educate and/or leave her. That ho's most likely rubbing herself out all the time and not feeling a drop of guilt anyways.
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Re: Wacking off with sig. other in room? [Re: Krash Kharma] 1
#14838194 - 07/28/11 01:10 PM (1 year, 9 months ago) |
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I dunno.. I've known girls who want to have phone sex with me and if I don't cum while on the phone with them they are mad, lol..
I think it depends on the girl/guy you are with.. If they are sexually comfortable they will either be turned on by it or won't mind at all. Hell when I was with my EX there was definitely a handful of times where I got denied so I just let it go right next to her while she was sleeping. She never woke up but if she did I wouldn't have cared in the slightest.. I'd probably throw some on her face in spite for turning me down if she did, LOL
I also know girls who like to masturbate together.. fucking get off on that shit.
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